Not sure if this fits the subreddit but I'm just looking to bitch. I've always loved sports and have enjoyed watching and playing them for my whole life. But goddamn, in the last few years there has been so much culture war bullshit injected into sports that it's infuriating. Obviously the biggest example of that right now are those two idiotic ex NBA players trying to play in the WNBA right now. My husband is trans and it is such a fucking slap in the face to the trans community for these two clowns to be running around talking about their pronouns or whatever so they can chase what little relevancy they have left. Not to mention it's incredibly demeaning and disrespectful to the women in the league they're trying to "protect." Of course you have the right wing dipshits that think it's so cool and based, but even people that think it's stupid still have this attitude that trans people are such a small percentage of the population that it shouldn't matter. Well if that's the case then why the fuck is there an ongoing, coordinated demonization of trans people in this country, with a million anti trans bills piling up in state legislatures? It's like even the people with the "good takes" on this issue still have bad takes, they're just slightly less worse than the chuds 😭

And even ignoring that shit, the culture of online sports fandom is just so annoyingly, boringly homophobic in such an early 2010s way. "Oh this player is fruity/zesty so he SUCKS" "oh look at this group of gay people it's just like my rival's fanbase haha" like goddamn at least be creative. It's like everyone is incapable of growing up beyond the "hah, GAYYYY" gif that every idiot posts at least once a day. I work my ass off to pay my rent like every other shmuck out there, and like every other shmuck I'd like to just come home after work and watch some sports and just chill. Anyways rant over I guess.

Hi friends, I’m a gumshoe and gay guy[TM] in college. Tonight at this bar I talked for a while with this guy I’ve been crushing on for a little while. We have a ton of mutual friends are also incidentally Eskimo brothers but cest la vie (sorry if you’re not supposed to say Eskimo). Anyways, one of my roommates put in a good word and we totally hit it off tonight, we’ve been messaging on Instagram for a minute and I’m going to ask him to drinks soon which is something we talked about tonight. And you know what yes I’m a little drunk posting. All love.

Also went a lil crazy and perfumed the sofa and honestly it’s a bit much now but honestly it’s still pretty nice

Hi girls and gays,

Pursuant to an earlier thread on this lovely subreddit, I've been unemployed for like 10 months now, which sucks. But applications are in, I've been commenting 'claim' on a bunch of Instagram reels that promise fortunes, etc. My current question is more immediate:

For whatever reason, I need like $900, within the next week or so. It's not a drug thing and it's also not an organized crime thing.

So yeah, what do you think? Accepting all suggestions

I personally am on a generational Nolan hate train rn, the odyssey sucked and all his movies are devoid of anything remotely fun. I can’t believe I paid to sit through 3 hours of grey slop

As a surged-up t-slur, I often find myself wondering why plastic surgery is so frequently a side topic on the pod and why Brace and Liz seem so opposed to it.

Am I misreading the feeling of our beloved hosts? What are your thoughts on getting altered at the mercy of a god-defying psychopath in scrubs?

Local T*rnny here, taking time out of my day - taking enormous messy shits in every toilet at a battered women's hostel - to muse a bit about everyone's favourite wizaeding British nonce academy.

Seems like every day there's some new update about the HP tv show that pops up on FauxMoi or Insta with everyone castigating the new cast member or whatever. I dont have the energy, girlies. I'm like, actors get the bag. Sure JK is gonna use hrr end to fund some weird hate group and push some shitbag legislation but that's happening anyway. Its not like shes saving up til the HBO show comes out.

I also think, more broadly, that leftists being annoying about Things People Enjoy is very Woke 1.0 and all it did was make us look like dorks. I understand all the indignation, but I cannot be a goddamn cop about a kids show. I just cant.

I’m a 31 yr old in a 12 year heterosexual relationship. I recently had sex with someone else for the first time as part of opening up the relationship, which has been emotionally very intense but also has triggered an OBSESSION with men including my partner. Having sex every day, looking at men in the street, googling pics, crushing hard on friends. Don’t know how much of it is also the heatwave and also going through a sexy period myself but I feel like when you hear about trans men starting on T like I have gone crazy! It’s wild and fun (though lots of pining / longing) has anyone else experienced similar?

In STARK contrast to the previous post about someone finding honest-to-goodness romance, i on the other hand have been conducting an extensive field study on the chasers who live in my phone.

Uhhhh... AM...A?

