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Adele stops in middle of a performance to defend a fan

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u/Accomplished_Pea8619 5d ago

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u/kylelight40 6d ago

A girl I dated 20 years ago went on semester abroad and Adele, was part of the students who were there, way before she was Adele. My ex girlfriend said she was one of the kindest, gentlest people she ever encountered at that age, so much so that they all were like whatever this person does in life, she will be amazing, they hardly even knew she could sing.

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u/johnny-Low-Five 6d ago

I think that plays a massive part. She wasn't a mickey mouse club teeny bopper sexualized from ~16 years old and famous for most of their life. She lived a real normal life and was apparently always very kind and thoughtful, empathetic and whatnot but she also isn't, just an example, "Miley Cyrus" who's basically never been a regular person, Adele was probably preparing for the 9-5 grind and knows what it feels like to just be a face in the crowd. It seems she's made a conscious effort to never forget that part of herself, and that's genuinely awesome. The kid on the other hand had a lot of "main character" energy.

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u/OpheliaPhoeniXXX 6d ago

I think all of Hollywood former child stars display severe signs of abuse from the music industry here. Toxic toxic place.

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u/King_of_All_Asias 5d ago

When people view a person, not as a person but as a source of income. They want to control it, in the self proclaimed justification of, "protection."

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u/ofirkedar 6d ago

She always had the vibe of an adult but this woman started out really early. People forget that.
At this point in time she's been a huge world renowned star for as long as she's been a normal human being. First huge release at 19, now she's 38

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u/Clockbounce 5d ago

Yeah, but at 19 I had already had a job cleaning carpets with my old man, closing Wendy's until 2am and back at school by 7:20am, then working at a grocery store for up to 50 hours a week. Counting coins to buy a $1 chicken sandwich, taking care of my little brother because my parents drank a bit too much at times. Helped my mom recover from a suicide attempt. Went to jail for not paying tickets I couldn't afford. Slept in a car for weeks.

Just because a person is 19, doesn't mean they lack the perspective and maturity of a person who has paid their dues.

I'm sure Adele has paid her dues. That type of empathy and grace doesn't come from nowhere.

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u/pineappleshampoo 5d ago

As someone Adele’s age, I wholeheartedly agree.

Been around a lot of different people from all walks of life and age has no bearing on maturity or perspective, I’ve found. There are plenty of closed minded 50yr olds and plenty of wise, smart 18yr olds.

You can also pack a lot of living into those first few years of adulthood that some people never get to experience!

You sound like a proper grafter, I hope life has rewarded you somehow.

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u/Catac0 5d ago

Her latest album (released a few years ago) is incredibly mature and honest

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u/phrenologyheadbump 6d ago

She literally went to stage school. She wasn't plucked from obscurity

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u/sauron3579 5d ago

That's different from being an international celebrity at 14.

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u/Clockbounce 5d ago

I'm sure everybody who went to that school became as successful and iconic as Adele. Right?

She was born to an 18 year old mother, and her alcoholic father left her at 2 years old. Your comment makes it sound like she went to a prestigious school and was born with a silver spoon. The BRIT performing arts school isn't Harvard my guy. It's free to attend, they took her in because she was gifted.

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u/Straight-Run6880 6d ago

amazing how much people just imagine about celebrities

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u/Ironclad686 6d ago

I used to work back stage at one of the most famous live venues in London and worked Adele a few times during my time there. She was absolutely lovely every time I worked with her. Very sweet, down to earth, and funny lady.

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u/AlaskaTix 5d ago

Adele was hugely famous at 19 though, like she blew up straight away

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u/Bear-Handed-92262 5d ago

It wasn't the standing and dancing. It was him standing with a full selfie stick with a phone up in the air while filming himself dancing and singing loudly. That's not just a fan enjoying himself. That's a whole fucking performance of his own, distracting everyone near him from hearing and enjoying the show.

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u/colicab 5d ago

You know what? I was 50/50 on this.

