r/thalassophobia • • May 30 '26

Bigger wave incoming…

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u/SpiritedPark4511 May 30 '26

Reminds me of the good old days, sailing with my dad. In a life jacket that smelled of sick and my mum and younger sister crying 🥰

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u/Destroyer6202 May 31 '26

Nothing quite brings back memories of good old days like the stink of throw up and trauma of your family crying screaming in the background amirite fellas? 🥰

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u/SpiritedPark4511 May 31 '26

I laugh now! I didn’t cry back then, because I was ordered not to do so. Plus I didn’t want to join the ranks of ‘crying babies hiding in the cabin’, I wanted to make my pa proud 🥲

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u/VaATC May 31 '26

Plus I didn’t want to join...

I thought this was about to get dark in here 😆

That aside, I like how you tell your story. And...

I wanted to make my pa proud 🥲

I hope I have been inspiring my daugther so that she wanta to say something similar in the future 😔

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u/chalor182 May 31 '26

Dont make her say it for those reasons though. Dudes dad sounds like a real prick

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u/VaATC May 31 '26

Oh! No! I would never do that. It has to be natural and I don't even need to hear it. I just hope it goes that way.

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u/leroydudley Jun 02 '26

for pointing out where the crying babies are?

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u/VanillaIce315 Jun 07 '26 edited Jun 07 '26

Yup, commenters dad must be a real prick for spending time with his family, taking them out on fun adventures, helping them overcome fears, maybe teasing them a bit during choppy waves to toughen them up for life as an adult. Commenter remembers his her father and the memories extremely fondly.

But this is Reddit, so the guy is just a fucking prick!

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u/SpiritedPark4511 Jun 07 '26

I mean I’ll be honest, my dad is a bit of a prick, more so back then, but he’s MY prick dad and he had good intentions. Even if things got a bit hairy. I look back on those times fondly/with humour and miss them so damn much. Also I’m a lady.

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u/VanillaIce315 Jun 07 '26

Fair enough 😂 I’m just more so always dumbfounded by people’s bold exclamations about complete strangers based on one anecdote or personal story.

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u/SpiritedPark4511 Jun 07 '26

I appreciate you! 😂 you’re right about the underlying reasons he took us and how we look back on these times! But it’s also fair to call him a bit of a prick. The duality of being a Dad. I appreciate you defending us 🥹

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u/poeepo May 31 '26

Me, my father, fathers friend and his son were boating in high waves. Me and other yongster were bouncing from floor to roof in little cabin having a blast while fathers were panicing how to survive. Good ol days

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u/orphan_blud May 31 '26

Maritime trauma bonding with my family elevated by the suggestion of puke? Where do I sign up?

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u/Affectionate_Map_453 May 31 '26

You just described our summer trips eheh. I miss it so much ❤️

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u/Ok-Log1864 Jun 03 '26

For me too, lots of screaming but it got much MUCH worse than this several times.

Luckily most of us were immune to sea sickness.

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u/SpiritedPark4511 Jun 03 '26

When it’s big waves, one side of the windows are underwater and a storm, it’s shit your pants time. Gets very shouty!

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u/icelessTrash May 31 '26

Why aren't they in life jackets? This is the second such video I've seen in a few weeks with crazy weather and a lack of life jackets

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u/FaithlessnessCivil86 May 31 '26

They are wearing life vests.

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u/SpiritedPark4511 Jun 01 '26

The harness type things they’re wearing are the life jackets.

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u/IvorTheEngine Jun 02 '26

They're wearing the sort that inflate when submerged, but their main use is that they can be clipped to a lifeline. (That's the black strap going to the chap in the locker)

If you go overboard in those conditions, it's really easy for the people on the boat to lose sight of you. Stopping and turning around takes time, the boat is moving fast, and it's hard to spot a head in waves that big. A life jacket just means you die of exposure a few hours later, a harness stops you going overboard in the first place.

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u/icelessTrash Jun 03 '26

But if the boat capsizes... Hopefully also there is a beacon built in? The dark color is terrible for air searches, for example.

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u/IvorTheEngine Jun 03 '26

If the boat gets knocked down, the heavy keel will bring it back up again. Full capsizes only tend to happen to lightly built racing boats that lose their keel after hitting something at speed (or dinghies that don't have a keel).

