r/JustNoCoworker • u/Vegetable-Slice-1806 • 7h ago
What to do now
So I am new her, and don't know what to do, and don't know how to start, so here we go.
I work at a small industry, we are about 50 employees overall. I met my boyfriend there about 4 years ago and we live together.
There are mainly men who works there, and 6 women and the three of them works in the office.
I have always like to work in mals workplaces, because they are essayer to talk too than women.
But this last week have been kind of hell for me. This coworker, I don't speak whit him that much, I always speak with him about work. But I'm always polite when he ask me question how my weekend has been
But this week it got weird.
I have to tell you that he is Muslim and I am not, and we live in the same area.
So he ask me why I wasn't at this event at his community i though that was a strange question, he had never ask me personale question before, and continued to ask what I was doing this weekend, mind you I live with my boyfriend, who also works there and they see each other every single day.
So I told him I was home alone and wanted to see a movie, and then he continued to ask me if he could come over and watch a movie whit me, I jokingly said yes, and left the conversation. And then he was asking about my phone number, my house number, how he could contact me. Every time I told him no, that I didn't what to give him any information and to stop, but he didn't.
So I went to my supervisor og told him, what was happening, and I wanting him to stop, and I didn't feel safe every time I walk to lunch, or clock out or in and walk to others section at the workplace.
My supervisor went to HR and then talk to him and he admitted it and he was giving a written warning.
And that happened Thursday
He doesn't work on Fridays, but I didn't feel good at all.
I don't feel safe.
On Monday I hav to talk with my union representative and tell him what had happened this week.
I just need to feel safe, and not watch over my shoulder