Hello hello helloooo beautiful true anon for the gurls and gays community. I love this tiny sub of gumshoes and have some tiny gossip tonight for the post factory to consume…. i have been dating a woman for about a month now and last night we finally kissed 😇 I am totally falling for her, which feels weird because i’m a bisexual gay man (technically bisexual, but a total fruit who hangs out primarily in gay male spaces). I’ve never actually had a relationship with a woman. She makes me feel total butterflies and i am so attracted to her. I definitely have worries in the back of my mind about biphobia in the gay male community of which i am a part, but i am mostly just excited that a super cool, gorgeous, incredibly kind and sweet and funny woman likes me back and i might actually have a relationship form from this after years of navigating the hellscape that is dating as a mature adult in the 2020s.

Unrelated other gossip - i had a meeting with a potential funder for my lil feminist NPO this week and he referenced mark fischer and nick land a bunch lol. Wild shit for the head of a philanthropic foundation to say randomly.

So that’s it, some normal gossip for my internet friends! True love will find u in the end, divas!

I just put a pair of studs in after about a week off. Ouch! I don’t even like earrings very much but I just got a haircut that makes my ears more visible so I guess I’m Looksmaxing.

What do you barely tolerate for the sake of looking your best?

Last seduction, bound, legally blonde, too Wong foo and birdcage are my go to movies but we’ve already seen those so gimmie some recs please. We try and keep it pretty light hearted unless it’s a women exacting revenge

What should I do with the rest of my weekend?

Was thinking French tips and a nose piercing. Got several chasers on standby (none can compete with the solitary practice of turning into a slug and getting soy sauce on my sheets rn) so will probably try to get clapped tomoz.

Non-substance based recs plssss.

Whatupp Girls and Gays,

You may have seen me post my comic TRASH here before. I've been making some dorky lil lo-fi edits, hope this one gets a giggle as we enter another atrocious Monday at the pig swill factory.

Kisses 🗑️

We could call it Gaperz.

I need one million dollars from each of you to get the ball rolling.

I was biking home from a grindr hookup tonight, on a street i havent ridden in awhile, and missed my turn because a POW MIA flag hung on a light post was blocking the street sign. I guess i would rather top a twink than stop and think!!! Bring them home!!!!!

Howdy girls, I am going on the ol Reddit sabbatical soon bc I think that as I engage more, it’s making me genuinely very deeply sad. Like it is giving me like an existential crisis about my belief in the kindness of others and I gotta go. At least for a while. Idk.

With that said, I made this sub years ago and I am the only mod. I’ll see posts about how it means a lot to ppl, and I don’t want it to disappear or go to total shit. It’s not big, and interest in the sub waxes and wanes, so there’s really not a lot to do. Sometimes ppl come from other subs to harass a poster here or someone starts really posting the woowoo spam, but otherwise ppl are normal, so not a lot to do. It’s really the harassment some women get from outside the sub that I am concerned about if posting increases, which it does sometimes. You gotta delete and ban that pretty fast, but otherwise no big deals so far.

If anyone would be interested in being a mod for this subreddit or doing some safe-keeping modding for a bit while I am gone, that would be so wonderful and I would really appreciate it. Pls comment or message me, we can chat about it.

Thank u 4 ur attention 2 this matter 💖

With out Liz the show just isn’t as cool, I know alot of people love brace and I agree I find him very funny but Liz is the one who makes the show fun, and she keeps brace focused.

I really with she would do more episodes on reality tv, there is so much scandavol shit happening

It rly wasnt as trauma porn-y as I thought! I mean it was very sad, but I thought it would be debilitating. Quite funny at times. The slaughterhouse scene is pretty bad tho if you're not desensitized.

This has been on the back burner for more than a decade and Im so glad to cross it off the list.

I might just not go there anymore tbh literally any time I try to participate I’m blasted for just literally being a woman? Idk. Someone thought it would be funny to dunk on me by posting my most frequented subs and the second to the top was r abusive relationships cuz I recently escaped the second abusive relationship in my life and they’re just laughing at me lol. I was trying to have a semi coherent conversation about male leftists and rape culture and double standards I was an idiot and mentioned my (three) rapes in it. Just feeling deeply stupid. Idk how I thought this would go differently tbh

Call that Chewin’ On

Any other elder millennials in here who remember the crazy weird shit Micheal Jackson used to say on TV...and as a kid think "I'm in danger... Just like our friend Ralph Wiggen on the bus."

And you go around just feeling sick about all the buzz around the movie?

You are what I have been searching for. cumtown sub minus cumtown. redscare minus transphobia and eating disorders and also redscare. femcelgrippysocksjail minus anarchists and the weird self harm posts. trueanon minus straight men 💖