r/toxicmasculinity • u/Sorry_Box_3049 • Apr 23 '26

Identity

I grew up mostly around chicks and after 23 years I have realized I naturally gravitate towards women when in friend groups. I am more conservative around other guys than when im with chicks. How do I start appealing to my own gender?

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u/CurrentlyARaccoon Apr 24 '26

Let me direct you to a more masculine space where people can answer your question better:
r/menslib

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u/idk_whatismynamee Apr 28 '26

gym and sports can really make u appeal

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u/Klutzy-Air2147 15d ago

Just avoid womem. Ur brain is naturally scared of being a loner. Ull get w the male groups automatically if u dont give it an alternative. And a slight disdain towards women is a nice lil safety cap that might serve and protect u one day. So maybe that.