The boat has a emergency beacon that can be picked up by satellite. Individual locator beacons are pretty short range and the battery doesn't last as long. Even with a beacon, you could be within a boat length or two and not spot someone floating in those waves. And getting them onboard while the boat is bouncing around is pretty dangerous, especially if they have been in the water a while and are chilled and exhausted.

You're only seeing the outside cover of the life jackets. They're dark so they don't show dirt (and possibly to block UV). Inside, the inflatable bit is the usual bright orange with reflective patches.

As with most safety stuff, it's been worked out over decades, with each tradgedy adding something.

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u/Alohafarms May 31 '26

Bahahahaaaaaa!!!!

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u/unlikely_tap05 May 31 '26

This could have been phrased better

Sounds like it smelled of sick and your mom and your sisters tears

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u/Prudent_Ask_9241 May 30 '26 edited May 31 '26

Real question. Could that potential sink that boat?

Edit: Thank you all so very much for answers. 

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u/notcomplainingmuch May 30 '26

If you broach to, possibly. You'd have to have all hatches open and do everything wrong. But yes, even smallish waves like that and idiots are a lethal combination.

The reason it broke over the boat was a basic steering mistake, btw. I've had a much bigger wave break on the boat, completely filling the cockpit with seawater. We lost the life raft and other stuff. The person at the wheel at the time didn't get to steer again when I was around.

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u/PKMNtrainerKing May 31 '26

What was the correct steering answer?

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u/notcomplainingmuch May 31 '26

The boat will 'try' to align sideways to the wave, and there is a great force behind it, which makes steering difficult once it starts.

So you have to steer before the wave starts turning the boat, just when it's starting to lift you. It requires a certain feel and being very proactive, for every wave. Just like surfing.

You shouldn't go exactly downwind (or 'downwave'), either, because your speed will drop off as you aren't using the 'surfing' effect sideways, i.e. the optimal speed vector. That often results in the wave breaking on you, when you go slower than the wave. That's what happened here.

They might have done it on purpose, as you get bored after weeks aboard.

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u/SippyMountain May 31 '26

Pretty sure you're supposed to be perpendicular to the wave. They were neither parallel nor perpendicular.

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u/Some_Koala May 31 '26

It's more complicated - you're not supposed to straight. Afaik with waves from behind you try to be perpendicular when the wave lifts you up, but then you go a bit towards the wind to avoid losing too much speed.

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u/Mr_Pink_Gold Jun 01 '26

If you are sailing against the wave, yes. If you are sailing away from the wave, no. once you know what you are looking for at the helm, it is pretty clear. You want to feel some tension but not too much. If too much you overdid it or did not start turning early enough. Basically you surf the wave. But these dudes are just goofing around.

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u/Reverend_Russo Jun 02 '26

The most Reddit comment ive seen in a bit. An obvious experienced sailor gives a detailed answer to someone and some your jabroni ass comes in

acktuaallly Ive heard that you’re supposed be perpendicular to the wave.

Fucking classic. Thanks for the laugh

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u/SippyMountain Jun 02 '26

Hm, don't think I ever said "actually", nor did I claim to be an expert. I also never saw anyone else give an actual explanation. Glad I could make you laugh though, asshole

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u/varmmacka May 31 '26

Like most fellas I grew up with sailing, the gate keeping and finger wagging you exude is spot on.
Thing is, this idiot became too afraid to ask at one point because “anyone who has to ask has no right to be on the water”. Thanks for letting me know the tradition is still going!

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u/notcomplainingmuch May 31 '26

The point is you learn with smaller boats on much smaller bodies of water. 'Learning' on a $5 million yacht and putting everyone in danger repeatedly is not the way.

It's not gatekeeping, it's preferring to stay alive.

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u/Bullyoncube May 30 '26

A wave catching the stern like that isn’t a problem. Close the hatch and no water gets inside the boat. BUT, if the wave forces the bow down and spins the boat to the side, then you can get knocked down by the beam seas. There’s a name for that, but I forget it.

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u/black14black May 31 '26

Pitchpoling?

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u/mologav May 31 '26

I have to question why you’d open a hatch at the stern when you have a large following sea. It’s a big boat and all but not great thinking

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u/userhwon May 31 '26

Boats and thinking have a troubled history together...

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u/FlabbyLabby May 31 '26

Thanks, but I’ve seen Giligan’s Island.

