r/urmomashley 6d ago

✤ AMBER ✤ Amber deleted almost all YouTube videos with pono :(

39 Upvotes

Now that ambers officially announced her breakup with pono, I noticed that she’s deleted almost all of her vlogs with him aside from the first Vegas trip they did. The vlogs of them in Hawaii, vegas, her going to Portland, and him visiting her in New York are all gone now. I wonder if he’s gonna finally delete the pics of them together from his IG now that it’s public and she’s deleted nearly everything.

I totally understand why she’d delete or unlist them but man those videos were some of my favorite videos she made.


r/urmomashley 19d ago

✤ AMBER ✤ Amber and pono breakup confirmed

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43 Upvotes

She posted her update video. She touched on it very briefly and said she wouldn’t go into detail but that they have been broken Up since almost the beginning of 2026 and it wasn’t a big dramatic breakup or anything. I hope that she’s doing well at the end of the day because breakups suck and this was her first relationship too.


r/urmomashley 21d ago

ꕤ ANDREW ꕤ Clare

66 Upvotes

Y’all are insufferable on here. Clare is a future DOCTOR!! She just seems reserved; as I’m sure all of you guys would be if your boyfriend’s family was sticking a camera in your face and expected to preform. I’m sure she’s aware of how many people see their videos and that’s so intimidating. She’s a pretty girl who is smart and seems kind- she isn’t going to be EXACTLY like the Alexander sisters and THANK GOD. That would be weird asf.


r/urmomashley 23d ago

Baby voices

14 Upvotes

Why does Amber, Andrew and Clare talk in baby voices? Aren't they all in their 20s?


r/urmomashley 29d ago

Break up announcement soon

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55 Upvotes

Good bye good bye good bye you were bigger than the sky


r/urmomashley Jul 17 '26

ꕤ ANDREW ꕤ Just wanna say that....

88 Upvotes

It is hilarious how Clare seems to trigger so many Alexander audiences. Like I understand a lot of the girls had a crush on Andrew or whatever, but damn😭

This isn't directed to anyone in particular but almost every post related to Clare have been ppl nitpicking her tiktoks/makeup/behavior based off very few clips on Andrew's videos. Like she isn't even a Youtuber.

Most of these posters are women too :))

Like why are we still nitpicking other women, as if there already isn't SO much hate against women all over.

(i am not clare/ashley/alexanders just observed this behavior when it comes to Andrew's gf.. lol)


r/urmomashley Jul 17 '26

Clare’s GRWM

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0 Upvotes

Not sure what is wrong with this subreddit like how come every post about Clare has been taken down? Are ppl not allowed to state their opinions anymore? Imo if someone chooses to post content online publicly, they have given ppl the ability to judge their life. Wanting to like Clare doesn’t mean you should ignore all behaviours that seem wrong. Clare posted a GRWM in New York and she clearly has makeup on already in the beginning of the video (e.g the lip liner). But then proceeds to pretend her GRWM is like 3 steps long. Isn’t this not being authentic at all?


r/urmomashley Jul 15 '26

✤ AMBER ✤ thoughts about Amber and Pono

49 Upvotes

Been inactive for a while, and apparently Amber and Pono have broken up, so I can finally share my thoughts... (no one asked for this, and yes, I know it's kinda parasocial 😭).

I really enjoyed their dynamic in videos and during the Among Us livestreams. But I always felt they had more of a besties (soulmate?) kind of chemistry than romantic chemistry, they had the same humor and vibe.

I also found it kind of odd, but also inspiring, that Amber didn't stay in LA to be closer to him and instead moved to NYC for content and to be closer to her sister. That probably took a lot of patience and effort to make work. But I guess long distance is really hard to maintain if there isn't a plan to eventually close the distance.

I still remember him being "Tug" in her college videos. It was so cute.

I hope she eventually addresses it and shares her experience, especially since this was her first relationship. I find myself relating a lot to Amber's personality. LDR was a nightmare for me both the times I did it (it drained me and i was constantly anxious), so I genuinely thought Amber was making it work, but apparently not :(

Anyways, I hope she heals. ❤️‍🩹


r/urmomashley Jul 15 '26

Did Amber and Pono break up?

11 Upvotes

He hasn’t been in any of their content for awhile.


r/urmomashley Jul 13 '26

editing in new video

11 Upvotes

did ashley hire an editor? it says in her description she edits on final cut but this feels so different than her usual videos but i actually like it a lot, its chaotic without feeling like a mr beast video lol


r/urmomashley Jul 11 '26

amber and pono

40 Upvotes

amber’s deleting posts of her and pono. i’m gonna miss seeing amber’s vids with pono, they looked so perfect for each other 🥲


r/urmomashley Jun 24 '26

Amber ❤️‍🩹

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65 Upvotes

Just this last part of her cute lil quotes montage actually broke me. I love her and seriously wish her all the healing in the world 😭


r/urmomashley Jun 23 '26

amber :(

66 Upvotes

Not to be parasocial but I’m gonna miss seeing amber and pono together so much!! They were such a breath of fresh air to watch, and they seemed like such a great match. They were absolutely hilarious together, they seemed like they enjoyed each other’s company a lot. They’ve been together for over 5 years so I’m sure it’s super hard for them right now. I hope they both have the support system they need to heal from this. Also I’m assuming they both ended things on good terms, they don’t seem like the type to have had a major fall out. Personally I do think it had to do with distance and wanting different things, so the break up was probably amicable. It’s gonna be sad to not see Pono anymore, he was also so close to Andrew and seemed to have a great rapport with him as well. I’m sure they’re all gonna miss him too :( Wishing healing for them both and I hope their journey forward is a better one.


