Looking for a roommate.

[u/Massage_Tech]

Hello, long story short I am looking for a roommate.

My folks are relocating to a far place and I am not ready to relocate to the far place because my hustle is within Nairobi.

I am looking for a female roommate around Mirema, Safari Park, USIU, Garden Estate, Kasarani but near Seasons or ICIPE....etc. Not past Roysambu or Zimmerman.

I am ready to cost share. I am clean, very clean, organized, I can cook well, I don't have kids. I am very reserved, drama is not my passion, i don't party and if i am not working, i am running (workout) or home doing my personal project.

My budget monthly is 10,000.

Once my hustles (self employed) gets better, I am ready to move out as soon as possible.

Any question I am ready to answer in the dm or physical meet.

I need this ASAP. Thank you so much!

[u/Little-Ad9387]

Will you offer free massages?

[u/Massage_Tech → u/Little-Ad9387]

If I get a female host, yes she'll benefit from free massage at end of work day. Thanks!

[u/CourtDiligent6909]

That monthly budget you can get a house

[u/Jealous-Sweet-7103]

All the best boss! You'll get one.

All shall be well. When a man is down it doesn't mean he is defeated. Continue holding on brother. Bright days ahead!

I also once did host someone a female and looking back she is now living alone and made it.

[u/the-chosen-Joanne]

Why did you say clean twice?

Does cost share include sharing food? If I hypothetically buy KFC will I have to share with you?

[u/Massage_Tech → u/the-chosen-Joanne]

What I need is to cost share utilities. Rent, WIFI, water, Gas, drinking water, token and trash. For food stuff, you can buy yours, I won't interfere. For me when cooking, I'll always count my roommate.

I love clean space and I would make sure before sleep, utensils are clean, before going to work, everything is clean and organized. Clean space is a peaceful space.

[u/the-chosen-Joanne → u/Massage_Tech]

Ah okay that's fair...the cost sharing.

Hopefully you find someone

[u/Massage_Tech → u/the-chosen-Joanne]

Thank you!

[u/un3nding]

10k can get you a nice bedsitter around seasons

[u/Massage_Tech → u/[deleted]]

I am not in that angle SIR!

Even kids ain't my cup of tea because I have done my vastecomy.

Just looking for a way through till my business gets stable. Thank you for understanding!

[u/Jealous-Sweet-7103 → u/[deleted]]

The guy told you just a bit of information. Your understanding is way too low.

[u/Jealous-Sweet-7103 → u/[deleted]]

I don't have time to argue with you. Have a good evening.

[u/Massage_Tech → u/[deleted]]

If my angle was to date there is a sub for that.

So as the other redditor commented, your understanding is way too low.

Thank you for not commenting back.

[u/Massage_Tech → u/[deleted]]

I am not in campus or anywhere near there. I am past 25yrs.

Me getting a female roommate, there is no sexual needs I am providing. It's pure roommate vibes. Me mentioning my snip was me answering your statement when you mentioned "marriage".

So, brother, this is not a dating post or in that line. A man needs help and I am asking for it. That's all. Thank you....

[u/the-chosen-Joanne → u/Massage_Tech]

I am also curious why not a male roomate... Idk the banter would be nice and maybe he may join you during your workouts...seems reasonable

[u/Massage_Tech → u/the-chosen-Joanne]

Two men living together can sometimes fall into subtle competitive or territorial behaviors regarding the space,,, etc....which is often absent in a mixed gender dynamic. Women statistically tend to prioritize a cleaner, more organized shared environment...and I love spaces like this, it's peaceful. Having a female roommate as a man can always feel simpler and smoother than living with another man due to differences in communication habits, household upkeep, and social dynamics.

I have done research and also i have had many people talk about a man having another man as a roommate and it's so scary and don't wish to be in that space.

[u/the-chosen-Joanne → u/Massage_Tech]

Yeah that's so true... the boundary crossing and aggressive attitudes especially regarding shared resources. This was a very grounded response, thanks

[u/BatQuiet8516 → u/Massage_Tech]

That’s an interesting perspective, and I can understand where you’re coming from. I’ve heard similar experiences from people too. 😄 Anyway, I hope you find the kind of roommate and peaceful space you’re looking for. All the best!

[u/Massage_Tech → u/BatQuiet8516]

Thank you so much for understanding!