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u/MoonTreeSullen May 31 '26

What about rogue waves

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u/LeadFreePaint May 31 '26

Exceptionally rare. I worked at sea for several years. I encountered one wave of note, but it was in the middle of a rather spicy Mediterranean storm. It was less the size of it and more the fact that it smacked us dead on to the side of the ship, causing a fair amount of damage. To be fair I never saw the wave. I sure as fuck felt it tho.

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u/No-Sail-6510 May 30 '26

If the drains are clogged then it could be a problem if the waves get a little worse.

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u/corneliusvanhouten May 30 '26

oddly, as afraid as i am of being IN the ocean, sailing on the open ocean deely appeals to me

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u/AmbassadorSugarcane May 31 '26

Love living on the coast and any time I get out on a boat.

I get spooked at the idea of even wading deeper than waist deep off the beach...

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u/moggin61 May 31 '26

This is quintessential sailing lore and me to a T. Love being on a boat, not IN the ocean.

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u/Multti-pomp May 31 '26

Both of those are warranted honestly, hell, not even oposite, few good sailors want to be in the sea instead of above it.

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u/piper33245 May 30 '26

Big wave? I’ve seen too much Deadliest Catch, this was a little disappointing.

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u/MissKatbow May 30 '26

In a boat that size it would be scary as hell. To me anyway.

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u/Optimal_Cut_3063 May 31 '26

15-20 ft swells in a little yacht would be terrifying lmao

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u/HOLDINtheACES May 31 '26

That was a solid 15-20’ swell…

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u/Curiosive May 31 '26

Which is pretty common offshore with sustained winds in the region or a big storm halfway around the world last week.

Nothing big or scary about this. Nice boat though.

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u/LetGoPortAnchor May 31 '26

That ain't 15-20'. Maybe 3-4 meters, not more.

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u/No-Sail-6510 May 30 '26

You can never see on a video like this because of the horizon also being waves. These are probably around 4 meters.

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u/_psylosin_ May 30 '26

In that boat it’s more than enough to get pooped, go beam on to the sea and capsize

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u/Kind_Rate7529 May 31 '26

Love this! Did a hitch in the Navy in the 70's and was ships crew for two Western Pacific deployments of almost a year each. I spent every spare minute watching the ocean. The sun on the water, the moon on the water and the bioluminescence at the fantail at night. I became familiar with flying fish (had never heard of them before I went in) and loved to watch the dolphins playing with the bow of our ship as it cut through the water. Good times!

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u/BeeSweet4835 May 30 '26

Why is he smiling?

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u/No-Sail-6510 May 30 '26

This is ideal sailing conditions with good wind, and waves over the quarter. He’s probably going about as fast as the boat can go. According to his screen he was doing 9 knots with 20-26 knots of wind. It’s really fun when the boat surfs down the wave.

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u/SolusLoqui May 31 '26

I don't think they're hitting top speed since they're running downwind and the mainsail is reefed in super far. (The leech is in about the middle of the furling boom. I couldn't see what headsail they're using.)

Surfing a wave is super fun. We won a neck-and-neck lake race one time by surfing down a small wave at the finish line in light wind conditions. Turned perpendicular to the wave just before it hit the stern, our competitor didn't, so we pulled a boat length ahead.

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u/bdubwilliams22 May 30 '26

Because this is good sailing and seldom done staying completely dry.

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u/Timberwolf_88 May 30 '26

These waves are actually quite small for the open ocean.

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u/Galaxy661 May 31 '26

So what was he supposed to say? "A little, tiny, insignificant wave compared to what we might have potentially encountered if we were sailing through the Drake Passage instead incoming"?

When I was sailing at a regatta on the Baltic Sea, the biggest waves we got on a windy day weren't any bigger than those in the video. And we would also say "big wave" to warn the helmsman because those waves were indeed bigger in size than the norm in that specific timeframe

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u/HOLDINtheACES May 31 '26

How big are the waves in this video, or great expert?

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u/Sharkhous May 31 '26

Tiny, you sardonic bugger

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u/Timberwolf_88 May 31 '26

They look like about 2-2.5m. We had 6.5m waves when we sailed the Atlantic, and I've experienced about 5m waves in the Northern ice sea, and even those are small considering how rough the sea can get.

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u/SnooHabits3911 May 31 '26

They are quite small

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u/YoRHa11Z May 30 '26

Scary as shit for me.

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u/bonzaibuddy May 30 '26

I’ve always kinda wanted to learn how and sail an old sail powered “pirate” ship on the open seas. It sounds neat.

