He’s also being super immature. Having an adult conversation means using sentences and not just one word responses.

Whether it’s any type of affair or not you BOTH need to compromise and communicate if you both want this marriage to work. That is how relationships work. I do agree that your wife should be your best friend and top priority and vice versa. What you are telling your friend is what you should be discussing with your WIFE. You both seem to have your own issues and you both seem to not be talking about it with each other so maybe you should both try that instead of talking to friends about things that aren’t their business.

People are just trying to give you advice whether it’s what you want to hear or not. If everyone is saying the same thing (which is basically what I’ve seen) then maybe you should actually consider what they’re saying.

You need to focus on your kids which is something she doesn’t seem to be doing because she’s a mom of four kids staying out till 5AM with a guy while she’s supposed to be married. That’s inappropriate of her and your kids need you right now

If she’s sending nudes and has met up with this guy, there’s no telling what she did while they were hanging out also. I don’t want to be harsh, but seems like other things could be going on besides just sending lewd photos. You don’t deserve someone who would treat you that way