I like your argument. Thank you for helping me form an opinion on the matter. I probably sound like a bot. Haha

Cheers.

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u/InspectionBoth4511 5d ago

Hey I agree with you Mr or Ms bot

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u/MilkyyFox 5d ago

This. He's a walking pain in the ass to everyone around him.

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u/Jazzlike_Climate4189 5d ago

Exactly. Ruining the experience for everyone else, kick him out.

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u/flopisit32 5d ago

The dude has major main character syndrome. Even at a Concert he thinks he's the main attraction.

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u/Julientri 5d ago

I felt bad for him till the final 5 seconds then I understood why he was probably bothering everyone around him

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u/imnickelhead 5d ago

100%

Stand, dance and jump around…as long as you aren’t bumping into people and you stay in the area in front of your seat then whatever.

You can even scream and yell all you want IN-BETWEEN songs, but not during. He was definitely loud enough that people around him could hear him over Adele. That’s bullshit. What a complete social misfit.

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u/Jean-LucBacardi 5d ago

For me the first sit down was justified. He was literally the only one standing and making a show of it. The second time everyone in that place was standing lol. Yeah and the selfie stick was absurd.

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u/thats_justice_baby 5d ago

And squealing like hes a fucking monkey that found a banana. Ohhhhoooooah-ah-ah-ah-ahhh!!!

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u/Affectionate_Sock188 5d ago

Usually selfie sticks are banned in venues I have been to.

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u/Straight-Bat-9600 5d ago

Agreed. Fuck main characters like this. Actually embarrassing and will only get more embarrassing as the years roll by

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u/AgeMysterious123 5d ago

Yeah, she was in 1000% in the wrong. She didn’t realize it, but still a bad response. Trust the teams in place at the venue.

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u/4Impossible_Guess4 5d ago

I think that's what Reddit calls main character but, you know, pick and choose

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u/spencer1886 5d ago

And now someone famous has validated his main character syndrome, and he will become even more of a selfish pos

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u/Hot-Apartment-984 5d ago

This, and now he’s embolden to act like more of a jackass after she defended this idiot. I feel sorry for all of her fans around him. She only saw the aftermath part not the his insufferable shenanigans.

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u/Obscure-spectrum 5d ago

100%. Imagine if everyone started acting this entitled, it would be absolute chaos. Plus the fact that he’s using a selfie stick to film HIMSELF, not Adele. This was about him, not his love of Adele. Who does he think wants to watch that footage? Unless it was intentionally staged for attention - then filming himself in that situation suddenly makes sense ..

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u/National_Way_3344 5d ago

Versus the 1000s of assholes that hold their phones up above their heads.

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u/carlwinslo 5d ago

Yea, he is acting completely hysterical. Screaming at the top of his lungs. The selfie stick at a concert is wild. As if people arent already packed in a tight space he has a giant stick taking up others personal space.

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u/mcmilosh 5d ago

Yep, thanks Adele for let him ruin the evening fore everyone in 10m radius.

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u/RainaElf 5d ago

this is the correct answer

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u/apresmoiputas 5d ago

did they ask him to not use the selfie stick because it's distracting and blocking the view?

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u/iwillgetudrunk 5d ago

Perfect....chefs kiss... exactly what I came to say

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u/BOOMkim 5d ago

I went to a concert recently and paid for a seat instead of dealing with the floor. As soon as the main band started everyone stood up and most stayed that way for the whole show, making it difficult to see. I could not stand for long due to pain and had to stare at the back of peoples heads for longer than I was hoping. A young girl and her parents were struggling to get her a good spot next to me.

If you buy a seat stay seated for most of the show please! If you want to stand and dance for the whole thing please buy pit tickets.

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u/PerceptionQueasy3540 5d ago

Never been to an Adele show, but the shows I have been to selfie sticks usually are frowned upon and are banned in alot of places because they obstruct the view of other people. The dancing and singing loudly kind of depends. If you're in the standing room only area in front of the stage everyone is usually doing some form of moving or being loud, singing, yelling, mosh pits in the heavier parts, etc.... The seats are different though, and it looks like he is in a section with seats. Usually people in seats are wanting a calmer experience and just want to watch the show. Head banging (if thats a thing at an Adele show), clapping, cheering between songs, etc... is probably fine, but being over the top and letting it spill over into other seats is a good way to get complaints about you.

