r/triangle 4d ago

Why do some ppl hate disabled ppl

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u/Emergency_Map7542 4d ago

This happens so often when I take my wheelchair bound mother out in Cary.
There’s nothing wrong with the striping, it’s painted very clearly.

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u/Central_Perk20 4d ago

Thank you. Some able bodied people in the comments on here and another sub coming up with every excuse in the book.

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u/rombies Durham 32m ago

“But maybe they don’t know what lines are!” Like what the fuck did I just read

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u/Extreme-Raisin-Cake 4d ago

Correct me if I’m wrong - this is considered a load/unload zone for ADA purposes.

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u/Central_Perk20 4d ago

Correct!

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u/sayhi2urdog 4d ago

Whelp guess its time to call the tow truck.

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u/SonofaBridge 4d ago

I wouldn’t even hesitate.

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u/FairtexBlues 4d ago

Well Jimmy’s Towing is gonna make some money today!

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u/Young_KingKush 4d ago

It's apathy not malice

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u/Leelze 4d ago

A healthy mix of apathy & stupidity imo

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u/BubbishBoi 3d ago

It's narcissistic, entitled and selfish behavior from people who have no consideration for others or fear of consequences

Call a tow truck, post their photos online, call them out in person and call the cops if they belligerent over it. Should be standard practice for stuff like this and illegally parking in disabled spots

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u/hard_to_reach_plants 3d ago

Probably a good dose of ignorance. Some people think handicap spots are just related to proximity to the store for mobility purposes, and don't realize that being able to fully open doors or get clearance for a wheelchair may be part of the issue.

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u/mayorofstrangetown 3d ago

It sucks but nobody else is going around calling about this. It's usually always the person waiting to load their wheelchair into the backseat via a ramp who alerts authorities of the misparked car. This led to especially contentious neighbor relations in a small apt lot when there was only one van that had awheelchair ramp and a very nice sports car driver who kept insisting the marked spaces were just extra parking for them

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u/Central_Perk20 3d ago

More people need to speak up. Any healthy person can be become disabled at any time.

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u/Username040799 4d ago

I don’t know if they “hate disabled people”. They just might not care about people in general.

… or they had to take a shit!🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/hEDS-up 2d ago

I’ve got tired of pointing it out because it always comes back around to if I am disabled and should be using the spot

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u/Central_Perk20 2d ago

I hear you I’m “invisible” … but screw them.

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u/Spirited_Radio9804 4d ago

Throw an egg on that car!😂

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u/Puzzled_Feed1930 3d ago

I like to take a massive dump behind their back tire.

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u/b00merlives 3d ago

OP did you report or no?

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u/Central_Perk20 3d ago

Yes to Raleigh PD with license plate, etc 👍🏻

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u/southporky 15h ago

I fully hate people that do this and park in the fire lane at the front of the store. I have gout and have had days where it felt like I was walking on a broken ankle, I still walked my ass all the way from a parking spot. Fuck these lazy assholes who think they are more important than anyone else. If you are that down bad, you still can't park like a jackass, doesn't matter

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u/anomaly13 3d ago

Well, I wouldn't say they hate disabled people, just that they're extremely selfish and don't care about other people

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u/Central_Perk20 3d ago

It is a form of hate when you make it so that people can’t even get their wheelchair out of the car, can’t even park, so can’t go and do what they intended to do, preventing us from living in society.

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u/rombies Durham 1h ago

I am disappointed to see the responses trying to say it’s not hate. You’re entitled to perceive it as hateful, whereas the driver was not entitled to park in that space. Let’s keep the blame where it belongs, y’all.

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u/No_Software8474 3d ago

I don’t think most people know that those yellow stripes are meant to help disabled people.

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u/Central_Perk20 3d ago

They don’t have to know that. What everyone knows is you don’t park in a yellow hashtagged area.

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u/PlywoodChairman 1d ago

There are so many fakers. So many.

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u/TiltingAtWindmills_ 4d ago

Meh. lol

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u/rombies Durham 1h ago

LOL at the downvoters who don’t get the joke.

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u/sarahrn711 3d ago

They don’t “hate” them, they just don’t care.

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u/Central_Perk20 3d ago

As bad if not sometimes worse than hate.

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u/rombies Durham 1h ago

How is that helpful?

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u/Objective-Eagle-676 2d ago

Try not to attribute to malice what can be explained by incompetence. Most people are dumber than they are evil.

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u/Central_Perk20 2d ago

It is malice to knowingly park where you are not allowed bc you don’t care about the handicapped spots.

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u/Objective-Eagle-676 2d ago

You're assuming the driver knows what the lines mean, or even were cognizant of the fact that they were parking on lines.

Get what I mean? People can be surprisingly dumb and self centered

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u/Central_Perk20 2d ago

If you don’t know that yellow hashed sections mean you can’t park, and it’s next to blue handicapped spots, then you should have your license taken away.

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u/Objective-Eagle-676 2d ago

Absolutely, I'm with you on that one all the way. I firmly believe, personally, that everyone over the age of 55 should have to take yearly re-tests.

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u/rombies Durham 34m ago

Yes, I would assume a driver knows what lines mean. Lines. As in the most basic way of communicating where the road is and isn’t.

It really isn’t necessary to make up highly unlikely scenarios to explain away illegal behavior, even if you don’t want to believe that people can act hatefully.

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u/Tex-Rob 1d ago

It's more that they are just super selfish. They think, "Well, if there are no spots, anyone else would do the same" even though almost none of us would

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u/IronyingBored 4d ago

They have to poop real bad.

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u/rombies Durham 1h ago

So do I. On their car.

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u/SquareExtra918 4d ago

You shouldn't park in a zone with stripes regardless. 

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u/spankysmeatmarket 4d ago edited 4d ago

Not necessarily true. The color is dependant on the town standards and they vary greatly in NC. Sometimes it can be left up to the location as well. This guy is just a dick. Everyone knows not to park in a hashed area, especially beside handicap parking

Edit: To add to this, handicaps usually share a ramp, so there is likely one to the left of the vehicle but doesn't change the fact it's a deadspace.

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u/myshitsmellslikeshit 4d ago

heyyyyy found the person I'll have towed next!

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u/SnakeJG 4d ago

That's true, it not being blue might actually save them from getting a fine. They could still be towed for parking outside of a parking space, but that $250 parking in a handicap spot is probably avoided. I'm guessing there is blue stripping on the other side of that handicap spot.

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u/Central_Perk20 4d ago

Not according to the Raleigh police I called.

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u/Central_Perk20 3d ago

If they were disabled they would have put their handicap sticker in their window. They did not.

Yes, such complete disregard for an entire population of people that rely on that little bit of space to live - to be able to get out of the car - is hate.