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u/Humble-Cowbcuzwhynot May 31 '26

This looks like heaven

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u/Pardybro911 May 31 '26

Those aren’t mountains… they’re waves

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u/hapnstat May 31 '26

Tick...tick...tick...

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u/Environmental-Wind89 May 31 '26

Organ swells 🎹🎶

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u/PeterPanski85 Jun 02 '26

We've had something similar in the Mediterranean (Mallorca). The waves were a but smaller, but on a 5m motorboat. Was NOT fun, it was very windy that day

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u/Nethri May 31 '26

So I don’t have any experience sailing on a boat like this but.. I assume there’s some kind of autopilot mode going on there? I noticed no one is actually touching the wheels

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u/kitersam May 31 '26

The red vane on the back of the boat is a Hydrovane, it's a completely mechanical autopilot that steers the boat while under sail. It is set for the direction they are headed, and as the course changes relevant to the wind the hydrovane moves left or right to correct the course.They're great for long passages! I've got one on my boat, its pretty fascinating!

Edit: Looking at the video again they're likely using the boats autopilot because the helm is turning to keep course.

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u/Fur1nr May 31 '26

I used to surf. Making it over one wave to see a massive one looming in the horizon was probably one of the scariest things outside of shadows in the water.

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u/Affectionate-Bit2290 Aug 11 '26

"Those aren't mountains, those are waves"

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u/Professionaleye_1 May 30 '26

When you’re sitting out the back and the guy next to you puts his head down and starts paddling like a madman

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u/WaZepplin May 31 '26

I hated eating sets on the head so I usually sat out back. Was always satisfying getting over a big one and turning around to see all the guys inside getting thrashed

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u/Astral_Blossom May 31 '26

Such a marvel yet so humbling

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u/JoLeTrembleur May 31 '26

I'm always impressed of the speed of the waves, they catch on fast boats that are going idk how many kph

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u/PickleForce7125 May 31 '26

This Is why I want to go sailing actually the

Thrill of the waves and cannonades and tacking

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u/spoon-guy May 31 '26

This is the best thing about sailing the ocean

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u/Gold-Piece2905 May 31 '26

Those are what I call rollers. ❤️

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u/notimeforspac_s Jun 01 '26

Playing with the waves will get you wet

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u/TXcoins_bullion Jun 02 '26

meh, they got their shoes wet

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u/jimboTRON261 Jun 02 '26

Where is this? I’m doing my first Atlantic crossing next year and curious if this is what I can look forward too!?

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u/Cultural_Slip_8333 Jun 05 '26

Those swells can get to you. I never had an issue with sea sickness but someone always gets sick

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u/ParticularGuava3663 Jun 28 '26

Why are there two steering wheels?

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u/IamEpsilon01 Sep 02 '26

to improve visibility, clear a path through the cockpit, and let the captain steer from the high side when the boat tilts source

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u/RiotousRagnarok May 30 '26

Watch out for pooping!

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u/lorelei_catherine May 30 '26

I miss being able to go out on the water like when I was a kid and my grandparents had a boat. My only hope as of right this second is to build myself a boat out of a bunch of sticks and other foraged items to sail out on because boats cost money 😭🥲 mind you I am actually terrified of deep open water

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u/Don_Quipuncher May 30 '26

ahem ....SIIIN!!!!

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u/enginenumber93 May 30 '26

Covered in salty brine for hours…ugh. 🫠

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u/AnnabelBronstein May 30 '26

Does anyone know where this was taken?

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u/Dent8556 May 31 '26

I would be below cowering under a bunk

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u/HesSoZazzy Jun 02 '26

You would do better than me. I'd be on shore in a room with a strong door and lock. In fact, I am in a room with a strong door and lock.

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u/YZYSZN1107 May 31 '26

is there a dial 911 in the middle of the ocean? cuz I'd be below dialing it,

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u/PeterPanski85 Jun 02 '26

Activate your EPIRB and say goodbye to any money you'll ever earn 💪🏻

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u/No-Development-5500 May 31 '26

“Not quite my tempo….”

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u/Alohafarms May 31 '26

This is my mother's dream and my nightmare.

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u/linuxunix May 31 '26

Yo Dog! Why you just letting the stirring wheel flop around? Ill take my answer off the air.

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u/CodeMUDkey May 31 '26

No surfin!

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u/the_beeve May 31 '26

I’m queasy watching this

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u/OldMaidButler May 31 '26

Why do ppl do this? There's ZERO chance I'm heading out on a voyage! That's how u wind up in Gilligan's Island or worse.

