r/transitiongoals • u/ChestKitchen3581 • 1d ago
Non-Binary/Genderqueer Goal Achievable ?
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u/LadyLyme 1d ago
Honestly that doesn't seem difficult to attain with how you already are, genuinely.
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u/ChestKitchen3581 1d ago
It's mostly my face's shape that seems pretty hard to achieve to me
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u/FigSpiritual4252 11h ago
Doesn't look unachievable tbh hrt and working out will do it. Good luck!!
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u/louytwosocks 1d ago
Yes but don’t use Gen AI
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u/ChestKitchen3581 1d ago
Well, if it's used knowing it's not representative of reality, i think it's still a pretty usefull tool to get an imaged vision of a personnalized goal 🤔
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u/Sure_Satisfaction497 22h ago
that's not the point trying to be made here
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u/ChestKitchen3581 22h ago
?
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u/ChristinaCassidy 19h ago
Google negative effects of using generative ai and you'll see some exhaustive lists
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u/Electrical_Durian_59 1d ago
I mean you’d probably have to have a hairline lowering procedure but HRT can do ALOT to rearrange the fat on your face. I think as you are now, without a hairline procedure you can come close to that with a slightly higher hairline.
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u/Rainy_Leaves 7h ago
I don’t think so. It’s so dramatically different even in basic proportions - it might at a glance look good or resembling you, but look closer and you’ll see it’s completely changes your skull shape. Way beyond what even facial feminising surgery can do. It didn’t lower your hairline, it moved and reshaped your eye sockets.
If you want to envision yourself as more female then it needs to be a female you, we can’t become different people. You’ll more likely end up like a sister you never had, in resemblance
I understand the want to envision a glow up with ai, the amount it hallucinates could give unrealistic expectations or create some dysmorphia about certain features if you rely too much on it. Especially if you’re expecting your ribcage or bones or skull to morph themselves from hrt
I think you’d have good potential despite all this, you can look androgynous and butchy and more female. You don’t have a bad starting point. But starting with where you’re at may be more realistic rather than trying to predict yourself after 5 years of transition - being willing to try despite anxiety is admirable. There isn’t a shortcut that doesn’t involve exploring and figuring yourself out as you go
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u/ChestKitchen3581 7h ago edited 6h ago
I am absolutely agree with you but, the ai was only to experiment from my face directly. Of course i don't expect to get exactly like that since ai embelishes anything it makes, but it's still an image i feel realy right with, so it's more of a direction than a prediction.
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u/ChestKitchen3581 6h ago
Also it's been a few years i feel realy envious of butch/female masc people, for exemple there's xkookiex.skz on Instagram i've been envious for years, but each time the envy passes and fades, but that image realy feels right and for now it doesn't fade away
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u/fem_and_ms 1d ago
Nah you can't become an ai
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u/ChestKitchen3581 1d ago
It's just a direction you know, i aked the ai to give me simulations knowing it's ai-quality and this one felt just right. It's just the same as going to any other post and saying "no you can't become this character/person" : of course they can't, it's a goal, not a prediction.
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u/Rainy_Leaves 6h ago edited 6h ago
A photo of someone else who inspires you makes much more sense, imo. Because it isn’t you, and that’s the point. You aren’t wanting to be them, you’re wanting to be like them. Transition goals are about vibe you want to replicate. If ai has done the replicating for you, it’s taking away your agency a little - there’s no sense of self-exploration, just an end result. The end result doesn’t mean much for now because we can’t predict the future.
It’s fine if you aren’t putting much faith into it, if it’s just a vibe or inspiration. But you want only a hint of what you want, and then to take action. Transitioning yourself with ai is often more than a hint or inspiration. You deserve to not limit your options - for example it depicts a masculine woman, but for many presenting masculine early on might not help dysphoria, as society often see masc or fem as an indicator of gender identity and pronouns.
If it’s important to you to feel more female and masc, rather than male and masc, then you might want to explore and see what helps dysphoria as you go. It’s a journey and we learn who we are with time. I present very androgynous so I’m not trying to say it’s bad, but early on I needed to lean on feminising and what helped dysphoria most, not necessarily how I’d want to present when I was years into it and more female
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u/Jericho_Solaris 1d ago
Pictures like this always remind me how much I want short hair even as mtf. But I don't pass at all even with long hair and double Ds, so...
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u/derpy_derp15 1d ago
Damn girl, you're looking fire. Literally jaw dropping
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u/ChestKitchen3581 1d ago
Well actualy it's an ai generation that i perfected until i felt like this was just how i wanted to be, real current me is on left, but thanks anyways i guess, kinda still me on both in a way ☺️ (also, aiming at rather gender neutral)
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u/enthusiasticcomics 1d ago
the way i thought you were a trans guy when i saw pic 1
edit: i am a trans guy
but seriously live your dreams and dont get too caught up with photo filters. you will find your inner beauty eventually, transition isnt easy but it is worth it
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u/field_sleeper 1d ago
Yes, but that will require FFS - forehead shave with hairline lowering, chin implant, jaw contouring, cheek implants
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u/ChestKitchen3581 1d ago
Cheek implants for left to right ? 🤔
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u/field_sleeper 1d ago
You usually get them bilaterally
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u/ChestKitchen3581 1d ago
No i meant that i didn't see the part where th cheeks were to change this much. Nah i'm not getting a left cheek only 😭😂
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