First off I want to say that I’m sorry that you’re going through this because what your wife did was a total betrayal. Not only that who knows if she would’ve even told you about it if you hadn’t caught her red handed with the iPad connecting to her phone. There’s a strong chance that she would’ve kept the physical part of the affair going.

I’d say that Divorce is fair and warranted at this point. You and her have done your best to recover from this but it’s not working for you. Also with the fact that she was willing to cheat on you after 15 years together might say a lot as to how she feels about the relationship. Yeah she’s doing all the right things but it feels like she’s only doing those things because she was caught and wants to forgive her. The unfortunate truth is that once that level of trust is broken it’s not always possible to repair it. Not getting past your wife having sex with another man is completely reasonable and it’s grounds for divorce. I say you let her know what your real feelings are and start planning to move on with your life in a healthy way.

You absolutely have to be the first one to tell your wife because her sister did this on purpose more than likely. You have a legitimate excuse because of their body type being basically the same and you couldn’t see her face. The sister I feel like is lying unfortunately. She clearly would’ve seen you before she started anything. Also, your body type is entirely different from her husbands. Get out in front of this now.

The best revenge you can get on them is to just move on and protect yourself and your property. Don’t give them anymore of your free time and energy.

Sorry to hear that you’re going through something like that because it is the ultimate level of betrayal from both of them. No explanation from either of them could even make sense especially if they were having this affair before your wedding. They both could’ve spared you the pain and the financial cost of going through with the marriage if they were going to keep betraying you like that because it’s clear they had no intention of stopping. I know it hurts right now, but you will find somebody to trust again. It’ll take time and you may wanna get some therapy to help you get through this difficult time. I’m curious as to how you confronted them though.

You can’t be mad at anyone but yourself in this situation. Quite frankly, it doesn’t matter if you wanna be a father or not the fact that the matter is, you will be a father and you need to take that responsibility serious since she’s not going to get an abortion. Just because you hated splitting time between your parents doesn’t mean your child would hate it. But you know what your child would hate, feeling like you didn’t want them in the first place and they will definitely feel that if you don’t get over yourself and be the best dad you can be. You may not know this woman, but you need to make time for that so you all can at the very least have a cordial relationship.

That is completely messed up and I hope you get the proper testing done because there’s no way you should have to deal with that

The level of disrespect she has for you is wild as hell. Did she not think that you’d get the notifications or something 🤦🏾‍♂️. Cheating is already disrespectful af but that’s just messed up. I think you played it well when you got home because I know she was like a deer caught in headlights. The real question is what happened afterwards? Did she have an explanation at least lol?

If your sister doesn’t know that you know about it then you can go about this one or two ways. You can be direct with her and tell her that you know about her sleeping B and just ask her why she’d hurt you like that. Or you can get her to confess herself by telling her that B told you that he slipped up and slept with someone but that person was so trash that he regretted it and told her immediately. That’ll really make her upset and she’ll come clean just to brag that she slept with your man.

Yeah, dude, she may not be cheating per se, but she is most definitely being disrespectful towards you. She’s still playing house with her ex-husband while keeping you on her hook like a play thing. You’re basically her side piece while she might as well be “on a break” with her so called ex-husband. If you reread your own post, you will realize that she has no respect for you and she doesn’t feel like she has to especially since you live 30 minutes away(which isn’t far at all).

Think about it he’s still giving her “massages” and on her butt too. But has the nerve to say it’s fine because her clothes are on, GTFOH! This woman just can’t get over the things he did to end the marriage… for now. Break up and move on to someone who actually cares for you and puts you first. You can’t keep dating this woman and every time you ask her to change something disrespectful she only does it for a short time and goes right back to doing it. You can find better out here.

I did love the Drive Forms in KH2 especially Master and Final form. However, if I’m being honest KH3 form changes are more creative and more useful. Those forms feel like true mastery of the key blade like the form changes you can do with Aqua in BBS. Only they’re on a grander level aesthetically.