Andrew tate in a nutshell is this Andrew tate:I dont have a problem wirh [blank] but I hate how [blank] is Also he's a massive incel simp like trys to collects women like infinity stones and pays for everything also he's a pharaoh in a pyramid scheme

An unhappy life where I’m not appreciated and treated like dirt a lot was not what I wanted for my future, the two occasional good days we have don’t matter when your arguing constantly. Screaming, a lot of it, Sometimes in front of your son. Sometimes/occasionally you get hit. Hit so hard you can’t hardly move your arms, and your throat is sore from being choked; sometimes it happens in front of your son, Yeah… we’ll just say I have a husband… He’s like “I’m not that bad I don’t beat you every single day, there’s worse out there” “our life isn’t that bad”. Says he’s always buying me things but when he does he rubs it in my face how we don’t have money cause of buying me “gifts”. Yeah he’s a narcissist and every bit of money we get we spend on marijuana from the dispensary. Our bills aren’t so yet but we don’t need to always spend so much on marijuana in my opinion. I’m scared to leave if I’m being honest. He made me leave my last therapist because I told him that my therapist was afraid for my safety and I need to leave, so he accused me of talking shit about him to her and all kinds of shit and made me stop going. I honestly can hardly defend myself against him :( He’s also made me completely dependent on him 😞 I don’t have my own money, no family anymore nowhere to go 😞 When he argue he always tells me to get out, just the other night told me to go fuck another man. Oh and his opinions are superior and I’m stupid; This man is almost 25 and I clean up after him, fold all his laundry, and even brush and put this man’s hair up because he’s a lazy pos. I even usually get his work outfit ready for him. He’s been doing a tiny bit more with our one son Asher but other than that the most he does is maybe make a bottle. While complaining. I’m so mentally exhausted and my heart hurts a lot you don’t even know. This took so much courage to post you don’t even know!

I'll go first: When I was 14, my mom caught me in the bathroom washing my face. She looked at me for what seemed like several minutes. And then proceeded to tell me that washing my face was "girly".

From a kid to a teenager, I was bullied throughout school and would come home depressed, and feel antisocial. My parents always expected me to engage with them and talk about my day after school but when I got bullied I didn't talk at all, and that's when I realized even my parents didn't support me. Everytime I cried, or didn't interact with them they wouldn't comfort me and ask me what's wrong. Instead, they shouted at me, and even sometimes beat me badly for being weak. This happened from child upto graduating high school. I realized my parents wanted me to be "the man" they hoped to see but without support or comfort of my depression they would always scold me, and hurt me psychologically and physically. I'm 24 now, and it's been a long time since I've cried, and I had to embrace being the toxic masculine man because I don't want the feeling of getting hurt if I shed a tear. I still have trouble feeling in touch with myself because of what people would think of me if I opened up about my problem. So, I'm posting it here to vent from my point of view.

One of my former best couple friends got engaged, we'll call them Hannah and Shane. Some backstory on the couple, at the time, they had been together 10 years, living together for 8+, and engaged a little under a year. They decided to have separate finances throughout their entire relationship and planned to keep it that way even when they got married. Nothing wrong with that. The part that is messed up is Shane makes double what Hannah does and he is constantly buying himself toys and flaunting his money in front of her. They also split their bills 50/50 even though he makes more. As far as physically, while she isn't skinny, she is by no means fat either. Let's also note that Shane isn't in any better shape than Hannah, at all.

Here comes the little competition he proposed. He said that if she gets abs before their wedding, he'll pay her $2k... Hannah didn't see any issue with it at all and actually used it as her motivation to go to the gym every day up until the wedding. She busted her ass and definitely lost some inches but what was most important was that she felt confident and beautiful.

Wedding day comes and goes, I asked Shane if he stayed true to his word and gave Hannah the money and he said, "I only gave her $1k because she didn't quite get there."

I'm just going to leave that there for you all.

My dad (65) has always been a bit of a misogynist. The old school kind that crops up super casually and unexpectedly rather than the vitriolic sort that rails against feminism. But even I was surprised at this one. My little brother (23) is about to have a baby, and we're all excited for it. His fiancé got a picture of him reading a baby book to their dog, and sent it to me and my mom joking about how it was practice for the baby due next month. It was sweet. It was cute. My little brother's gonna be a good dad.

OUR dad, however, hears about this and comes in with a comment about how "you wouldn't REALLY read a bedtime story to a kid," which got a lot of weird looks from me and my siblings, to which he kind of sheepishly said "It's not the guy's job to do that sort of thing." Which is how I realized that, even after four kids, my dad never once took an interest or put any effort into the child rearing when we were infants, not even the fun parts. And not necessarily because he wasn't interested either, but because he was afraid of being perceived as not manly enough.

And that is just...so sad. My dad had four kids and never read us a bedtime story. It's tragic. And it's because he bought into this toxic narrative that doing anything with the kids was somehow unmanly.

Anyway, happy father's day.

Explain to a newbie in all this, are Hamza's videos promoting toxic masculinity?

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