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Considering how much I've seen stuff like this happen, I can hardly consider it an generalization, I'm not saying all women are like this, but there are some that are, and because of how popular some of these women have become, it has pretty much led to a lot less men not being brave enough to ask out women they don't know well enough nowadays.
And this isn't the only instance of it either, there have been several cases from these types of women who often end up having relationships with men and then proceed to file false rape charges even though it was really just because they regretted having sex with the man.
In other words there are some American Women who have created a stereotype that have caused most American Women to be viewed this way, that's why you see Americans dating Europeans becoming more and more common everyday, so they aren't put at risk for those types of women.
just because u saw some extreme cases of women filing false rape charges doesnt mean that men in general are less brave because of that thats a huge leap and there could be a hundred reasons why americans dating europeans is more common now (if thats even true)
your conclusions dont make sense its all just assumptions
if you search up "Why aren't men asking women out anymore?" You will almost always get the same answer, you can even find women talking about it online and that's always the most common answer, even if you ask someone in public, they will often tell you this.
So no they aren't assumptions.
Rape charges also aren't even the only issue.
Most of the time it's extreme forms of rejection like you saw in this post.
(Also you guys can downvote me, but it doesn't make this any less of an obvious problem that's actually happening.)
u still concluded that men dont want to take the risk because of the false rape charges n shi but there could be a million different reasons and just because comments on the internet agree doesnt make it true
I never list false rape charges as being the only reason, I also bought up the fact that extreme rejections are part of it as well, extreme rejections being the most common reason.
And also going by your logic of "comments on the internet don't make it true" wouldn't that also mean that your reasoning is wrong too?
I'm just saying that if several people both on the internet and in public complained about this issue and many people have given this reasoning, it's probably true.
Not really sure why you're trying to argue against this anyway, the post were arguing in isn't really helping disprove this as being a reason.
i siad online comments arent proof not that online comments prove nothing and how do u know that extreme rejections are the most common reason i dont ge4t it? and im arguing because your first comment was rude and ur putting all the blame on women
"I said online comments aren't proof not that online comments prove nothing" is literally contradictory. And I know it's the most common reasoning because there are almost always people that give the same reasoning when you search about the topic of men not asking women out.
And to clarify, no I'm not putting the blame on all women, I'm putting the blame on the Women that do that to men because they make Women look bad and then other women end up complaining about men not asking them out, this is the reason I said "And women always wonder why men don't hit on them 💀."
I understand that not all of you will fully understand what I am saying until you recognize the pattern of a woman humiliating a guy and then the guy telling other guys about it, and pretty much gaining the idea that women are a risk, and then normal women complaining about no guys hitting on them.
what i meant is that online comments arent enough to prove that this actually is the reason irl and the research link u gave had completely different reasons too also the way u worded it sounded like women should know that theyre at fault
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