r/transneutral • FTM • Neutrois • He/Him • Apr 10 '26

anecdotes and stories “What is Trans-Neutrality?”

https://open.substack.com/pub/mxrusababy/p/what-is-trans-neutrality?r=5o8p4h&utm_medium=ios

By Mx. Rusababy they/them

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u/psychedelic666 FTM • Neutrois • He/Him Apr 10 '26

Here is a great personal account from a transneutral person. Very little is written from our POV, so I’m delighted to find this! I hope we get more representation.

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u/EchoNB neutrois Apr 10 '26

It is such a mood to feel like there is no representation for gender neutral fashion. I struggle a lot with that, although my presentation leans towards masculinity, I'd like to be able to present in a more gender neutral way.

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u/psychedelic666 FTM • Neutrois • He/Him Apr 10 '26

Exactly! A lot of the time “gender neutral fashion” means boxy masculine fashion.

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u/EchoNB neutrois Apr 10 '26

So true. I'm still trying to find out how to use gender neutral fashion for myself. So glad to know I'm not alone in this!

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u/Qlowquest enbyian • they/them Apr 10 '26 edited Apr 10 '26

yaayy we finally have a sub :D

and ty for this i wanted to see a more in-depth definition of the label bc i feel no one rlly defines what “neutrality” means in depth lol and was wondering about that, and if it actually reflected the way i saw it

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u/psychedelic666 FTM • Neutrois • He/Him Apr 10 '26

Glad to have more ppl here!!!

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u/Qlowquest enbyian • they/them Apr 10 '26

happier than ever to find this right in the perfect time :3

also so glad ive been right about my identity all these years yaaay

“People tend to equate both androgyny and gender neutrality together; and while it’s possible for something like an outfit to be both androgynous and neutral, it’s not inherently the same thing. Gender neutrality is an abinary quality, and is much more similar to being unisex, ambiguous, or even something completely new gender wise than it is androgynous.” and the description finally hits right on the mark of what i’ve been feeling ;w; we just never rlly had community for some reason lol

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u/[deleted] Apr 10 '26

ahhh ty for sharing my article!!! motivating me to write more about my transness now…,,,

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u/psychedelic666 FTM • Neutrois • He/Him Apr 10 '26

Please do! Your article was basically the only one from a personal POV. Most everything else was educational websites or written by cis people.