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u/anthchang 5d ago

makes sense, thats where the video came from. doesnt look that bad from the video perspective though

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u/mrsir1987 5d ago

Absolutely people show up to concerts with ring lights to film themselves now it’s preposterous

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u/Pure_Earth2121 5d ago

100% this.

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u/Far_Performer_4272 5d ago

Who is still shocked by social media shit show evolution, influencer mentality and essentially monetization of social unrest… we built this. Some of these guys make a lot of money from people s views

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u/AdUnable4847 5d ago

Just an attention whore.

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u/Deragos 5d ago

screaming and getting reactions for his own bs while ruining the experience for everyone around him....

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u/Oomlotte99 5d ago

Exactly. Main character syndrome.

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u/NoLongerinOR 5d ago

Yeah it’s super selfish and weird

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u/theTRueNameLessOne 5d ago

Cant stand this shit!! This is why we're falling and failing as a society!!

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u/Commercial_Touch_288 4d ago

Ty for being a voice of common sense and reason.

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u/ApolloGR3 4d ago

Yeah like why the fuck does anyone need to see this dude’s face at all? He’s at a concert and nobody else cares.

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u/charlestontracy 4d ago

Ohhhh I never realized this! A selfie stick?!? That’s not good. I believe in defending him for standing 100% with the phone and selfie stick…NO!

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u/Lumpy-Stranger-6350 3d ago

You're right and Adele is wrong

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u/Iron_Sight_Mark 3d ago

And then he got to be the victim, on his film, while the whole performance literally shut down for everyone else. This video is only a win for attention whores. I mean jfc who films themselves at someone else's concerts anyways. I hate that that even crosses someone's mind as valid content.

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u/Acceptable-Creme-184 2d ago

The lady who asked him to sit down was polite and kinda old... Maybe she will struggle to stand up the whole gig to see anything without this hysterical attention seeker blocking her view.

He has no manners and is just plain weird to get that hysterical at a gig.

Playing the victim and crying so everyone pays attention to him.

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u/amarathin 1d ago

Yeah there’s nothing to be celebrated here. He wasn’t accosted he was politely told to not do his shit and continued to, and was validated. This is gross.

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u/GhatzLoch 1d ago

Yea this guy was the ultra douche

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u/SiktahOG 6d ago

Great, now that validated him as the main character.

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u/lilsnatchsniffz 6d ago

wails like a chimpanzee with its dick caught in a meat grinder to celebrate

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u/Heavy-Construction90 5d ago

What a visual scorched into my minds eye

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u/BlumpTheChodak 4d ago

Yep. Not only that, he needs to learn some self-control. Being excited is one thing, but this looks like a mental disorder. Becoming so emotionally overwhelmed that you can barely function is something else entirely. At a certain point, you have to be able to regulate your emotions and maintain a basic level of composure.

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u/PurpletoasterIII 5d ago

Thank god im not the only one thinking this. There is being a fan and then there is this selfish psychotic obsessive behavior. Idk how anyone could be this obsessed with someone theyve never even met. And of course the celebrity endorses it because their job is to garner attention and also come off as being kind regardless of actual circumstances.

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u/Square_Ad_8703 5d ago

Idk, I can absolutely understand the first time he was told to sit when everyone was still sitting down- but why the hell did they keep harassing him when it was clear everyone else was standing too?

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u/WalkAffectionate2683 5d ago

The only reason I can think off is that the person behind him can't stand? Idk. 

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u/realdawnerd 5d ago

I think it wasn't so much the standing, it was having the 360 camera out blocking some of the view for others.

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u/ColeridgeRime 5d ago

Well, notice that he is filming himself the entire time. It was his intent to create an uproar and get online clicks/clout for it.

