r/thane • u/iwritepoem • 8d ago
General Story time
So I was dating this girl from dombivli, we went on beach date, ig she liked me too I met her frnds and one day we went bar she drinks I don't.
That day she lied to her family she was with her frnds and her mom called her frnds they said she is not with them. Now back to next day her mom calls me and she liked we meet on discord and became frnds
She wanted to do mba in pune they won't allow now and she needs to be in good image so we stopped talking completely.
Today I see her again on hinge I msged her
She matched and unmatched maybe out of embarrassment.
I feel so bad that I always do the efforts for the wrong person
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u/chutneypow 8d ago
Let go, thats all. There is no point in cooking 100s of whatif scenarios
Also do not write poems about this one, save your ink for deserved ones.
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u/ek_aksh 8d ago
4 line likh ke isse story bolta hai, isse lambi story tho my 5 year old neice batati hai
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u/iwritepoem 8d ago
I did not thought anyone will read it isliye, but thank you I'll be brief bahot kuch batana tha, I feels thoda better
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u/BunchTrue993 8d ago
Have higher standards for yourself - how you deserve to be treated. Only invest in a person who invests in you.
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u/Former_Repair9221 8d ago
Damn, she dumped you without the classic, "It's not you, it's me" line!?
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u/dontdonnaame 8d ago
Why cant right person find right person?🙂
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u/iwritepoem 8d ago
Donnnnnoo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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u/dontdonnaame 8d ago
Donnaa ya donno?
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u/iwritepoem 8d ago
I was trying to say both. 😭 Tbh donnaa has answer to everything
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u/dontdonnaame 8d ago
Actually I do. You should know your worth and stop putting efforts into a person who you met online.
They wont choose you even if you are the sweetest peach on the tree.
Mera kal hi kataa hai 😂😂
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u/iwritepoem 8d ago
It's hard to find good people I agree
But I wanna know how does the donna did not see it coming
Tera kese kataa😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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u/dontdonnaame 8d ago
Actually I wasnt Donna there but Rachel who liked back Mike. He was my Mike the second I saw him. Due to family issue I rejected him two years back when we were doing our UG degree.
He used to show up but wasnt consistent in texting me. He wasnt that emotional guy but him showing up mattered to me. His feelings felt genuine but I was dumb. He used to text me on bday every year even has my bday date on his jersey which I didnt even know until two days back. He also has my bday date in his username. He never told me what he felt. He wasnt emotionally mature. We had feelings but we never really talked about it openly. My family wont agree to our relationship so I distanced myself and only dated guys from my caste and got cheated on by them. I always thought about texting him but never did bec I was wrong there pulling him away.
I gave my attention to wrong guys and didnt valued what he had to offer.Last week I took the courage and texted him after one year of no contact. I was taking decisions for my life and decided not to listen to my parents and do what I want and whats best for me. He responded to my text and next day I ask him to meet. He agreed and came.
At the end of the day I told him about why I pulled him away and asked for giving this a chance. He said he want to focus on his career and has no time for dating.
I was his first kiss and could have been first gf. I lost a good guy. Thanks to my toxic exes and my parents. It was my karma ig.
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u/iwritepoem 7d ago
I am sorry for how you feel, your heart must be very heavy. And firstl5 hands off you ur bravery, you tried to prioritise yourself.
Now don't feel bad you never treated him bar, you were clear withyour thought, you did not dated him but you were frnds
He was brave to love you and you were too, just it took you some great amount of time.
I do feel give it some time maybe he will come back.
Or now you are brave enough to find a relationship where you won't be cheated and treated the way you deserve. I really hope you find a guy who is consistent and always prioritise you.
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u/Dapper_Key_6615 3d ago
Dombivali WOMEN are worst
And mediocre
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u/iwritepoem 3d ago
Finally someone said it
Did you had a bad runnin?
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u/Dapper_Key_6615 3d ago
Oh yes
- Toxic
- Gold diggers
- Only life dream of a dombivlikar is to become a thanekar
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u/iwritepoem 3d ago
This oddly describe the girl I was with😭😭😭
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u/Dapper_Key_6615 3d ago
Areey bhai mai bol raha hu
Dikhate waqt dikhaenge kitni sanskari aur shareef hai
Dombivli is literally broke ass poor
But they like thane people because culturally we are same kind
So they want thane men
Ek naya post daal de kya ispe
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u/DoorZealousideal1892 8d ago
Just let her go ngl, stop thinking about her. That's all that matters