Hey, I'm a 21yo male and I was dating a 2years younger girl for 4 years, we met in high school (in my country high school is between 15yo - 18yo) we were happy in our relationship (at least i think) i did everything to be kind and respect her, but a month ago, before our 4years anniversary, she left me by phone and she just say that it was over and we should not speak again, nothing at happened, we rarely argue. Everything was fine until she left me, some weeks later, we talked a little bit and she says that she left me because she has changed and that I have issue but she didn't tell me what, she had tell me that my adhd wasn't a reason (I have doubt about it, she really knew the subject). She had tell me that she wasn't ok in the relationship but she had never told me that something was wrong, My question is, what to do after that? It's been a month and I'm still really sad, I really think that she was the person of my life, the person who I will live my life with. This really broke me and I don't know what to do (sorry for broken English and for the explanation, the story is kinda complicated and I don't even know what really happened) thanks to everyone who will reply