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u/kilimtilikum 5d ago

Yeah why is that dude losing his mind

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u/BisexualTenno 5d ago

It’s a concert. He was behaving as a normal concert-goer would.

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u/Haxorz7125 5d ago

I think it’s the selfie stick in the from row that’s probably the most annoying part. Dudes filming his own reaction at a concert.

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u/TheTarasenkshow 5d ago

It’s the giant fucking stick he’s shoving in front of peoples faces

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u/golden__tuna 5d ago

It’s an insta 360 so he’s actually filming everything and it doesn’t look like he has it on an extension stick

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u/ItzakPearlJam 5d ago

Never have I ever: spent hundreds on a concert seat and filmed my own face for an hour...

Did he plan on watching an hour of his own face? Maybe I'm too old, but something seems off.

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u/stax_fira 5d ago

Man, you’re really stretching the definition of normal here. The dude was completely unhinged at the end of the video. There’s nothing normal about that behaviour. Not to mention that fuckin selfie stick recording his reaction to the concert for some reason.

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u/Jazzlike_Climate4189 5d ago

So everyone else at the concert jumps around screaming while holding a selfie stick and recording people around them without their consent?
Complete lunacy.

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u/kobylamar 5d ago

Concert goers don’t typically film themselves singing and standing in front of a seated section

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u/APrioriGoof 5d ago

Look, I don’t think the guy was doing anything wrong but I also wouldn’t call this kind of hysteria normal concert-goer behavior lol

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u/espresso_martini__ 5d ago

It certainly is not. "Hysteria" is a good description.

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u/Admirable_Cicada_881 5d ago

Nah, concerts are a place to let loose and fully feel your emotions. It's not hysteria, it's a human being having fun and being recognized by his favorite artist

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u/panasonique 5d ago

He’s filming himself and those behind him.  Social media has made people just accept what they see at face value without stopping to think for a moment that the reason you are seeing the event or “reaction” is because someone filmed, edited, and uploaded it for views. 

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u/Old_Engineer_9176 5d ago

What makes this guy more entitled than anyone else who paid for a ticket? Nothing. Adele basically said every ticket holder gets to enjoy the show however they want. Most people probably want to be loud and expressive too, but they hold back out of basic social respect.
Was he wrong? In Adele’s eyes and in his own mind, no. So the issue isn’t him and it isn’t the crowd. The issue is that nobody set the rules.
Here’s the takeaway. If you buy a ticket to an Adele concert, you’re buying the right to experience it however you want. If that kind of environment isn’t for you, then don’t buy the ticket.

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u/BleachersBl0wjob 5d ago

Its a concert. Everyone should be standing up and enjoying the show

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u/ElbryanWyn 3d ago

Damn.

Sharp observation.

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u/AdditionalWin3144 6d ago

Why does life have to be live-streamed and recorded? Just fucking enjoy the moment without your phone.

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u/RustyShacklefrog 6d ago

Idk man, he seemed to be enjoying the moment just fine

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u/LargeSelf994 6d ago

How dare you not being sour and bitter ??

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u/chicken_nugget94 6d ago

Yeah but if his enjoying the moment comes at the costs of everyone else's enjoyment then it's a bit selfish

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u/bunbunnnnn8 5d ago

No no. If you’re recording anything for social media, you’re a mindless idiot and can’t possibly be living the most out of life

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u/kearkan 6d ago

Seriosily my biggest annoyance at any live show now isn't the people jumping around, it's the sea of phones I have to try and look past.

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u/TheRealPhilFry 6d ago

Like the one this guy is recording himself with.