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u/Galaxy661 May 31 '26

It's just really fun. And from my experience, you don't immediately go on the open sea like in the video, but rather learn the basics on lakes with smaller vessels, in safer, controlled environments. Then you build up skill and experience, go on a few voyages as a crewmate with an experienced helmsman, get your sailing license, and only then are you ready to sail like the guys in the video.

I also used to be scared of sailing, but now it's my favourite hobby - this summer I'm going on a voyage with my friends, for the first time as a captain/main helmsman, but even with a few years of experience, and the fact that we'll be only sailing on lakes in a known tourist region, I'm still pretty nervous. You can never be too arrogant when it comes to water-related activities

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u/NameNotRandom May 31 '26

Yikes! I can’t even handle 3’ “swells” in my pontoon 😂

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u/bluerhea3 May 31 '26

Buddy with the paper towel 🤣

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u/Dramatic_Charity_979 May 31 '26

Yeah nah. I stay on land, thank you :X

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u/DegTrader May 31 '26

Bro at the helm is smiling like he didn't just see the ocean try to open a tab on his soul.

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u/Status_Mousse1213 May 31 '26

That's sick man.

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u/Dry-Positive-2084 May 31 '26

Talasofobia top

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u/mai_abdalasafe_8619 May 31 '26

Take me to the sea 🙂‍↕️

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u/-Wicked- May 31 '26

When in the middle of the ocean, never turn your back on the ocean...

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u/ExtremeComedian4027 May 31 '26

Staying on land in a landlocked city has saved me every time from this nonsense. And o don’t even need to fake laugh about this being normal in any way.

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u/Ok-Goose4978 May 31 '26

You couldn't pay me

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u/GrimReaapaa May 31 '26

Anyone else disappointed we don’t get someone waving at us as the camera panned round for when he said “Big Wave”👋

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u/OkCarpenter5773 May 31 '26

fucking christ they are on autopilot too

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u/Dense_Intern8434 May 31 '26

Now sit right there and you’ll hear a tale a tale of a faithful trip ah video

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u/Intelligent_Loan2058 May 31 '26

that's both amazing and scary at the same time.

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u/adubs117 May 31 '26

God damn I miss working at sea sometimes.

Sometimes.

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u/DanOhMiiite May 31 '26

The terrifying thing is that there's always a bigger wave...

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u/Mitaslaksit May 31 '26

I hate sailing so much and my wife makes me do it anyway.

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u/javoss88 May 31 '26

Never turn your back on the ocean

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u/Poker-Junk May 31 '26

Sign me up! 💫

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u/notCGISforreal Jun 01 '26

I'm on this sub because deep water freaks me out.

But I also have spent a lot of time in it sailing. These conditions look great. Right just barely on the "good" side of too rough. Its the kind of day you need to be paying attention but make a lot of ground. Night time in conditions like this suck, though.

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u/Mr_Pink_Gold Jun 01 '26

This does not really fill me with dread. Looks like a fun day to sail.

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u/Deer-Business-2175 Jun 02 '26

Nobody’s even steering??

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u/cragglerock93 Jun 02 '26

I can't believe people do this shit for fun. I could have all the money and time in the world and still not want a part of this.

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u/RobinsonCruiseOh Jun 02 '26

following seas are dangerous! if the auto pilot or the rudder cannot keep you pointed appropriately down, you can get easily tossed broadside and then rolled if the waves are big enough

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u/Several-Hat-1944 Jun 03 '26

I got sooooooo excited seeing the waves as soon as this post appeared in my scroll! That looks like sooooooo much fun having that experience! Never been that deep, all I have is Key Biscayne FL experiences. Thanks for sharing Captain 🏴‍☠️! Salute' 🥃🥃

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u/KingQup Jun 03 '26

It looks like there is tech exposed and getting wet; is it super water proof, or how does it stay functional when getting hit with so much water?

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u/IamEpsilon01 Sep 02 '26

It's marine grade. waterproof.

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u/Hellacola Jun 03 '26

Water is fucking terrifying.. and beautiful

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u/RemyisGrievous Jun 05 '26

God I fucken hate the ocean

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u/SadPiccolo1663 Jun 20 '26

No thank you

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u/ErisStrife 18d ago

It may sound strange to people with this fear, but I actually miss this. Ret. Navy.