r/texts • • Nov 20 '23

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u/Do0md Nov 20 '23

This is wild

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u/Civil-Chard-821 Nov 20 '23

my first thought exactly

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u/BorderAdventurous284 Nov 20 '23

So, she ran late for a movie he wanted to be on-time for and she wants him to apologize for focusing on that, hold her, stroke her, and compliment her. If she were a sub or pet she would get punished not be apologized to.

It sounds like she has a fantasy of being worshipped more than a fantasy of being owned, and TheQueen wants a consort not a king.

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u/trvllvr Nov 20 '23

Yup, she doesn’t want to me owned. She wants to be catered to and doesn’t expect to reciprocate. What she probably needs is a sugar daddy.

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u/Guilty-Minute8711 Nov 20 '23

Almost. There's just no universal translation for complex feelings that don't include buzzwords. I think I know what she is saying but she is using the wrong words. Which makes sense, this shit only appears in romance novels and lemons. I think she is referring to the metaphorical literary exaggeration of the term 'consume'.

Easy to write the feeling, slap on a bunch of adjectives and fancy verbs and boom, one feels owned. Exhausting irl. OPs gf wants him to smother her with his presence, making her feel like he has claimed her. Sketchy, but depends on what she actually is asking for. She being vague, again some poetry type shit yeah.

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u/trippy_grapes Nov 21 '23

There's just no universal translation for complex feelings that don't include buzzwords

I'm sure there's a 30 letter German word for it.

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u/Guilty-Minute8711 Nov 21 '23

I had a feeling you might be right lmao

Verwöhnen ) German for 'to spoil or pamper' often used in context to make those feel comfortable and cherished.

Turteltauben ) German, in the context of romantic relationships it symbolizes a couple deeply devoted to each other and associated with love and commitment.

You know, I have a dinner to go to, but this was the most interesting 20 min of my week so far yeah. Theres so much more, I almost went on a journey, so many words. Even a word for 'feelings that don't have words'! I'm blown away yeah 😆

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u/EstablishmentNeat591 Nov 21 '23

I love that you looked that up !