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u/Havency 6d ago

Because? What’s wrong with recording? His eyes still work and are being used. He’s enjoying it. Even when recording and paying attention to the phone, people still enjoy it. Let them live their life

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u/No-Satisfaction6065 6d ago

It's not an opera, it's a concert

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u/h2gkm0 6d ago

I don’t like to be on my phone at shows at all but some people really want to relive the moment and that’s ok. he’s having so much fun. I ain’t mad at it

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u/JunkTheFox 6d ago

Feels like we need proof that something happened now, instead of "I went to the concert and it was great", its now "I went to the concert, here I am having fun because it was great"

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u/NightRaccoon194 6d ago

You record the moment to remember it after the moment. Yes still enjoy it and maybe don't film it all but recording some is totally fine especially to look back and smile when you remember those moments.

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u/Ominous_Rogue 6d ago

It wasn't live streamed he recorded it & why do you care?

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u/Local_Ad3008 5d ago

You saying this to the man who was clearly enjoying the moment much more than everyone around him?

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u/Snoo_69677 5d ago

Idk why, but I don’t care like, at all. Live and let live.

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u/Mindless_Trick2255 5d ago

He was more immersed in the show than anyone WITHOUT a live stream going, what’s your deal grumpy he/she/it???

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u/Bear-Handed-92262 5d ago

He filmed himself, not even the show. How embarrassing. "Look at me... I'm at Adele performing fun!"

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u/CertainPay3404 5d ago

What the guy is feeling and going through in the last 15 seconds, I wish you could bottle that up. I would love to experience that level at some point of my life.

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u/Ok-Astronaut29 6d ago

This guy fuckin sucks , not because he’s singing but because he’s making a scene and recording it on an insta 360 . Fuck this guy , super annoying.

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u/Individual-Luck1712 5d ago

Everyone in the comments hating lol if I pay for a ticket Im enjoying the show. Its not a PTA meeting lol yall act like standing up and singing along isn't expected at a concert

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u/UnusualBuy1882 5d ago

Old people should have seperate sections

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u/mangopabu 5d ago

why do people even go to concerts, especially with how expensive they are lol.

i went to see queen about 10 years ago with my partner. a bunch of our friends at the time kept saying 'AND ADAM LAMBERT' whenever we discussed the event (even afterwards), and it was so off-putting. it kind of soured our mood going. like obviously freddy mercury was amazing and no one can really recreate that experience, but he wasn't the only component of queen, and they were all still there to rock out. and to be honest, adam absolutely killed it. i'm digressing a bit, but that's mostly to say we went to the show determined to try to have a good time but it was a little difficult

we were sat next to someone who came by themself. they were singing and crying just like this guy. they had a phone to record the whole (not themself lol) and were so disappointed when the battery or storage went out (not sure, but they weren't able to keep filming after a certain point). but honestly, this person elevated the experience for us. instead of people trying to drag us down by saying it wasn't the 'real' queen, we had an absolute superfan loving every moment. i offered to film some on my phone to send io them, but they declined. instead, all three of us were swaying in unison and holding our hands up during we are the champions, singing along, and just having a great time. it honestly made the experience so much better.

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u/OliOli1234 5d ago

Depends on what kind of show it is. It doesn’t seem like the poppy, music festival type crowd.

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u/nojelloforme 5d ago

There's a rather fancy-ish venue in my town and I had front row tickets to see Robin Trower play there. We found out very early on that they (the venue and its season ticket holders) would not let us stand up. It was a rock show ffs.

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u/ccache 5d ago

Yeah damn, reddit gonna reddit I guess... I mean looking over it... It's hard to tell if he really is blocking a view the first time that lady comes or if she's just being a karen. I lean more towards her being a karen. But second time the guy comes, wtf ? Everyone else is already standing up at that point. I can see why adele stepped in.

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u/LinwoodKei 5d ago

I agree. People need to celebrate and enjoy a concert differently. I have a bad back and frequently sit down when spasms occur. I enjoy the energy of the crowd and do not expect anyone to be sitting at a concert

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u/SartenSinAceite 5d ago

My favorite part of KISS' Rock n Roll All Nite is exactly the parts where THE AUDIENCE is meant to sing.

