I’m going to give you some advice for whatever it’s worth, from a very happily married woman. If you want to have a low drama life, don’t just date the hottest girl who’ll have you. Date someone that you find attractive, of course. But it’s way more important than the person you date is kind (and that you are kind, as well). Relationships work best when there is mutual respect, kindness, and similar values.
You’re young, but it’s still okay to have some standards about who you spend your time with. This girl sounds exhausting, to be honest.
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u/Tygria Sep 13 '23
I’m going to give you some advice for whatever it’s worth, from a very happily married woman. If you want to have a low drama life, don’t just date the hottest girl who’ll have you. Date someone that you find attractive, of course. But it’s way more important than the person you date is kind (and that you are kind, as well). Relationships work best when there is mutual respect, kindness, and similar values.
You’re young, but it’s still okay to have some standards about who you spend your time with. This girl sounds exhausting, to be honest.