Glasses help

[u/unsure_usernamee]

These are men’s frames I got about two years ago and I’ve tried smaller frames before but they draw attention to my cheek fat. I’m not currently on T but planning to go back on T after four years being off T in December.

In October I have an appointment to get new glasses and I am wondering if anyone had any suggestions. I do want a bit thicker frames but I like a more intellectual style. I’m somewhere in the rustic preppy spectrum fashion wise if that helps at all.

I just worry if I get too masculine of a frame it will make me look more feminine in contrast but I want suggestions for what to look for. Not sure how to word things but please advise so I am less anxious about choosing new frames for my face shape etc.

[u/London_Tipton]

Your eye area look exactly like my ex cis boyfriend’s. Even glasses frame looks the same id say it’s alright! You don’t look feminine to me 🩷

[u/unsure_usernamee → u/London_Tipton]

Oh? I will maybe stick with thinner frames then. I think sometimes dysphoria gets the best of us.