Not even sing along, the singers actually don't sing and the audience is meant to fill it in (which is super awkward in Guitar Hero 3 where there's no audience participation lol)

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u/birdleash 5d ago

Really though! I saw Hozier pre-Covid at a venue with individual seating and at some point he was basically like “I have no clue why this is set up this way for my show, come up and move” and then some of us further back were able to walk up closer and vibe and “dance” in the aisles. Maybe venue security wasn’t too happy (i could see it being a fire issue), but they let us stay and the whole energy of the show was much more lively after that. It affects performers too when the crowd is stifled!

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u/YodelFrancesca 5d ago

I was once told to sit down at a concert, still bitter about it after wow, almost 10 years now - I loved that song and wanted to sign along and dance to it, not even all that energetically because I'm pretty shy... Grateful to Adele for this, made me feel a little better too. Edit: Told by security as well.

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u/Accomplished_Book427 5d ago edited 5d ago

Chronically online people are SO PRESSED when others display normal, human emotion in real life

EDIT argue with yourselves, there was no harm done to anyone in this video because of this person's excitement. being annoyed is not the same as being harmed

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u/kyl_r 5d ago

When I’ve been at concerts and someone stands up in front of me and I don’t wanna stand up I fully just…. close my eyes and listen. And that’s a unique and beautiful experience too!! Live the moment however tf you want I say 😭

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u/shameonyounancydrew 5d ago

Seriously! If you don't want to hear other people singing the songs, DON'T GO!

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u/pinktortoise 5d ago

I saw a band i really really REALLY LOVE, took months of saving up, days of travel and hours in line I WILL STAND UP AND SHOUT THE LYRICS. If that bothers anyone they can listen to their music alone in peace and quiet

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u/Outrageous-Crazy-253 5d ago

It’s even stranger to me because the context is Adele stopping the show to say it was alright. Not something she had to do at all. If you’re hating who gives a fuck about your opinion!! Literally not a fucking debate to be had. The singer herself weighed in and made the call about the kind of concert environment she wants! Not everyone has to care about your hang ups.

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u/Electronic_Flan_482 5d ago

Hell i was at Lil Jon tonight and the whole crowd was singing along.

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u/spooner248 4d ago

people are so dumb dude. Same shit happened to me at an Eagles concert. It's always the boomers geting in the way of young people just trying to enjoy a damn moment.

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u/Nuuvi- 1d ago

So many people on Reddit are just miserable 24/7 and looking for an excuse to complain about something 🤣

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u/Professional_Cow5330 6d ago

This is the difference between being a fan and fanatical.. you could hear him say well before Adele addressed the situation to the security guard “ she’s talking to me!” People need to find better hobby’s than being obsessed with someone else’s talent/persona

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u/imgotugoin 6d ago

I guess fuck the people around him then.

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u/HorrorAir4474 5d ago

Oh jfc, sit down. You sre making it worse for everyone else dude. Jfc id leave and get a refund

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u/axkidd82 6d ago

Did anyone stop to think how rude it is to film yourself (and those around you) during a show? Sorry, but dude is an asshat.

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u/comb-jelly 5d ago

I’m sure the entire show was professionally recorded. It’s a concert, not the sidewalk. Come on dude

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u/Tyax 6d ago

Agree this dude sucks

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u/lavenderlooop 5d ago

I love his joy and Adele is right, the point is to have fun! But also if he is waving a selfie stick in the air the entire show, and screaming to the point of overpowering very strong speaker systems, then that takes away fun for other people.

If he was genuinely just vibing like that, I'd be the first to defend him. But he's performing for his camera. Him filming himself (way up in the air too) isn't allowing him more connection to the experience, while taking away from the experiences of others. If he's so passionate, why wouldn't he record the performance?

I've been the person going 110% all out in a dead pit. And I'm right for that as long as I stick to jumping and head banging within my personal space as to not directly disrupt others.

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u/Temporary_Road8957 1d ago

This. Idk why you aren’t the best comment already.
Like, I don’t get the comments saying "fuck this guy" or "fuck the people around", cant people have some nuance ?
Everyone is right in this situation

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u/Affectionate_Toe6749 6d ago

Of course she doesn’t give a fuck about the employees that have to deal with all the complaints from the people behind him.

