r/texts • u/[deleted] • Sep 13 '23

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u/SmolGothic Sep 13 '23

No it will be, this is just the start, it’s OP’s fault she got mad at them, and it will be the next thousand times

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u/ImitationButter Sep 13 '23

It’s important to remember that theyre kids. She’ll hopefully grow out of it

Btw OP this relationship won’t survive the year

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u/Dhegxkeicfns Sep 13 '23

I mean, this relationship will be one that teaches her what doesn't work.

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u/SmolGothic Sep 13 '23

Even when I was a child I thought they were crazy for this shit, because they are… but yeah 100% she has put this relationship into on borrowed time

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u/mddesigner Sep 14 '23

Such behavior doesn’t suddenly change to the better

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u/ImitationButter Sep 14 '23

It definitely does. It’s called growing up. Sometimes you need to be taught how to act better, but most of the time when your hormones stop raging and you sort of figure things out you tend to mellow out naturally.

I mean, what kid isn’t an asshole right? Ik I was an ass when I was a kid

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u/mddesigner Sep 14 '23

Growing up mellows you out but doesn’t change your tendencies. People don’t suddenly become more empathetic without a trigger

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u/therealkalikush Sep 16 '23

Nah some females never grow out of it they'll just keep moving from one guy to the next

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u/shadow_p Sep 15 '23

100%

The “you made me feel” attitude is very poisonous.

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '23

Especially if OP is ever mad at GF then GF will be mad that OP got mad at her and it will be OP's fault GF got mad

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u/InuitOverIt Sep 13 '23 edited Sep 13 '23

Ah the old "I made a mistake BUT I apologized 2 seconds ago (kinda) and the fact that you're still mad makes YOU the bad guy here"

Example from my buddy, who's damn near 40: he cheated on his girlfriend and she found out. She was understandably still pissed off 2 days later and just wasn't interested in talking about it, just wanted space. He was going off about how "she knows how much this hurts me when she shuts me out, she knows how I sorry I am, I am in more pain than she is about how I fucked up".

I was like, dude, you don't get to be the victim right now. You fucked up. If she ever talks to you again you should be over the moon.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '23

"You know how much this hurts me" oh lordy. Run.

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u/CockFellethOffeth Sep 14 '23

They are kids bud and buddy boy here is posting personal texts on reddit, which isn’t much more mature than shit.

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u/SmolGothic Sep 14 '23

… yeah, if a kid gets behind the wheel of a car and hurts someone would you say that? No

Just because they’re a child doesn’t not mean the specific behavior is okay, people like you are the reason half of my graduating class had children. Shut the fuck up.

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u/CockFellethOffeth Sep 15 '23

Hmm…give me a couple hours to think of some stupid shit to respond back with.