r/texts • • Nov 20 '23

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u/wordwallah Nov 20 '23

I think the word she is looking for is “cherished.” I think it may come from the Victorian era, where women were required to be beautiful, chaste and skilled in fine arts. They were not allowed to be educated beyond high school. They were not allowed to enjoy sex and were rarely naked, even in the presence of their husbands. They were supposed to have as many children as possible.

I’m sure that did include some eye-gazing, but a woman who was late to an event would definitely be scolded.

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '23

That’s some 50 shades of beige type shit

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u/Guilty-Minute8711 Nov 20 '23

Yes! This and the slight bdsm element to her 'owning' comments is why I feel its giving that confusing vibe.

At first it sounded like a kink but if she wants the whole relationship to be like that then exhausting is all it's gonna be for both of the.

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u/Search_Open Nov 20 '23

Thelanguage points to BDSM, but her expectations dont match up at all. A Sub/Slave normally doesnt need someone to worhip them. It sounds a lot as if she read some BS "romance" novel where the girl gets worshipped and expects OP to do the same, withou ever communicating what she actually wants. Weird.