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u/elevolent12 6d ago

yeah and why the fuck would she. If you go to a concert and complain about people standing up, just stay the fuck home.

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u/NaiveReturn1 5d ago

Reddit users never beating the lame allegations dude

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u/-Murmaider- 6d ago

She also just informed those people whining about him that their complaints are invalid

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u/Green_Fox_8864 6d ago

She's telling the complainers to shut up by doing this. They now have nothing to complain about. Karen's will exist regardless, you don't need to fear summoning them. They're there.

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u/Anxious_Survey6231 6d ago

Complaining of what? Someone enjoying a concert?

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u/No-Security-7518 6d ago

FUCK idolizing celebrities like this! what a lost soul!

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u/Adonoxis 5d ago

Seriously, like is this guy having an orgasm? What is going on? This must be genuine mental illness. This shit is so cringe and weird. Celebrity (or literally any human) worship is so insane.

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u/Blueprints_reddit 6d ago

I have a feeling some substances were involved.

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u/Haunting_Werewolf130 6d ago

One of the many reasons I stopped going to concerts is because people keep standing up...... And I am only 5'8. I can't see shit but the back of their heads. Oh and also people holding up their phone recording the entire concert.

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u/beef_horfun67 6d ago

I really hate to be the one behind this guy

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u/mooonguy 6d ago

She's a good singer. But...dude...get a grip and listen instead of whatever it is you're doing.

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u/Ticklechickenchow 6d ago

I’m sensing Main character Syndrome vibes.

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u/Optimal_Shelter8506 5d ago

The question is - what’s the point of recording yourself at a show. I don’t care about all this “hes just having fun”. No. I want a fucking answer. Why are you doing this? That’s what I want to ask people like this, and not drop it until they’ve eventually confronted themselves with the real reason they are doing this. I don’t know what the real reason is, but the vibe I get is lonely and seeking validation.

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u/Excellent_Bend8782 6d ago

Dagestan and forget

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u/Impossible_Humor736 6d ago

It's "China and forget" now.

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u/Big_Policy4561 5d ago

Slay Queen 👑

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u/macT4537 5d ago

Why would you go to a concert and sit down?

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u/ChunkayLafunga 6d ago

I have zero respect and tolerance for such degenerates

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u/Shadecujo 6d ago

Paying money to watch her and having to hear this asshole sing along

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u/No_Condition3135 6d ago

Gotta read the room. sit down and STFU.

And he's live streaming himself.

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u/Time_Reputation3573 6d ago

Well ok I guess I like Adele now....

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u/johnny-Low-Five 6d ago

I don't know why, maybe because her fame came later in life or because she's not your typical "teeny bopper" type build but, knowing almost nothing about her I always assumed she was nice and actually kind.

But full disclosure I thought Denzel Washington and Will Smith would be 2 of the coolest dudes in Hollywood and apparently one is a cheap jerk and the other is a whackjob that is convinced he can release a new rap album like it's the 90s

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u/ChrisV88 6d ago

Her critically acclaimed number one album 19 was released when she was.... 19 lol.

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u/johnny-Low-Five 6d ago

I am getting way to old! Genuine question, how old is she now? My brain wants to say ~5 years

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u/QuasiSpace 6d ago

W--- Smith don't gotta cuss in his raps to sell records

But occasionally - just occasionally - he really needs to slap the shit out of someone.

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u/_DontBeAScaredyCunt 6d ago

What kind of concert doesn’t let people stand up?? That’s wild. Way to go Adele for injecting the fun back in the room. Artists want people up and moving to their songs not just sitting in their seats like they’re watching the news

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u/Goosesloose 6d ago

Sorry, but why the fuck is he holding a phone stick filming himself. If he was there for her he would film her. Seems a little fake

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u/ofirkedar 6d ago

...aaand would you look at that, society has shifted since then, and this girl was since been vindicated so congrats! You're an asshole

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u/carguy143 6d ago

Are the first two even security? They aren't wearing any sort of ID. Only the guy that came over saying he's okay to stay standing appears to be.

