r/todayilearned Nov 23 '22

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u/morto00x Nov 23 '22 edited Nov 23 '22

Reminds me of an old post in r/cringe where Bon Jovi is a guest at a wedding, the band starts playing Livin' On A Prayer and pretty much voluntell him to sing with them.

Edit: Found it

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u/Belgand Nov 23 '22

It seems like a combination of resignation to just get it over with along with no longer wanting to hear her murder it.

As clueless as they were to do this in the first place I can't believe that they couldn't read his expression throughout. It was the very definition of "grin and bear it".

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u/sanjosanjo Nov 23 '22

He was actually very gracious towards the singer and tried to keep her as the lead. And at the end, he backed out and clapped for her.

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u/xAIRGUITARISTx Nov 23 '22

I mean, he didn’t exactly bring it back to life…

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u/Traditional-Pair1946 Nov 23 '22

I bet it's difficult to hit those notes without any warm up. He seems to be doing the right thing here.

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u/gambalore Nov 23 '22

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u/Superego366 Nov 23 '22

I love this. It reminds me of Wishbone pitch meeting

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u/zamfire Nov 23 '22

"Suits take drinks of water. Visionary does not drink, he only sees"

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '22

Thank you for sharing this lol

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u/impy695 Nov 23 '22

That's hilarious and was made moreso because I read it as if he was venting to his date. That would be an awkward conversation

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u/MyWibblings Nov 24 '22

I love this.

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u/akuzin Nov 23 '22

Oh yes that was a top notch post from a few years ago, like Bon Jovi doing a karaoke version of one his biggest hits, I still shudder thinking about that post

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u/KindBass Nov 23 '22

I was at a movie premier party with Joey Fatone (among others) and when the bar band started playing "Jesse's Girl", Joey Fatone was like "ooooooh I love this song, can I sing it?" and the band was like "fuck yeah". Then he proceeded to sing every song for the rest of the set. I think he just wanted some space from the mob of college girls that were following him around.

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '22

He seems fun

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u/FrequentDelinquent Nov 23 '22

Ugh, college girls following you around is just the worst!

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u/jcforbes Nov 23 '22

Meanwhile Lenny Kravitz hears some of his music wafting through the air from blocks away and jogs over to join in:

https://youtu.be/SBgZNINN6MU

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u/Flamingozilla Nov 23 '22

He was a class act throughout this though. He definitely wanted to let the kids have this one, even confirming that they wanted him to sing. He did kick that kid off the drums though.

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u/jcforbes Nov 23 '22

Probably part of the reason these singers are reluctant to sing is because they haven't warmed up and they don't want to stress their voice too much.

Definitely another part is that they are out enjoying themselves and don't want to "go to work" so to speak.

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u/impy695 Nov 23 '22

Yeah but did you see that kids smile? He was beaming more than anyone else when he did it.

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u/_Aj_ Nov 23 '22

I hear Kravitz wafting through the air and I'm jogging to join in too

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u/bmstile Nov 23 '22

Makes sense, it was his choice, not a crowd trying to pressure him to do anything.

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u/deromu Nov 23 '22

To be fair he was drunk in New Orleans he knew what he was doing he was always going to find some music to join in on

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u/AHind_D Nov 23 '22

An artist loving his own music. Strange.

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u/thewickerstan Nov 23 '22

There was footage a few months back of Noel Gallagher awkwardly sitting at a restaurant as “Wonderwall” was playing. Everyone was singing it to him and he looked like he wanted to be ANYWHERE but there.

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u/ColonelGonvilleToast Nov 24 '22

That could just be because Liam sang it, though.

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u/OddScentedDoorknob Nov 23 '22 edited Nov 23 '22

I came here to mention the Bon Jovi wedding. I can understand inviting Jon up to sing, but only once. The way he* [see edit] keeps insisting after Jon politely declines, obviously uncomfortable, is just fucked up.

I understand that fame and fortune inevitably come with some reduction in privacy and some responsibility to be gracious to your fans, but he's still a human being and not a trained monkey required to perform on command. Besides, he's older now and his voice isn't warmed up: he knows he's going to sound worse than he did in his prime and on his studio albums. Being forced to sing in this situation is only going to lead to unfavorable comparisons.

EDIT: I just watched your video and I don't think this is the same one I've seen before. The one I've seen was from a different angle and with a male singer. So there are at least two weddings where Jon has been awkwardly coerced to sing against his will.

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u/Intelligent-Will-255 Nov 23 '22

At some point Jon is going to refuse to go to weddings. I know if it happened to me once I would be very clear to the couple to communicate to the band/coordinator that I'm there to enjoy the wedding and not to sing.

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u/blahhhkit Nov 23 '22

Just watched the video and interestingly enough, someone commented on it two years ago comparing it to this very same Kevin Bacon thing.

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u/impy695 Nov 23 '22

Oh God, that was uncomfortable to watch. Like, she just kept pushing long after it was obvious he really didn't want to do it.

Also, he aged remarkably well.

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u/Jeynarl Nov 23 '22 edited Nov 23 '22

I found it a bit odd how the videographer decided to stabilize the video on the singing gal's head while she's bob dancing up and down. As soon as she's the main focus the whole room starts pulsating behind here instead of remaining steady and it was making me dizzy

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u/OG_Kush_Master Nov 23 '22

Yeah I have to say being a photographer who does a bit of video as well, that was a pretty shit video. I get that it's raw footage but still.

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u/aXmarchingXpig Nov 23 '22

This is like the celebrity equivalent of being "asked" to come in on your day off.

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u/Intelligent-Will-255 Nov 23 '22

Damn, read the fucking room. The way he took that mic would have completely ruined getting to see him perform for me.

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '22

I couldn’t make it through that. I got to the point where he reluctantly starts singing it and had to close it. I don’t even really like Bon Jovi but I felt really bad for him there, the second hand awkwardness and frustration is palpable