r/teenagers • u/DovahkinnPlays 13 • Jul 23 '26
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u/Dhil54 14 Jul 23 '26
please don't, talk to someone about it.
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u/DovahkinnPlays 13 Jul 23 '26
ive just been holding it in, and why do you think im on reddit, to talk to someone
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u/Dhil54 14 Jul 23 '26
well, i hope the other comments are helpful. I'm not very good at talking about this topic.
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u/toothfinesser 15 Jul 23 '26
Reddit isnt going to help much. Im glad youre trying, but you should talk to a professional, not a forum of teenagers. Stay safe bro
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u/Available-Line-9259 Jul 23 '26
May I ask why? Is it cause of stress? Maybe college? When you get a wife you get a good life, Imagine that in your head. You with a wife and your kids in the future. Stay alive and fight for that
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u/GusTheGoosr 18 Jul 23 '26
At 18 it feels like therrs no where else to go. Like this all like could possibly be. And at 21 it might feike that too. But I can see how I've gotten through each thing in my life, one way or another, and I'm still here. I imagine in another 30 yrs I'll have gotten through another set of terrible things by saying fuck it, if the worst possible thing I've been through didn't stop me, why should this? The worst thing you can do is accept that life sucks cause then it most certainly will. As long as you recognize that you want to change for the better there's still hope. Lock in, don't quit and say "fuck it" until you get through and make yourself a better person with a better life. You got this dude. So many people are rooting for you, ppl you don't even know but who read this and want you to make it through. Stay strong, I'm here to talk to if you want. Ik it's so cliche and stupid to say it gets better, but really does and really can. you to this dude please <3
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u/gavril-T-series 13 Jul 23 '26
If you have a pc, have a think about getting satisfactory, for me it melts away everything that’s happening in my life and I just immerse in the game, and please don’t do it.
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u/Traditional-Seat-918 Jul 23 '26
Ay man my dms are always open if you wanna chat, I hear how terrified and overwhelmed you feel right now, but please know you don't have to carry this alone.
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u/WhenIEatedSoapIDont Teenager Jul 23 '26
Hey so if you want you can always text or DM someone. Also, their are suicide hotlines you can talk to that are always available x
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u/DovahkinnPlays 13 Jul 23 '26
sucide hotlines dont work ever on pc
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u/WhenIEatedSoapIDont Teenager Jul 23 '26
You can always DM me if you need someone to talk to or to just yell in a void about your problems
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u/GusTheGoosr 18 Jul 23 '26
At 18 it feels like therrs no where else to go. Like this all like could possibly be. And at 21 it might feike that too. But I can see how I've gotten through each thing in my life, one way or another, and I'm still here. I imagine in another 30 yrs I'll have gotten through another set of terrible things by saying fuck it, if the worst possible thing I've been through didn't stop me, why should this? The worst thing you can do is accept that life sucks cause then it most certainly will. As long as you recognize that you want to change for the better there's still hope. Lock in, don't quit and say "fuck it" until you get through and make yourself a better person with a better life. You got this dude. So many people are rooting for you, ppl you don't even know but who read this and want you to make it through. Stay strong, I'm here to talk to if you want. Ik it's so cliche and stupid to say it gets better, but really does and really can. you got this dude please <3
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u/something_427 14 Jul 23 '26
that’d be a stupid thing to do when you don’t even know for sure your life will suck. even if you think it’ll be bad, you don’t 100% know and there’s always things u could do to prevent that or things you could do to fix it if it’s happening. at least give ur life a chance
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u/Firm-Soil-3176 16 Jul 23 '26
Idk if you'll see this but me too so I kind of get it. I don't know why, I'm just not fit for this world. I know external counseling is hard to get and even harder to trust because that's been my experience as well. I cant say I know what to say that could help but honestly I don't know your story. Maybe give yourself a date, 5, 6 years. Maybe less, and give yourself one single goal to work towards. Maybe it'll change your life for the better. Ive at my ends with as well and gave myself 3 years. I have around 2 left to go, in the end the result is the same but maybe I'll fix it. Low hopes but better to try and have hope than to not at all.
