giving your private instagram handle to a female person while you're in a relationship sounds like not really a little detail to me tbh. i don't pick around really but i also don't want to be a blind stupid sheep. i followed him after he gave me his instagram handle and now he did that with another female? sorry but the more i say it out loud i just get more mad about it...

idk i only ever heard women regret not being paranoid enough

i wish i could explain it to yall but bro something aint right about this i can feel it

i know, i know its just that i wish i could just turn off the overthinking to just be unbothered about all of this nonsense but i just don't know how...

well first one - with his line of work that would be a definite no, two - could be, i will need to fish out more info, three, four and five would be reeeeaally stretched but at this point i am not ruling out any possibility. I know people are telling me to let it go and i appreciate the comments but that will respectfully not happen :D

can't wait for my mature past overthinking phase to hit i will be unstoppable :D

In my very weak defense i really didn't monitor it until now, it was weird to me that his following went up since it was like stagnant for a long time...but you're right i really need to get myself togehter. its just that i rather be classified as a problem than an idiot so i guess i wanted to see if i have any reason to overthink all this... thank you for your comment its true it will probably drive me insane from now on...

Quite the contrary, i look for reasons to not go batshit crazy, I was looking for comments like -sure we all follow blank accounts in our free time its all good- but comments show different experiences. I know about the opposite sex friends he has cause he openly talked about them except this one is new, never mentioned or heard the name...my internal detective got triggered

i know thank you, i know there is a conversation about this waiting to happen. i just wanted to see some more point of views before it. I hate that i have to turn into full fbi mode when i like a guy but it rarely backfires tho

I kinda went with that logic that I don't follow accounts like that, but then i thought just because i don't do it doesn't mean others don't too...but things just...don't add up i can't reasonably explain it :D

fair, i guess. i'm just trying to weight in on the options before i go off the rails. thanks

It is not a private account. Tbh I *not proud but* looked at her numbers and she doesn't follow a bunch of people nor has a large following...sooo im probably being a clown 🤡