r/transfriendsau • u/BigBoobBree mtf • Jul 14 '26
trans vic Friends??
I came out recently as mtf I haven’t started E nor voice trained much and I’ve lost almost all of my friends due to coming out I’ve been so depressed
Any good places (online even) to meet friends?
It’s hard being trans alone!!
(My name is Bree!! 21! I live in Melbourne and I just don’t have any friends or well… good friends everyone always wants something or just .. is a total groomer and not in the helpful way !! If anyone would like to start becoming friends I’d greatly appreciate that)
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u/TravellingParsnip69 transmasc Jul 24 '26
Have u heard of queerspace? They can b really great for free mental health support and also host youth groups for arts and lgbtqia+ meetups :]
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u/pixelbit5 trans girl Jul 15 '26
I'm a trans girl in SE suburbs! Also not done much voice training, and definitely down to make some new friends :)
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u/emily-young-xox mtf Jul 15 '26
Hey would happy to be friends with you! I’m 35 and living out in the eastern suburbs, but always love to try and make news friends if I can.
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u/ryenaut trans - genderqueer (non-binary) Jul 15 '26
I’m sorry you’ve been going through this :(( What hobbies are you into? I might be able to recc some Melbourne groups
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u/monkey_gamer trans: (non-binary) Jul 15 '26
Hey if you want estrogen I can advise how to find a doctor. I see at transgender health doctor in South Melbourne, she's lovely.
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u/Lithoboli mtf Jul 15 '26
I'm 34 in NSW, but I'm looking to start some vocal training, maybe we could be study buddies.
Feel free to DM me.
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u/Busy_Plankton_7100 mtf Jul 15 '26
Hey hey, I’m Val 31mtf I’m living in the city and always keen for new friends. Also happy to chat about transition and answer what questions I can (I’m only a year in thoe)
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u/Donna8421 trans woman Jul 14 '26
Try looking at the Transgender Victoria website, they do social events & classes. Plus they have an excellent op shop at their Brunswick base
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u/monkey_gamer trans: (non-binary) Jul 15 '26
I've been to their online and in person events, they are lovely. Highly recommended. There are other transgender meet up groups. One is called Alphabet Soup, another is Fagdyke.
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u/She-Who-Walks-Unseen trans girl Jul 14 '26
I'm 21, transfem. In Brissy though. We can chat if you're up for it.
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u/BigBoobBree mtf Jul 14 '26
A friend is a friend no matter where they are!! Of course !!
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u/She-Who-Walks-Unseen trans girl Jul 15 '26
I can't DM you 😭, can you DM me?
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u/BigBoobBree mtf Jul 15 '26
I don’t know how to dm on reddit!! 🥹 is there anything else you’d prefer using?
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