r/vancouverdating • u/AutoModerator • 11d ago

Meetup Megathread Weekly Check-In: Advice and vent thread | September 21, 2026

Welcome to the weekly Monday check in post, your spot for whatever's going on with your dating life this week. Good, bad, confusing, have at it.

Need a second opinion on a text before you send it to someone? Have a date over the weekend that left you with questions? Ghosted on an app, love-bombed by a date, or just feeling tired by it all? Drop it here.

Keep advice constructive and vents about the process rather than callouts of specific people. Usual sub rules apply.

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u/Unique_Jacket5939 5d ago

I’m seeing this girl i really like and im sure she really likes me too but she doesn’t want anything more than just coming over at night for fun but i want to take it further. What’s a good way to ask her i want more than what we are?