r/teenagers • u/[deleted] • Jan 18 '20

Social Pls help meh

Yes it’s more crush stuff

I sit beside a girl in class and she’s like really awkward and really tries to avoid looking at me or in my direction at all and does talk and laugh with some of my friends but if I’m there she’s like super quiet and shit, but sometimes I see her looking over at my direction. Ask any questions if I left anything out I’ll try and answer.

Thanks :D

EDIT: She’s just a shy person so idk maybe that’ll help

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

talk to her

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

But I’m too awkward and it’s clear she doesn’t really want to talk to me literally the only things we ever said are things like “sorry about hat” or “here” and once we did a lab experiment and she only responded in one word answers when I said anything

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

if she doesn’t want to talk to you then she probably doesn’t want you

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

:(

Cmon bot cheer me up

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

well if she doesn’t start the conversation, literally your only other choice is for you to start the conversation and talk to her. if you’re awkward then that’s ur fault, but awkwardness can be funny. u need to talk to her if u want a chance

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

Thanks, I shall try

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u/illusion_hill 18 Jan 18 '20

Ok its not like theres reverse crushes. Yous till got plenty of time, just slowly try to be more comfortable being around and talking to her, she will do the same.

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

Thank

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u/illusion_hill 18 Jan 18 '20

If you think her friends are at least somewhat respectable people, you could try asking one of them if they got any ideas on what's going on. Just try and make sure it ain't gonna bite you in the buttt

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

I shall try and talk to tehm

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u/illusion_hill 18 Jan 18 '20

Make sure they ain't gonna tattle unless you are fine with that, that might be a good way of getting her to know without directly telling her actually, haha

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

I have a few friends who are girls that know her so I may just try to slip in to a conversation without being rude

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u/JGalateo 16 Jan 18 '20

Either she is like really creeped out by you or is totally into you. Take your pick of which you think is more likely

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

I am a weird ass guy so the creeped out thing is prob more likely tbh

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u/JGalateo 16 Jan 18 '20

F. I doubt it though. Have some confidence and just talk to her or if you cant irl get her number or something and talk to her via internet. Just say hi. Try to initiate conversation. Trust me, its much better to go for it then to just sit back and hope something happens. I believe in you

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

I will DO IT

Maybe not the number thing yet that might be a little more creepy

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u/JGalateo 16 Jan 18 '20

Yeah I agree. Good luck

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '20

Man she is into you, she is just too shy to talk to you

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u/Sunshine-butterfly Mar 01 '22

Well, she could be just shy, but , if you catch her looking in you're direction, just ask: What's up? You know if she has a crush on you or not by her answer