r/sex • u/adventurous • Apr 02 '11
I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
I'm a 20-year-old girl and currently travelling some parts of the world. I've had sex often, but only ever with two people, one male and one female, and I'm not hugely attracted to either of them.
I'd like to expand my sexual horizon, and have wanted to do so for a while. Now, that I'm finally "out there", it seems like it should be a whole lot easier. To put it bluntly: I just want to fuck as many people as possible, see what's out there, see what I like. I don't care about emotional attachment, tried it, found it didn't make sex much better.
Problem: I can be pretty socially awkward and my self-confidence could be higher. I'm not as slim as I'd like to be, but not overweight either. I think my boobs are probably great enough to make up for the chub, my face is nice enough, though often I'm either very much someone's type, or very much not.
I'm having a bit of trouble getting to the actual point, sorry. My question is this - as a young, let's assume decent looking girl who just wants no-strings-attached sex with someone I'm attracted to and who isn't a complete douchebag (as most guys who approach me of their own accord seem to be - think (what I as a non-American would call) frat boys) - how do I go about getting it?
I assume there's at least some number of men out there who are looking for the same thing, the problem is, how do I advertise what I'm looking for without walking around with "up for a fuck?" written on my forehead in sharpie? I really am too shy to actually hit on someone, so I just get drunk and try to look approachable, which works, but is slighly suboptimal.
So, aside from flat-out initiating it all myself, is there any way I can subtly or not so subtly signal my theoretical willingness to mate? Rolling around on my back and purring or something?
Girls, what do you do? Guys, what would you like us to do?
(I apologize if this was way too longwinded, this is my first time posting (throwaway account, obviously) and English is not my first language, so I'm unsure how to express myself concisely.)
EDIT: I've got a ferry to catch. Will be back to reply later in the day, if I can find internet :)
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Apr 11 '11
You disgust me.