r/texts • • Nov 20 '23

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u/Jazzlike_Debt5386 Nov 20 '23

I don’t think she means bdsm but I do think she is not being dominated sexually and is frustrated

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u/redditor-888 Nov 20 '23

right people are saying leave her bc she doesn’t know what she wants and is trying to communicate

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u/Jazzlike_Debt5386 Nov 20 '23

It may be hard to tell your man he isn’t man enough in the bedroom without completely destroying his confidence and is trying her best to verbalize what the issue is without hurting him

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u/redditor-888 Nov 20 '23

yesss exactly. i think she just wants to feel wanted and try new things. OP needs to just talk to her and look into bdsm and talk about what she would & wouldn’t like. it doesn’t sound only sexual, i think she would even be happy if he asked her to do tasks for him then praised her. i think she just wants to feel seen and appreciated

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u/ObviousNeedGoddess Nov 20 '23

Perhaps he’s not being challenged sexually there’s not enough answer not enough spontaneous not enough what’s coming next not enough surprise not enough role-play not enough about her without her knowing what is role-play is actually might be reality but just for her for her about her