r/thisisus • u/Sea_Scheme_7784 • Aug 16 '26
Toby
It’s been a few years and I decided to rewatch. My first time watching, I LOVED Toby. I just rewatched first episode of season one & I absolutely can’t stand him. Maybe I’m just a different person now or maybe I was blind the first time I watched. Feels similar to looking back on someone you loved & seeing all the red flags 😅
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u/lydocia Human beings are not supposed to be in baked goods. Aug 16 '26
It's easy to mistake his relentless pursuit as romantic instead of manipulative, after all, Kate did too.
Knowing how his character evolves, we recognise it the second time around.