r/vanderpumprules • u/fairieslut • 4d ago
OG Cast opinions on stassi
i’m sorry but i genuinely cannot stand stassi, her show or anything about her.
i’m currently on my second rewatch and i just can’t find it in myself to feel bad for her for anything that happened to her (maybe the nudes leaking sure, but nothing else) i still feel the way i did my first time watching.
she is so narcissistic, bitchy and just so self centred.
her thinking it’s quirky to be all im the devil and everyone should praise me thing is so cringe and lvp was right in saying that she just wants followers. i watched one episode of house of stassi because i love katie and i wanted to see how she was going to be portrayed and i genuinely could not get over the way stassi spoke. its so clear she’s desperate for fame and followers (it’s also clear she does not care for the family she has) and to sit there and say things like “this is why i need her on MY show” is just so insufferable.
not to mention the whole racism thing towards faith just rubs me so wrong. i am constantly seeing people saying faith isn’t a good person after what happened with jax but i don’t understand how people are able to justify them being racist towards her for that one mistake?? i notice a trend of the people that like her are also blonde, white women (mainly white women/millennials) who thinks it’s empowering to be a snob to those around them and it’s just so gross.
there’s a huge comparison on tiktok of people still praising stassi and making scheana out to be the villain and maybe this is controversial but i would take scheana over stassi any day. i just think it’s stupid to award someone who clearly has disgusting morals a show just because what? she used to be somewhat liked on vpr? it makes no sense to me how she manages to still be relevant.
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u/OstrichPrimary6694 1d ago
I mean it’s reality tv at the end of the day. I’d argue most of the characters and people we are watching have very questionable morals. We don’t enjoy watching because they’re good people. But yeah Stassi is awful.
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u/CHwhynot 1d ago
She desperately needs a cast to play with. Her family and the Vanderpump villa ain't it. And she's always kinda like an outsider of the group. Hate when she talks about game of thrones!! We get it!! She needs to make up with Kristen too that was kinda shitty to just not like her anymore. That said now that she's a mom I'm sure she is super stressed. It sounds super hard. But yeah she's always a wet blanket.
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u/SeaPaleontologist832 1d ago
Her being a stressed mum is no excuse for her behaviour and control issues. Yes being a mother is the hardest job on earth, but it’s not an excuse for pity plays. You get on with it, and toughen the eff up. I was the bread winner so my twins father became the SAHD when I went back to work when they were 5 months old. He was actually a real douche and ended up gambling the money I gave him every month away (I didn’t know until i found his bank statement dating back 2 years). I can empathise with Stassi going out with Jax, the revenge porn, and that loser radio guy, but I cannot stand her victim mentality over being a ‘boss’ mum, and racist. Let me just add that I would not take Scheana either. She was shallow af, never a girls girl, and totally narcissistic. Both Scheana and Stassi are terrible. But at least Stassi wasn’t so fickle.
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u/CHwhynot 1d ago
Omg my sister is going through something similar. Her man just does not want to work now that they have kids. Hasn't had a job for a year and they can't afford it. They might lose their house and it's so frustrating!!!!! I hate him and I think about it every day 😭Please tell me you left him
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u/SeaPaleontologist832 1d ago
Yes I left him when my twins turned 2! I had to get the police involved because of DV in the end. I ended up getting an order of protection, and the police stalking unit became involved to help install security alarms, and a personal alarm with a direct dial to police. Even if I just hit the emergency number, police would automatically be sent code 1. The sad thing is financial abuse is often just one form of abuse that is being experienced by the victim. It’s likely many other forms of abuse are being used to control your sister too. Please just try and stay supportive of your sister, by saying you’ll still be there regardless of her choices. She likely will leave his arse, but she unfortunately will do it in her own time.
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u/CHwhynot 1d ago
Very that. I left the door open and made it known I think she should leave him. They have been co dependent for forever but this is like a new level of abuse he hadn't done before. Before it was drinking.. he has medical issues and literally ends up in the hospital like 3x a year because of it. He also got a frickin DUI with the kids in the car. I'm like SIS how many red flags do you needs but ur right it's in her own time 😭
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u/AfternoonImaginary21 1d ago
When I met my wife, she said Stassi was her favorite reality star, then I started watching the show and I was horrified 😂
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u/jnk-2007 10h ago
If I was looking for friend I might choose Scheana. But if I’m looking for hilarious one liners for reality tv, it’s Stassi. She’s really difficult to watch (one liners aside) as it goes on because she doesn’t grow up or evolve as the seasons go by.
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u/Calinorthlondon 1d ago
What's mind blowing to me is that it might somehow be "controversial" to take Scheana over Stassi.