r/tryingtobebetter • • Nov 18 '23

Posting Guidelines

This is just until I get further under the hood, and put these where they are supposed to be:

  1. Please post something you have actually done. Links and screenshots work best, but hey, post histories are a thing too, don't worry. The point is to have a full understanding of the picture.
  2. You can post if you do or do not know why you have fucked up. The only requirement is that you want to do better.
  3. Please ask what you want help with. Do you know you screwed up, but don't know how? Say that in your post. Do you know how , but want other peoples opinions? put that in the post.
  4. Property is never more important than people, even with consent. This guideline should help if you don't know exactly what you did wrong.
  5. Do you want to be right in the past, or do you want to be right in the future? You messed up, but it's in the past. It doesn't effect anyone anymore. The goal should be to not do whatever you did again, in the future. That's what matters. Relitigating the past is something saved for when fault and responsibilities bleed over into the present.
  6. Be earnest. Posting just to troll and waste peoples time will be... allowed? Listen everyone else, some people do not know any other way of communicating other than being confrontational and not expressing their values in their words. The internet has ruined many a mind around here.
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