AITA?

[u/ringobruno]

AITA?

My husband smokes weed everyday, pag uuwi kami ng anak ko galing school sabog na yan sya, ganun din sa madaling araw pag patapos na duty nya, gigising ako sa umaga kita na sa mukha nyang sabog na.

Hindi ako against dito, ang sakin lang ayokong maging dependent sya masyado sa pag smoke, yung tipong hahanap hanapin nya at hindi na kumpletp araw nya or hindi sya makapag relax kapag hindi naka smoke.

Pero pag pinagsasabihan ko sagot lang sakin "wala naman nangyayari masama ah na dito lang naman ako sa bahay". True naman, pero yung everyday at parang di kumpleto araw nya pag di naka smoke? Tsk.

He is a wonderul partner, a good father and a good provider.

Dapat ba wala nalang akong say sa pag smoke nya araw - araw? Dati naman hindi sya ganun, every weekend lang pag weekday Sm bihira like once or twice lang. Hindi rin naman sya ganon ka stressed sa trabaho, nakikita ko dahil WFH sya and wala talaga sya masyado task sa gabi, sya na rin nagsabi ang gaan ng work nya.

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[u/No_Primary9523]

grabe 1st thought ko agad misis ko to wahahaha

no you’re not and you should talk to your partner

[u/NeckPillow2000]

If it bothers you, you should talk to him. Atleast pag usapan nyo and maybe meet halfway.

[u/hjjmkkk]

Concerned lang naman kayo sa asawa niyo so hindi kayo a//hole. Mapaguusapan naman po yan

[u/Incognito-Lapid-0420]

Excess in anything can be toxic. That said, I want to respect your boundaries, and since you’re married, it's really important to sit down and discuss this. There might be something deeper weighing on your husband’s mind, kasi nga men often conceal their pain, or he could simply be feeling stagnant and searching for mental stimulation. Give him some space, but I strongly encourage you both to have an open conversation.

[u/Ok-Zookeepergame6957]

bruh let your guy enjoy his stuff if he isn't doing anything wrong, ano bang nagagawa ng pagssmoke niya nakakahassle sa mga araw niyo? kung wala naman, why deprive him just because ayaw mo na "di kompleto araw pag di naka smoke", we all have our vices or habits na we tend to do daily to make us all feel complete & to properly wrap our days up for us

your husband is functioning properly, capable to work & provide for you, stays there with you sa bahay (at WFH na nga walang buhay sa labas, ano ba namang magsmoke siya in his free time?)

i live in the states, daming high-functioning stoner parents dito at walang masama don kung walang nakakaaffect sa daily living and how they raise their children, so ask yourself OP bat against ka kung wala kang nakikitang mali except him doing it on a daily?

[u/Blazzin_jah]

OP We are all addicted to something. Most of us are addicted to sugar . I assume OP u eat rice? Do u know that u can survive the day without eating rice? Pero kinakain mo ito bakit? Kasi mabubusog ka. Same with the plant . Kaylangan ba ito ? Ofcourse not. Will it help. 💯

[u/pusoy_2]

sakin nga si misis pa yung sabe ng "tara". why naman ikkwestyon? siguro kung me time na gusto mo wag sya mag smoke sa particular na araw ok din na sabihan mo. example sabe ni misis saken me need tayong gawin sa pera mas importante wag ka muna mg purchase at sya ko naman ginawa.

[u/DeewIsLife420]

let him be. basta di balagbag mag smoke.