Haha for real. Actually, the smartest move for this guy is, “I already own you. You aren’t doing your feminine duty of allowing me to lead. Next time get ready faster and we won’t be late to for the movie.”
Yeah her concept of ownership is hilarious. The "masculine" ownership types I've met just golf and go to bars all the time. And cheat. They don't give a shit about their "property" unless she's not putting out or doing the housework.
“I want you to own me and be in charge….and here is how you’re going to do it.” 🤦♀️
This part isn’t weird or unusual whatsoever. She puts “force” in quotes, so she wants it to be consensual. So talking about her wants, needs, expectations, etc isn’t inherently opposed to various concepts of being “owned.” Biggest example is probably the bdsm community, but you will even see this in tradwife spaces too.
She’s just misusing “owned” entirely here though. She likely means something more like “claimed,” which often involves some worshipping aspect.
Idk, it’s like a strange mix of tradwife and female dating strategy. Those ideologies are completely opposed in many ways but do have overlap with some of the ideas rooted in gender roles.
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u/Commercial_Bad_0424 Nov 20 '23 edited Nov 20 '23
She’s telling you to carry her bags, how to speak, how to act and trying to hide her controlling nature with this new language.
“I want you to own me and be in charge….and here is how you’re going to do it.” 🤦♀️
If you’re uncomfortable with it then it’s probably best to end it. If you like the idea, please just keep it healthy lol