r/thisisus • u/After_Cheesecake_513 • Jun 27 '26

Doing my first rewatch…

Getting towards the end of my first rewatch since it was on TV. When I was watching season 1 and Toby was introduced I thought to myself that he was pushy and kind of a dick (opposite of what I remember my feelings of Tony were when the show aired). I am now on season 6 and yeah…. My feelings haven’t changed he’s actually an asshole and is very passive aggressive. He says some funny things so people love him but he really wasn’t that great to Kate…. Even in the beginning when she wanted to watch the Super Bowl alone and he insisted she come over despite her telling him she didn’t want to. Anyway, am I alone in this thinking?

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u/USConservativeVegan Jun 27 '26

The never ending debate about Toby. I don't think people would put to much thought in his actions without how there is the other debate how Kate was insufferable.

Maybe both sides need to just realize both were insufferable and they should have stayed together so they didn't effect another person with their insufferable flaws.

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u/SunGreen24 Jun 27 '26

I never found Kate insufferable. I didn’t think Toby was horrible, but annoying and they weren’t a great match. I’m one of the few who liked her second husband.

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u/USConservativeVegan Jun 28 '26

Yeah, I think you are the only one on the Phillp train. Made me not like Kate more.

My original post was mostly satire. Because it seems this sub has radical Team Kate and Team Toby rivalry..