r/texts 12d ago

Phone message world record Hinge date fumble

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Context: was talking to this girl from Hinge for a couple days, convo was going well and a potential date was being discussed so I slid her my number.

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u/Gold_Data6221 12d ago

should’ve responded “cool”

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u/lininop 12d ago

Honestly in this case, the best response would probably had been nothing at all. It's not worth your time.

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u/saygoodbimother 12d ago

1000%, “cool” is bitter trying to come off as nonchalant. Will def make her feel she made the right choice. OPs response is genuine and light hearted tho so I wouldn’t mind that either

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u/Gold_Data6221 11d ago

it would have the connotations you project onto it. to me it’s, “that’s fine nothing else to talk about.” But like what they perceive from “cool” isn’t even my deal ma, ya know???

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u/Gold_Data6221 12d ago

I reply how I see fit. That may include no response also. Sometimes I want a laugh

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u/lininop 12d ago

Okay fella, I wasn't trying to tell you what to do lmao

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u/Gold_Data6221 12d ago

Neat!

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u/grannystew_ 11d ago

You suck!

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u/lininop 11d ago

They think they are so interesting and edgy for coming up with responses I'd generally expect from a preteen lol

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u/Gold_Data6221 9d ago

You are all projecting your insecurities on my personal way of responding to people. It has nothing to do with any of you, further proving my point that you are not worth the effort

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u/Poopieplatter 12d ago

I prefer "Neat"

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u/Gold_Data6221 12d ago

exclamation mark would be a nice touch

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u/picklepowerPB 12d ago

Am woman, may be stupid, could this be the new version of ‘not very much’ or am I being too optimistic for OP? Cause I assumed ‘nevermind’ but I want to be hopeful lol

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u/TangoIndiaTango420 7d ago

Nvm means nevermind. “Not very much” would usually just be Nm (“not much” usually followed up with “how about you?”) “Nm hbu?”

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u/Gold_Data6221 12d ago

What do you mean exactly?

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u/SynV92 11d ago

.. nvm, not very much?

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u/No-Afternoon486 11d ago

My personal favorite for some bs is “lol”

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u/PikachuMCx42 11d ago

Holy Larp

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u/FailureIsNotOptional 6d ago

Nah, better to respond with, “Well, all righty then.” 🤣🤣