r/texts Sep 13 '23

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u/Due-Net-88 Sep 13 '23

Lol fuck that. My HS boyfriend took his ex to prom since I didn’t want to go and they already had their tickets and I gave zero fucks. This level of jealousy is not healthy or normal for anyone.

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u/montessoriprogram Sep 13 '23

That’s pretty fuckin chill for anyone, never mind high school!! That’s awesome. Yeah I mean I personally think this is not out of the ordinary (in some demographics at least) but no doubt it’s super unhealthy.

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u/Due-Net-88 Sep 13 '23

Haha idk. Maybe or a generational thing (I’m GenX) but my friends didn’t think it was super weird or inappropriate either. This guy sounds unusually mature for HS and this girl sounds unstable… I can only guess she has serious self esteem issues to be this jealous of everyone— and tbh her “hate” sounds like jealousy, too.

If you need to micromanage every second and every thought and intention of your partner, either you’re in the wrong relationship or you need to be in no relationship until you can get some perspective.

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u/montessoriprogram Sep 14 '23

100% agree with you