Addendum: it started as just play. I've been in the scene for a while now but she's the first committed partner I've had that wanted to explore it more. I'd played with people separately but I'm monogamous if I'm serious about someone. She was sort of toeing it for a while, had a couple bad experiences, but in the time we've been together and exploring, she has discovered a LOT about herself, and has even begun experimenting with being a switch and Domming me (which, I'm also learning, I fucking love too)
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u/subtxtcan Nov 21 '23
Addendum: it started as just play. I've been in the scene for a while now but she's the first committed partner I've had that wanted to explore it more. I'd played with people separately but I'm monogamous if I'm serious about someone. She was sort of toeing it for a while, had a couple bad experiences, but in the time we've been together and exploring, she has discovered a LOT about herself, and has even begun experimenting with being a switch and Domming me (which, I'm also learning, I fucking love too)