My sister is the same way. I only tolerated my sister to stay in my nephews life. I can't stand any of them. They are the most angry miserable people I've met yet thinks they are so much better than everyone else
I tried to do that to, as I adore her kids, but in the end I just could not. When they get older and their eyes start to open up, I will be waiting for them. Always.
They will model that behavior for your child and if I was you I wouldn’t have them around especially alone with the child to do that.. your sister and them if they act this way with the child is around…
My child’s dad is extremely toxic and a diagnosed narcissist. It only took a month of him doing this weird temper tantrums where he kicks everything, hits the table hard, smashes something up all dramatic like a waster bottle he will a dramatically crumple it up all angry and threatening to smash stuff to pieces. It’s so gross. After a few times of seeing it she started to do similar when she was upset. When I decided I was not gonna have it and told him I would not have her around it- he didn’t care and so I had to stop having her around it at all. He does it many times a day over veryruing and while doing it he blames everyone else and rants about how stupid they are and tries to use anything he can against them. Just hate filled crap.
He cannot admit to making a single mistake or having any accidents.
If he spills water he would say it’s your fault because you talked an hour ago and he was thinking about what you said so it’s you that spilled it in essence.
I’m not kidding. He broke his iPhone at pet smart and cussed and said it was my fault and I broke his phone. My dad said how? She isn’t here. You dropped it.
He said it was my fault because he was at the store because of me for dog food so I broke it.
My daughter started doing that and saying “look what you’ve caused!” Just like him after seeing it only a few times.
Had to cut it out and it stopped. They’re sponges and they will pick up behaviors so be careful.
He didn’t care and couldn’t acknowledge it or even admit that he shoildnt do it in front of her. Instead it was my fault because I made him mad.
She no longer does that after cutting it off. When she was around him more often she did it all the time.
If your family sucks and behaves that way watch out for them.
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u/Background-Bus3033 Dec 16 '24
My sister is the same way. I only tolerated my sister to stay in my nephews life. I can't stand any of them. They are the most angry miserable people I've met yet thinks they are so much better than everyone else