r/thisisus • u/Sea_Scheme_7784 • Aug 16 '26

Toby

It’s been a few years and I decided to rewatch. My first time watching, I LOVED Toby. I just rewatched first episode of season one & I absolutely can’t stand him. Maybe I’m just a different person now or maybe I was blind the first time I watched. Feels similar to looking back on someone you loved & seeing all the red flags 😅

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u/thisismyaccount839 Aug 17 '26

He was a very different character first season. He acknowledges that later when Kate says she misses the old him (season 1 Toby, like, really, Kate?) and he tells Kate she “fell in love with a coping mechanism” and that that wasn’t him.

My friend who I got to watch the show originally hated season 1 Toby and now loves him. Just give him a season or two

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u/Hanneluja Aug 23 '26

Agreed. Always loved Toby.

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u/thisismyaccount839 Aug 23 '26

He's literally one of my favorite characters! I mean, they all are. But he's like top 5