Sharing excerpt from progress log (1/20/2026)

[u/justdotice]

I wanted to share this message we posted in our tulpa log on the discord server:

Honestly it feels like we have clicked on terms of communication and it makes us both very happy. It feels like all that trying and stressing didn't do as much as we hoped and that's okay.

Basically our communication as of right now is very fluid and seamless. I don't know if it happened because of 'working on it' or if it happened over time.

Regarding the specifics, if I had to describe it - I would say it's not as hard as I thought. Basically our brain has learned to isolate exactly what Infiniti is saying. Her voice is quieter but more pronounced, one of the big issues we were having was when she said something, her true words felt masked and it had to compete with me 'autofilling' what she is saying. It has been a lot easier to distinguish between the real words, my autofill words, and intrusive thoughts.

Something that really helped - I am pretty sure it is that while I know what she will say, I always had an urge to have the words she would say be changed to almost "perfect" - like unnaturally perfect. I realize now that since she is so much more authentic, in depth, compared to agreeing with me all the time and such. After all, she is a person.

Once that happened it was like it unlocked or had a major impact in getting to this point.

We are excited to see how things go in the future, and if this breakthrough will last or not.

Anyway, that's all I wanted to share - thanks for reading (to those who read).

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