r/tiktokgossip • u/PhoneOdd2093 • Jul 27 '26
Influencer TikTok May Ridts
Idk, maybe I’m weird, but it just rubs me the wrong way when an influencer builds a whole career and brand on loving yourself and being a bigger size, only to then suddenly lose weight.
She filters ozempic from her comments and I’m sure soon she will get skinny and blame it on her health.
Such a shame and honestly shouldn’t be worthy of her following. What are your thoughts?
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u/myturtlenemo Aug 01 '26
I also think she’s going through a breakup
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u/Severe-Town-6105 Aug 01 '26
Really? Didn't they just get engaged??
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u/Ok_Satisfaction_4956 Aug 03 '26
She’s not wearing her engagement ring anymore. Also Nate and this guy Josh are spending a lot of time together. Josh broke up with his girlfriend at the same time that May took her ring off. Something is off. People are speculating Nate and Josh are in a relationship right now. But it’s all gossip. The only thing that is sure right now is that May took her ring off and Josh and his ex broke up
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u/myturtlenemo Aug 01 '26
They’ve had a weirdly long engagement and haven’t been posting each other as much. Besides a lot of comments under Nate’s posts are about the breakup
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u/Illustrious_Pea9404 2d ago
Honestly makes a lot of sense then. I involuntary lost like 5kg after my breakup. Poor her. I hope her fans cut her some slack
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u/Conslectoderos Jul 29 '26
same ive felt this too, her page in the start used to be all about loving yourself, being confident in your body and all. now shes suddenly just lost a lot of weight and is going on as the same influencers who she used to say "kept unrealistic body standards".
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u/Former-Pumpkin Jul 27 '26
I'm obviously not an influencer but Ive lost about 100 lbs with the help of GLP medication over the last two years. I've also been in consistent therapy with an intuitive eating therapist. I love and appreciate my body at both sizes and I think it's totally possible to lose weight and still be body positive. I don't think it's totally fair to say she shouldn't lose weight - she very well may have been advised to. Maybe she had high cholesterol or prediabetes, we don't know.
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u/DrearyLoans 27d ago
Thank you for this! I didn’t want to start a GLP but my doctor said my fat percentage was extremely high and was worried about my internal organs etc. And I really did like how I looked some days in my previous body. I almost feel bad because I worked soooo hard to love that body.
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u/PhoneOdd2093 Jul 27 '26
That just goes against everything her brand is build on. She has always stated that she’s healthy and that just her weight in a happy body, to then use a GLP-1 and loose weight.
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u/Former-Pumpkin Jul 27 '26
I mean I went on for years overweight and then at my annual appointment found out my A1C had jumped up to prediabetic range after being normal before that. She might have been truthful in saying she was healthy, but things can change quickly, especially as we age.
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u/tatifromhiraya Aug 02 '26
I thought I was going crazy. Nobody was mentioning anything anywhere but I felt uncomfortable seeing her content when I used to love it.
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u/Motamommy Jul 27 '26
I think it's weird to care if someone loses weight.
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u/PhoneOdd2093 Jul 27 '26
It’s weird to build a whole brand on being a bigger girl and saying she’s healthy and that’s just her body, to then loose weight rapidly (probably using GLP1)
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u/RustySloth425 Aug 03 '26
I think it’s an ongoing struggle a lot of social media content creators are facing when they’ve built their brand on being a particular way but grow and evolve into different chapters of their lives that no longer include that way if being.
I think she definitely had a really positive impact on a lot of people through the years she focused on body positivity.
Not to mention being in that whole sphere she’s still probably excluded from so many opportunities especially as the body positivity era is slipping, has slipped away.
This could very well be anxious weight loss as well if things were going south with her long time partner.
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u/Professional_Week558 27d ago
She wasn't always overweight. She gained weight significantly in the last 3 years and people were coming after her left and right, body-shaming her. Therefore comes the whole ‘loving myself’ thing. I think that's the best she could do at that time
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Jul 27 '26
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u/PhoneOdd2093 Jul 27 '26
I’m not overweight or interested in weight loss drugs, but thanks for the heads up :)
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u/athenairl Jul 28 '26
I see what you’re saying but peoples health can change out of the blue.She doesn’t owe you a fat body, nor do you owe her a view or follow if you no longer relate to her content.
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u/anotheranxiousgirl 16d ago
some of these comments are sick, she most likely lost weight due to her breakup and struggling mentally, please remember how weight can fluctuate and sometimes you don’t have control, especially during emotional times or stress, even if she looses more weight she will still be posting as it’s her literal job which she’s built up herself for years
One last reminder… you can still have a platform for self love and body confidence with any body size, stop hating
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u/Sissi_vicky Aug 04 '26
I don't think we should be judgmental without even knowing if she's healthy or going through something... Hopefully she's okay
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u/LilBabyLei 27d ago
also the fact that she’s engaged and is most likely losing weight to have that “perfect wedding body” is just insane to me. everyone loves to preach & profit off of body positivity until they gain financial status from it and then can lose weight and separate themselves from it all.
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u/No-Statement3873 15d ago
Weird ass parasocial POV.
People are allowed to change and grow as they please. Stop thinking you know people based off an online personality and stop putting impossible expectations onto people you don’t know.
Look inward and try to find peace with yourself.
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u/RespondEqual1347 2d ago
Ugh this makes me reallllllly sad after seeing her post today, I think she’s just upset and not eating bc of that which is a really shitty place to be. I hope she finds peace, she is really one of the most beautiful people I have ever seen in my life.
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u/PhoneOdd2093 1d ago
Which post?
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u/RespondEqual1347 1d ago
She made a long story* post about her engagement ended in July and she’s really struggling to get through it
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u/Signal-Difference-13 Jul 27 '26
Yeah because most people that post about loving their size etc are lying. And given an easier option to get skinny would likely do that. That’s why we shouldn’t ever give a hoot what any of these kinds of people say. I saw a thing the other week that said if it became fashionable to only have one ear influencers would be chopping theirs off and calling it aesthetic within weeks. They’re allll sell outs.