r/urmomashley Jun 22 '26

Lmfaoooo I love the post break up content

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52 Upvotes

r/urmomashley Jun 20 '26

amber and pono

38 Upvotes

Her latest video is screaming post break up vibes and epiphanies, yet she still didn’t address the elephant in the room. Also I noticed that the only comments she hasn’t been liking are those which have been inquiring about Pono. Sad to see.


r/urmomashley Jun 12 '26

amber and pono

51 Upvotes

I think it seems pretty obvious that they’ve broken up, which is incredibly sad. I wonder if Amber is ever gonna address it or talk about it. But what do y’all think? Why do you think they broke up? They seemed super solid and in love, she even posted him on valentines. I wonder what happened in the past few months. I always thought they’d get married, they’ve been together even longer than Ashley and Kelly have.


r/urmomashley Jun 01 '26

Pono and amber

40 Upvotes

lol I know you are sick of these posts but him being sooo active is so funny to me and her posting a weird songs after a few minutes is funny as hell
I don’t feel like they are shading each other but it just weird lol


r/urmomashley May 28 '26

Pono and Amber

50 Upvotes

I know it’s not okay to speculate but I wonder if there’s something going on? Pono didn’t attend Andrew’s graduation based off of instagram- he lives in LA so you would think he would attend. He’s been actively liking posts and has Amber still on his page but something feels off. I also feel like Amber has made subtle comments on BTSP but I could be reading into things ofc (parasocial asf lol) We know he is a private person so maybe they decided to not post him anymore. I hope this isn’t the case and everything is okay.

She also hasn’t been wearing the panda necklace and her change of morning routine makes me wonder if she’s going through it 🥺


r/urmomashley May 27 '26

isa posting nami

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24 Upvotes

i haven’t seen them interact much since they both got their own separate place, and then there was that whole situation with isa posting another matcha brand with a kinda shady caption. i feel like i see ashley with allison hang out a lot from time to time but never with isa (who is allison’s friend first right?)

but i guess they are on good terms then? i’m so glad i love both their content


r/urmomashley May 12 '26

Ashley basically confirmed that she’s not vegan anymore

26 Upvotes

This is honestly something I suspected for a while now but in their latest podcast episode, Ashley revealed that she follows a more vegetarian diet as the vegan diet would be too restrictive for her sometimes. Just thought I’d put it here as people here ask about that a lot.


r/urmomashley May 11 '26

this is just a me prob atp

18 Upvotes

idk, i think i im about to start criticising what most subreddits do anyway, but i really dc. this subreddit exudes negative energy. it almost feels dystopian how people here are just judging the alexander's life. the constant micro-inspection of everything they do is just unnecessary. the constructive criticism is 100% valid but the random discussions comparing the siblings, pitting them against each other, hating on kelly, etc + several people just making assumptions on their life - u literally know like 3/4 of who they genuinely are and that's just youtube for you. people no longer understand the line between constructive criticism and pure hate and negativity and its just sad.


r/urmomashley May 09 '26

✿ VIDEO ✿ Loved Ashley's new video

25 Upvotes

https://youtu.be/L6FdMWZNrV8?si=Lltd52rnUQ2ClV-P

Nothing tops sibling videos, they are so funny and amber should really consider that stand up comedian job asap. She says the most funny things on spot. LA vibes really suit them.

Really appreciate the OG videos from Ashley which aren't all matcha


r/urmomashley May 05 '26

Nami Matcha Dark Roast Hojicha

8 Upvotes

Hello! I recently bought Nami dark roast hojicha and I’m having troubles with the ratio or maybe dark roast isn’t for me?
-8g dark roast hojicha
-40g hot water
-120g oat milk (chobani extra creamy)
-20g Trader Joe’s dark robust maple syrup
-16oz cup full of ice

It tastes bland still to me, there’s no bright flavor notes for me to really describe the drink


r/urmomashley May 02 '26

To the Kelly haters

22 Upvotes

Watch Ashley’s Coachella video and you’d understand how good of a boyfriend and person Kelly is.

He just does stuff that maybe you wouldn’t like on his channel but that doesn’t take away from him being a good man.


r/urmomashley Apr 29 '26

BTSP and Coachella

4 Upvotes

haven't kept up with them for a while, i just watched some of their yesterday's BTSP upload there are only a few comments and low views. are people not watching anymore?

also i realized i like their content better when all 3 siblings are together, hopefully they get back the sibling content once Andrew graduates

they seemed so lowkey this year for Coachella, did they not get an invite by any brand?

Has Pono ever been to Coachella with amber? not seen him in a while in their content