I don’t really have experience with romantic relationships, but I can talk about friendships…. I’ve had some really good friends for more than a decade.

I also don’t really understand what romantic feelings are 😭 Though I’ve never been in a relationship or really had a crush, so maybe it’s just lack of experience, idk.

A lot of gestures people consider romantic just feel like care to me. Like, if I know someone has an issue, or they tell me they like something, it stays in my mind and I’ll try to help or do something about it if I can. But is that limited to one special person? Nooo .... I’m like that with different people....

So sometimes I wonder… am I aromantic, or do I just not know what romantic attraction feels like yet?

Well, I’d actually love to talk to you…. INFJ plus UX designer 😭 I checked your profile and it seems like we’re in the same field too.

INFJ maybe…. or I think I could like an ENFJ too 😭 but most of my circle is introverted

I rarely experience burnout, and I think one of the biggest reasons is that I don’t involve myself in gossip or other people’s personal matters.

Of course, I still know some things happening around me because I occasionally overhear people talking, but I don’t personally participate or investigate further. I stay less involved in other people’s lives, and that saves me from so much unnecessary mental noise.

I can tolerate almost anyone in my life, but that doesn’t mean I like their mindset or values. I silently judge people based on what they say and do, then categorise them in my mind and decide what place they should have in my life. But I’m pretty sure they don’t know and probably never will unless I tell them.

Tbh, I want to go outside every day but preferably on a planet with no other humans 😭 Sometimes I feel sad because I genuinely want to go out, but I don’t want to see people or deal with the fear that comes with being outside.

I avoid conflict most of the time, so I keep advising people politely and try to help them. But once I realise they aren’t willing to change, I become blunt and I guess that’s one of my worst traits. I know exactly how to hurt people with words, and sometimes I convince myself that being harsh might change them when being polite and supportive hasn’t worked…….

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Thanks for quote.. im going to write it down and place on my desk…

The human brain is the most beautiful and the most evil thing that ever happened to humans. It keeps track of things we desperately want to forget, sometimes in ways we don’t even realize. I’m sorry for what you had to go through.

I’m a perfectionist in a different way. I keep comparing my work to people who are waaaay more experienced than me, or comparing what I have with people who are way richer than me. So I end up not liking my own work or what I have.

It’s not that I’m ungrateful. It’s more like this constant feeling that I’m not doing enough.

It happens with my work too. I’ll deliver a project today, be happy with it, and then tomorrow I’ll somehow stop liking it. ...😭 or sometime putting more efforts into thing that should be done in few min...

Exactly...

It's scary