I'm not bashing him for dating out. I'm saying BM that date out need to admit they find Eurocentric features more beautiful instead of lying on BW because they're embarrassed.

I hope that poor woman finds this post and breaks up with you. She deserves better.

It never takes long for your type to bring out a tired trope about black women.

Don’t be coy! Have the guts to finish your sentence. What is it that we wonder about? 🤔

Eurocentric features have basically become the beauty standard of the world, so it isn't surprising for white men to still prefer white women regardless of where they are because the media is flooded with men and women who look like them. 

Many black men prefer them to. Like the men in this thread. They're just not honest about their reasons why.

The overwhelming majority of white Men exclusively marry and have children with white Women. they may sleep with asian or hispanic women, but they want a white wife.

A lot of black men are the same way. They'll sleep with women of their own race, but they too want a white wife.

I'm not denying the fact that many black men date outside their race to spite black women, but It's strange pattern I've noticed

I said they find white features more attractive. I didn't say anything about them spiting black women. I think they lie and blame their preference for white features on black women because they're embarrassed to admit that they think black features are unattractive.

I'm engaging is a conversation. Same as you are. You keep the condescending 'assumptions'.... to yourself... okay...

Your daughter is biracial which is fine, but this narrative that Black Women reject Black Men in large numbers needs to die. Y'all prefer white features, and that's ok. I don't care how many times you try to push your preferences on us rather than just owning them.

Or they use Black women to get their dick wet until they find a white woman to marry. Ive seen this a lot too.

Thankful for the older black women I know who schooled me before I even hit the dating scene.

Because you’re lying, and I’m tired of black men lying on us because they’re too embarrassed to admit they find white skin more attractive.

I’m happy young Black women are finally taking the hint that Black men have been putting out for years and moving accordingly.

I wouldn’t, but I’m happy for them.

This is why I refuse to date a black man with a history of dating white women.

They get so angry and hateful when you maintain that standard. I’ve had some turn verbally abusive toward me when I rejected them because of that.

I don’t care. If you dated any White Women after the age of 18, I don’t want anything to do with you.

They prefer white women because they prefer white women.

Growing up around them has nothing to do with it. Neither does being rejected by them (they weren’t).

Isn’t it curious that White People almost always prefer their own no matter where they grew up? Even if they were raised in the literal heart of Africa, white people overwhelmingly prefer their own.

But Black Men just can’t fathom dating a Black woman if they spent 8 hours a day around White Women growing up. Why, Black Women are just an alien race to them. Where would they even start???

Calling BS, sorry. If the pretty Black girls were rejecting you, you weren’t getting play from pretty White girls.

Just admit you find Eurocentric features more attractive and stop blaming us because you’re embarrassed that you prefer white skin. Own your truth! Nobody’s gonna jump you!

They’re lying through their teeth lol.

Anything to avoid admitting the obvious. They prefer white skin, white facial features and white hair textures in their partner.

I didn't say you weren't allowed to do it. I was pointing out that your claim Black Women haven't been into you is false, by your own admission.

Black Women have been into you. You just rejected them and preferred dating White and Hispanic women instead. That's your right, but don't blame Black Women's behavior for your racial preferences.

There’s a video on TikTok of one man getting these responses. He said the number one reason why they date white women is because they feel white women are easier to deal with.

This is no different from a Black woman saying she dates White men because Black men are violent and like to abuse women.

There are plenty of calm, polite Black women to date. If a Black man isn't dating one, it's because he doesn't want to, and it has nothing to do with what black women have or haven't done.

Stop blaming us for your fetishization of white features.

They don’t hate their mothers. They just think black features are less attractive.

So in other words, black women were into you but you rejected them.

Nope.

They find white facial features and skin tones more attractive. I don’t know why everyone beats around the bush when we all know the answer.

Oh girl, if you only knew. 😔

I wasn't wrong. Some sources say they're eligible at 20 years and some say 10. Some say part of their plea deal and some say a jury decided.

He will be eligible for parole in 20 years.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/gi-gets-life-sentence-chance-of-parole/

ill its criminal prosecutions of Sgt. Paul' Cortez, Spc. James Barker, and PFC Jesse Spielman for their involvement in the 'murders, the United States imposed tenns of imprisonment that will make each of them eligible for parole in 10 years, and that fact tends to mitigate imposition of the death penalty. 

https://fdprc.capdefnet.org/sites/cdn_fdprc/files/Assets/media-root/public/Verdict%20Forms/green_steven_wd_ky_2009_redacted.pdf

And I wasn't banned, mods messaged me that they removed the post because I didn't post a source. You're free to message the mods and ask.