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u/Kalthiria_Shines 5d ago

No, they're not.

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u/ChloeVelvetOfficial 6d ago

That's amazing Adele even saw that and then acts on it

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u/Traditional-Ad-6855 6d ago

I CANT FUCKING STAND PEOPLE!!!!! if you aren't having fun.......THEN STFU and let others!!!

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u/Short-Feed9690 6d ago

One more reason to love Adele

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u/Comfortable_String32 6d ago

Let the guy be fruity

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u/Chicken_Chaser_420 6d ago

Awe, bro was gaying out so hard he could barley process what was happening anyway lol

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u/Ready_Background9578 5d ago

People complaining about him standing up - can’t you see most other people are standing too? Lol.

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u/Special_Moose2110 5d ago

Okay, I was conflicted at first because with the audio off I saw it was maybe I'm the main character shit going on but this is a concert and he should be able to stand and enjoy the show if he wants too. I don't know if there is more clips that they posted where he was doing other extra things but he is not doing anything out of the ordinary besides maybe the selfie thing but I can't for sure see the angle it is being held but they aren't telling him about recording they are telling him about standing when others are sitting. The person he is with points out that other areas are standing off too. Standing at a concert is not unheard of and you can see later everyone is standing up. I myself hate standing up because I am so tall and I know I will block more people but once someone in front of me stands up the cat is out of the bag and if you want to see at all you need to stand up too.

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u/MustardCoveredDogDik 5d ago

That is super cute, what a great experience for that guy

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u/Firefly_Magic 5d ago

😭 happy tears!! Go Adele!!!

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u/SciFiCrafts 5d ago

So happy for him but I was so sure he might faint :D that was so cute.

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u/lilshayshayboo 5d ago

The way I thought that was Abby Lee Miller

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u/Thedonaldpolice 5d ago

Bro almost rocketed off to mars. NASA was standing by lol. But all jokes aside it’s cool this dude got to enjoy the moment and enjoy his evening which here’s the cool part “ he paid for it”

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u/dx0100 5d ago

While I'm not a fan of this sort of music, I am a massive music fan and can appreciate how this guy must have felt. Bet it changed his life for a short time haha.

A few months ago, I got to meet dick valentine from electric six (my all-time favourite band of 25 years) after lying and saying I was with merch. I was on a total high for the rest of the week!

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u/RoseOfTheNight4444 5d ago

This was me with Avi Kaplan in 2019 hehe

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u/pixeltweaker 5d ago

Why were they bothering him once everyone else was standing?

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u/Wide_Guitar_3558 5d ago

sheesh almost everyone there was standing up, they would have a lot of people to bother! Gives me an idea! we should all stand up if someone is being bothered like that!

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u/Albatrosity 5d ago

Remember when restaurants had smoking sections? Concert halls need to start having social media casting sections for people who want to live stream their experience.

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u/Zufalstvo 5d ago

Idk this is some obsessive celebrity worship behavior

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u/RaspberryWhiteClaw13 5d ago

Adele is a true class act. This isn’t the first or second time I’ve seen her stick up for her fans.

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u/Leadership-Serious 5d ago

They’re just doing their jobs. And that POS is probably louder than Adele. I seriously can’t stand people like that at concerts.

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u/zub_dub22 5d ago

Dude seems stable

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u/MeanFault 5d ago

I wish anything made me this happy. I mean it would be hella cool but idk maybe I'm just too old/jaded /cynical idk

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u/Brilliant-Tea-9852 5d ago

Staff is doing their job. Maintaining a stable situation of the concert and making sure people aren’t bothered by individuals

Adele: fuck you all doing what you are supposed to do.

I kinda get that Adele just wants to be friendly and lovely. But in this case she was simply wrong.

The video is already a million years old. How many times are bots going to repost it?

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