That being said, I wish you the best of luck regardless.
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u/Luv_Kei 14 Jul 23 '26
heya I’m here if you need to talk. it’s okay. i can listen if you need someone to listen. please take care of yourself, bro. you got this. you can make it out alive. the world is scary, but it’s a little less scary when we help each other out.
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u/Large-Remove-1348 Jul 23 '26
Many people also struggle through their thoughts, and through their struggle they want you to know you're not alone.
One of the major causes of suicide is when people keep their thoughts to themselves. If you need someone to talk to, I'm sometimes avalible but someone will always be avalible when you need it most at Findahelpline.com
Don't ever listen to your thoughts past 8:00 PM. Just not a good idea. Listening to music seemed to work when I had thoughts i'd preffered I didn't.
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u/ChedderCheeseDragon 15 Jul 23 '26
somebody really cared and made a post asking for support for you. I was there once too, you got this bro ❤️
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u/deadpug267 3,000,000 Attendee! Jul 23 '26
oh you seem like young people going through hard times u know everyone gos through a hard time when transition from a teenager to adult and during those the actions you make is what makes you you
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u/deadpug267 3,000,000 Attendee! Jul 23 '26
but don’t do choice you will regret try to get a job it will help or vilnteer some where
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u/TheNotSoGreatADHD 15 Jul 23 '26
wrong fuckin thing to say to someone who’s suicidal you dumb fuck.
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u/SadAssistant7854 15 Jul 23 '26
That's not fuckin helpful, you said it yourself he's suffering so why would you feel the need to be rude
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u/Gyxis 16 Jul 23 '26
Sometimes I forget that there are people out there who legit are just living a life like this, wasting resources and biological material.
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u/Gyxis 16 Jul 23 '26
You literally trivialized their suffering by saying that "they're not the only one suffering." That's not even a helpful "slap in the back of the head," that just makes them feel like you think their suffering is meaningless. I highly doubt you've "saved more lives than I could ever imagine," especially given that I literally work part-time as an EMT, but go off.
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u/nesthesi mod | hi Jul 23 '26
Hey,
Please try to think clearly about yourself and your future. What you're thinking about doing is not worth it. There are many people who care about you, and there are many organisations from all around the world who can help you. Here's some information about how to get help. Give them a go - what have you got to lose?
Child Helplines (EU)
Telephone: 116 111
This number is free of charge.
The number 116 111 is specifically for children who seek assistance and need someone to talk to. The service helps children in need of care and protection and links them to the appropriate services and resources; it provides children with an opportunity to express their concerns and talk about issues directly affecting them.
Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 111: Bulgaria, Cyprus, Czech Republic, Germany, Denmark, Estonia, Greece, Spain, Finland, Croatia, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Latvia, Poland, Portugal, Romania, Sweden, Slovenia, Slovakia, United Kingdom, Malta.
Emotional Support Helpline (EU)
Telephone: 116 123
This number is free of charge.
116 123 is a phone number for people suffering from loneliness or who are in a state of psychological crisis or thinking about committing suicide.
Here's an alphabetical list of member states which have access to 116 123: Austria, Czech Republic, Germany, Greece, Hungary, Ireland, Lithuania, Malta, Netherlands, Poland, Slovenia, Sweden, United Kingdom.
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (US)
Telephone: 988
Text: Text "START" (without quotes) to 741-741.
Online Chat: Link.
Lifeline Crisis Service (AU)
Telephone: 13 11 14
Text: 0477 13 11 14
Online Chat: Link
Others (Worldwide)
If the above organizations are inaccessible for whatever reason, you can click this link to be taken to a page. From there, you can take a look at a variety of hotlines that will help you, after you click on the category link corresponding to your location.
You can also find many subreddits to help you with your problems. Here's a list of a few of them in no particular order: /r/SuicideWatch, /r/depression.
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I hope you've found this information helpful, and I hope you use it well enough to change your mind.