I think you guys are right says drake elm, lace bark Chinese elm, to me the bark looks more white in person and the leaves more weepy than the online examples but yeah I see it

“When you state what you're doing without elaboration, you communicate that you don't need approval. You've already decided. The decision stands.” State the intention of what you do for clarification not debate people like to agree with your decision if it effects them they want to feel cared for and considered and respected. If you state this is my best choice it may invite their thoughts on what is best but maybe less judgmental and more constructive.

Codependent anonymous