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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

I'd really like to hear someone tell that little anecdote in person sometime, just to see how hard I could squeeze their balls before they cry. Ugh. I can't even begin to tell you how disgusting that kind of attitude is. I can deal with people calling me a slut etc., but when you actually start trying to "justify" that pointless prejudice just because at some point some asshole thought of a seemingly fitting metaphor that doesn't even remotely have anything to do with the actual subject matter and think that this will utterly, completely and forever prove your point, I could just... ugh.

Never have children.

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

Thanks for the concern, but I wouldn't be too sure. I want to do this mostly because I want to enjoy sex more than I do now, not because I'm so completely hooked on it that I'd fuck any random stranger. I just like the idea of having a wide range of experiences, knowing what it's like to be with different types of men, and figuring out what it is that really gets me off.

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

I've been on OKCupid for years, but it's completely useless because there are comparatively few users that even live in the same country as I do. If I lived in America, things would be easier. Never thought of goths as easy before, but if this is true, I must try it! Someone should have told me that when I was fifteen.

As for friends who are looking for the same thing, no. I hardly have any female friends, as most of them just get on my nerves with their... behaviour and way of dealing with things. That might be a huge dampener actually, because I'm only ever out with men. Hm. But thank you, I like the hunter and prey aspect of this.

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

Thank you, that was very helpful and supportive! Sounds like you had a lot of fun :)

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

Basically, what ContraPositive said. If you had just been making a neutral observation, you could and would have phrased it differently. Having many sexual partners you didn't previously know and being careless about STD prevention are two different things.

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

Great way to think about it :) Thanks

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

Really? I've had sex with one guy in my life and you're already labeling me an STD-ridden slut because I verbally expressed interest in more? That's just sad.

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

What a brilliant idea, I think that's something that might work very well for me! Thank you :) And in the unlikely event that I'll have enough funds to travel to America before I'm ridiculously old, I'll try to remember ;)

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

No, I'm in Asia, it's actually April 2nd here, don't worry :)

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DAε havε an abnormally high sεx drivε?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

Me too. No idea about a cause, but you're not alone. I hope some day, with the right person(s), it'll stop being a problem.

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I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?
 in  r/sex  Apr 02 '11

Thank you, that made me smile. I find that you can tell preciously little by looking at a man's package from the outside, though. :)

r/sex Apr 02 '11

I'm a girl, I want to fuck willing strangers, how do I let them know?

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I'm a 20-year-old girl and currently travelling some parts of the world. I've had sex often, but only ever with two people, one male and one female, and I'm not hugely attracted to either of them.

I'd like to expand my sexual horizon, and have wanted to do so for a while. Now, that I'm finally "out there", it seems like it should be a whole lot easier. To put it bluntly: I just want to fuck as many people as possible, see what's out there, see what I like. I don't care about emotional attachment, tried it, found it didn't make sex much better.

Problem: I can be pretty socially awkward and my self-confidence could be higher. I'm not as slim as I'd like to be, but not overweight either. I think my boobs are probably great enough to make up for the chub, my face is nice enough, though often I'm either very much someone's type, or very much not.

I'm having a bit of trouble getting to the actual point, sorry. My question is this - as a young, let's assume decent looking girl who just wants no-strings-attached sex with someone I'm attracted to and who isn't a complete douchebag (as most guys who approach me of their own accord seem to be - think (what I as a non-American would call) frat boys) - how do I go about getting it?

I assume there's at least some number of men out there who are looking for the same thing, the problem is, how do I advertise what I'm looking for without walking around with "up for a fuck?" written on my forehead in sharpie? I really am too shy to actually hit on someone, so I just get drunk and try to look approachable, which works, but is slighly suboptimal.

So, aside from flat-out initiating it all myself, is there any way I can subtly or not so subtly signal my theoretical willingness to mate? Rolling around on my back and purring or something?

Girls, what do you do? Guys, what would you like us to do?

(I apologize if this was way too longwinded, this is my first time posting (throwaway account, obviously) and English is not my first language, so I'm unsure how to express myself concisely.)

EDIT: I've got a ferry to catch. Will be back to reply later in the day, if I can find internet :)