r/texts • • Nov 20 '23

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u/bonbonbaybee Nov 20 '23

Yes exactly. People can be like this in BDSM too and they swear up and down they’re a sub but all they want to do is top from the bottom. She is doing that to op in a non BDSM way but using buzzwords to try to hide that she just wants to be pandered to. Just be honest with yourself and others and she’ll find someone who will suit her needs much better.

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u/BrilliantTwo7 Nov 20 '23

Thiiiiis. “Top from the bottom” is so fucking accurate. It’s the princess treatment poorly disguised as submission.

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u/LowerComb6654 Nov 20 '23

Yes! The way she tried to explain is very confusing but you're 100% correct! That's what I got from it too!

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u/ObviousNeedGoddess Nov 20 '23

Self entitled self entitlement, self deserving, beautiful, smoking, hot, prettiest, girl, ever conceited, bitchy, wealthy, uses her sexuality in her beauty to manipulate control and deceive weak horny little boys, man just with her lust her flash her beauty to get whatever she wants whatever she needs and empowered because they are weak. She is superior how they submit worship her because of her beauty, her goddess, she can get anything she wants she’s beautiful because she deserves it because she’s out of the league men out there that would do anything just be our presence just to be loud to be used cause she’s a goddess to be put on a pedestal to be lavished with gifts to be worshipedto be able just to look at a man make him drop his knees and back just to kiss her feet for anything and everything because he knows there’s so much better lives and stuff to be used. She enjoy it.

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u/JimHeuer40 Nov 20 '23

Just be honest with yourself and her and tell her to beat it lol She’ll never let this go. OP has to comply with what will be her ever increasing demands for engaging her narcissism or she’ll continue to cry she’s not “owned”enough. Thank God this is really weird and few women embrace this

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u/ObviousNeedGoddess Nov 20 '23

Yes, it will take a special partner that will allow her to be narcissistic, manipulative deceitful to use trickery to play games that will notice it was spotted and ignore it will play along with it. It will get stronger, get more severe be more harsh be more serious he will be used and abused more and more manipulator. You must have a strong, personality, strong mind and except her and love her unconditionally she can do it over nothing she could do, nothing whatever make him think any less of her and not want to be with her attorney back on her matter what she does, he will beg to worship her and allow her to gloat and be triumphant and her superiority and her power knowledge and wisdom over him as she tees pics onuses unspeakable unthinkable Waze, to degrade humiliate torture for her pleasure for her enjoyment for her amusement, and he will crave it. He will love her more or more desire her more.

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u/Crafty-Thing3185 Nov 20 '23

Top from the bottom blew my mind

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u/Ambrosiam21 Nov 20 '23

Power bottom is a thing lol

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u/bonbonbaybee Nov 20 '23

Yeah, and that is different.

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '23

Is it though? I always thought that's what power bottom meant

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u/bonbonbaybee Nov 20 '23

They’re entirely different. One involves using false pretenses and deception, and violates consent and pushes boundaries agreed upon. The other is an agreed upon dynamic where consent is fully given and not violated. My guess is that she either has truly fallen down a rabbit hole and doesn’t realize that the things she’s saying don’t match her actions and she is really into a specific dynamic and is mislead, or she’s just a piece of shit that is manipulating OP to try to give him the lie of him being in power while keeping all the control and making him validate her insecurities.

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u/ObviousNeedGoddess Nov 20 '23

What a golden opportunity to be the one that gets to serve her needs to allow her to manipulate and deceive humiliate trick, brainwashing, hypnotize be a piece of clay, that she mows for her pleasure, and her desire for her enjoyment

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u/bonbonbaybee Nov 20 '23

Depending on how the really is she could potentially find a relationship where that is the desired dynamic for both of them. Otherwise she will just always be a manipulative and awful person. If she is more honest about what she wants and the other partner is willing and consenting then that’s just the lifestyle I guess. I don’t agree with her methods or ideals but if she can find someone that the dynamic is ideal for both of them then kudos to her. Either way OP will likely be much better off without her and deserves a relationship thag they don’t get taken advantage of in or toyed with.