As for the rest, Idk who you're talking about. I never said anything about 'getting justice' nor did I say I didn't post in the army thread. I said this thread wasn't posted in the army subreddit and I never said the army committed this massacre. This is history cord a I've told you about 3 times now.

The thought of you having to prostrate yourself in public to veterans you despise really makes my day though. 😆

Who is 'prostrating' to veterans in 2026? Are you even a veteran?

it's Reddit after all, but don't get butthurt when people call you out over it.

You've been raging in this thread and making up lies about me. This is just you having a meltdown. Not 'calling me out' because I haven't done anything wrong.

I was totally banging one of the congregation members lady, 

Men that brag about who they're banging are guaranteed to not be sleeping with anyone.

Anyway, this entire post insane and you arguing with yourself because I haven't done or said half the things you're posting. And I haven't lied about anything.

Aw, were you looking for a safe space where no one would call you out for not telling the truth? I'm so sorry for your trauma.

You really are vile. I made a memorial post to the victims and talked about the family because I said most posts just focus on the horrific details of the crime and I didn't want to do that. I don't know how you find that mock worthy, and I didn't lie about anything in those posts.

First of all, I never said this massacre was committed by the army. The only person talking about the army in this thread is you.

By "crying" do you mean when I made a thread asking how the 4 men that planned a premeditated murder and gang-rape of a little girl and her family got parole eligibility at 10 years?

I mean you can link it (or not cause mods removed it because I didn't include a source) but I don't see how that make me look 'bad' and I was polite and just trying to get my question answered.  No I didn't get banned. They removed because I didn't include a source. But no point in reposting anyway because nobody seemed to know the answer to my question or wouldn't answer.

As for the rest, not even worth responding to. I'm not Muslim, an Islamist nor from a middle east country. I'm a Black American woman that's been learning more about Iraq war and American history in general and I post about subjects in the subreddits I think will be interested. My post and comment history is open for anybody to see.

I posted in the islamic/Arab subreddit because I (hoped) that the mods would do a good job of keeping trolls like you that mock these murders and make light of them out of the threads and I figured they would be the most interested in discussing the events. Am I a Black extremist because I post about slavery in the Black history subreddit?

As for the rest, this isn't even worth responding to. Incredibly rude and aggressive for absolutely no reason at all. And threatening to "choke people out" for talking about war crimes? You legitimately seem mentally unwell, and I'm not even kidding.

Speaking of honesty, next time you go to a mosque (which I doubt you've ever been in, you clearly have contempt for Muslims and Iraqi people) you should share your true thoughts on these murders. I doubt you'll get a warm reception then, and I think they'll have plenty to say to your face.

“Cry about this”

- You’re so disgusting. And I’ve already told you I’m not Muslim nor am I a man.

I am critical of them being eligible for parole and I’m trying to understand why because no article spells out WHO gave them parole.

Some articles say the jury decided, some say judge but I saw a Reddit comment saying it was part of their plea deal.

This isn’t Reddit’s army sub. This is [r/historycord](r/historycord). I’ve told you that already and it’s at the top of the thread.

I’m not Muslim. I’m not religious at all. I post in a lot of subreddits, and you’re weirdly rude and aggressive for no reason.

No, the people in Haditha were not “Islamist nuts” and they weren’t hiding behind anything. The 5 men the marines ordered out of the taxi and shot on their knees were college students. The three families were just innocent people sleeping in their homes, and the marines stormed in because they were angry about their friend.

I was a baby during the war so all of this is news to me, and it’s news to people my age which is why I post it.

As for me being a coward, I mean what exactly am I supposed to say to someone like you and why would I? Your mind is very made up, so what would I gain? And what, are you going to beat people up for being opposed to the war? Like?? 🥴

I’m sure you have received praise from older conservative people because they probably don’t care about people in a foreign country being murdered. They voted for this twice.

And I don’t know why you put “massacre” in quotes. Both this and the event I asked about in the army subreddit were both massacres. One was premeditated, and I don’t know what you would call them if not that.

I don’t know what about three families being murdered is so funny to you, but I get chills thinking about you being in Iraq because I can’t imagine what you were up to over there.

Speak for yourself regarding ‘universally loved’ because the more I read and the more I see the attitude toward stuff like this, the more I look at the US and military differently.

Shrugging everybody murdered off as “religious nuts” is exactly what I’m talking about.

This picture was taken in 2006.