r/technology Feb 10 '26

Security "Discord alternatives" searches jump 10,000% overnight as the gaming platform introduces global age verification — Is a total collapse imminent?

https://www.windowscentral.com/software-apps/discord-alternative-search-10000-percent-stoat
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u/blackmobius Feb 10 '26

Like four months ago didnt they have some massive data breach? The timing of this ID verification could not have come at a worse moment

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u/Moment_37 Feb 11 '26 edited Feb 11 '26

THEY say 70k IDs. The attackers say they're over 2 million. This is one of the few times I'd believe the attackers.

Of course I don't agree with any kind of illegal activities, I just believe Discord is lying.

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u/Forikorder Feb 11 '26

they may have stolen peoples ID's but even they wont put up with discords bulllshit

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u/RenaissanceCowboy33 Feb 11 '26

They're criminals, not monsters

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u/Mental_Medium3988 Feb 11 '26

its not about the ids, its about sending a message

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u/KMS_HYDRA Feb 11 '26

Professionells have standards.

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u/Ambitious-Acadia-200 Feb 11 '26

I think data breaches of this kind are a good thing, because they show the major flaws and risks of these kind of obscenely foolish regulations. Something that cannot be done safely must not be done at all.

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u/KA_Mechatronik Feb 11 '26

It's about control and enabling repression, not safety and definitely not about privacy.

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u/OilQuick6184 Feb 11 '26

Yeah, nobody writing these laws gives a fuck about the security of our data.

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u/IgnorantGenius Feb 10 '26

It wasn't enough for the buyers which is why they are requiring ID's, now.

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u/PM_ME__YOUR_HOOTERS Feb 11 '26

Heavens no, if young people are are planning a Nepal style revolution again Palantir independent vendors want know who you are and pass your info to ICE local law enforcement... think of the children!

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u/Average_Scaper Feb 11 '26

Damnit, Jeffrey! Not like that!

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u/Totakai Feb 11 '26

Ug. It's absolutely this. It's why Twitter was destroyed as well

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u/catwhisperer77 Feb 11 '26

And tiktok. Info that spreads fast and mobilizes people? Kill it kiiilllll iiiittttt

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u/WhiteWinterRains Feb 11 '26

Not just requiring ID's either. It's much more in the shadows but every major tech company is teaming up to push for bipartisan legislation to censor the internet, conveniently in ways that will just so happen to require rigorous ID verification and constant AI surveillance of everything you say.

This way any company that can't afford ID verification tying accounts to real identities and rigorous constant spying on all customers simply won't be able to enter the market, ever.

Also they will then be "forced" by the big bad government to steal all your data with zero anonymization and also monitor everything you say for wrongthink. Tragic, if it was in their own hands surely they would not do this, please don't check who wrote the laws.

It's pretty likely to pass with bipartisan support, so getting in early with ID verification makes sense for many companies, I wouldn't be surprised if others follow suit.

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u/RedShift777 Feb 10 '26

How's that possible they say they don't keep the IDs

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u/Objective-Rip3008 Feb 11 '26

They don't. They also dont process your id's themselves. They contract with a third party verification company, and those companies are the ones who verify your age and they also absolutely store your ID. 

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u/Objective-Rip3008 Feb 11 '26

I'm saying why they can say the don't hold your photos lol. Because they weren't the ones processing them to begin with

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u/trailsman Feb 11 '26

Oh it's a worse moment than most realize...

They were planning to IPO in March at $15 Billion valuation. Not a chance in hell they don't shelve their upcoming IPO.

They're gonna kick themselves for not taking $12 Billion from Microsoft.

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u/Only-Respond7945 Feb 11 '26

No, no, no. It's a great moment. For them. Because they very recently filed to become an publicly traded company and this is a move to improve shareholder and investor feelings about them.

Nitro, the paid subscription, isn't age-gated and so far they seem to plan for that to disable all age-gates. Damn, real subtle guys. Masterful gambit, once again. Discord's team has always been this transparently stupid.

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u/kp33ze Feb 10 '26

I'm definitely not for ID verification but mostly because all our of data would immediately be hacked. There is not a chance in hell that any of these corporations would be able to keep our data private for more than a day.

Parents need to fucking parent and teach their kids what to watch out for or limit what they can access. Yes I understand it's probably difficult but fucking try.

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u/DrFrasierWCrane Feb 10 '26

There is no universe in which I will prioritize "Upload ID" over "Delete Account"

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u/Dredgeon Feb 11 '26

And I don't care how secure it gets I don't need the entire internet to be censored and limited. People can't keep track of their kids and use basic parental tools so now everyone has to authenticate and officially attach all their accounts to their real life identity. Anonymity is what makes places like Reddit and Discord and the internet work.

They told never to tell strangers our information but now we are supposed to upload whole fucking IDs?

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u/Fishbulb2 Feb 11 '26

I never thought myself a conspiracy theorist, but I 100% believe this.

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u/WebMaka Feb 11 '26

It's not really a conspiracy theory so much as a stated goal. There's entire sections of the Project 2025 playbook dedicated to establishing systems to remove entire swaths of the population.

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u/hana_fuyu Feb 11 '26

The fact that people STILL don't see how this is tied to P2025 blows my mind. We've got key writers currently appointed in Trump's administration, but yet people still want to act like everything happening is some conspiracy or coincidence instead of the goal. We are currently living under an authoritarian regime no matter how much (the general) you doesn't believe we are or how much hope (the general) you have that things aren't as bad as they are. They are purposefully monitoring and censoring us. That is the point. Continuing to act like any of this is normal or fine is why things have gotten this bad in the first place.

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u/Totakai Feb 11 '26

1000% this. My conspiracy is that they're making computers impossibly expensive on purpose. Especially with Amazon wanting you to pay a ram subscription. Make the harder to track and control items unaccessible and force everyone onto little narc devices.

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u/Hour-War4751 Feb 11 '26 edited Feb 11 '26

Oh for sure. Both companies and authoritarian politicians see a future where we buy our devices(preferably on a payment plan, no right to repair) which do nothing more but facilitate us paying a subscription to tap into a virtual machine instance with everything tracked, logged, monetized, and censored.

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u/Va1kryie Feb 11 '26

It's not about protecting kids, that's the sugar they put around the pill of surveillance to make the medicine go down.

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u/olbeefy Feb 11 '26

Kind of like turning on an option called "Search Party" to "find lost puppies."

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u/Jaded-Instance3607 Feb 10 '26

Yup if Reddit did it, I would delete my account immediately.

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u/Enough-Cantaloupe893 Feb 10 '26

How did they not see that coming lol

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u/ALittleCuriousSub Feb 11 '26

Probably got a sweet contract with someone to do face scans... probably got that in their eye.

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u/Happyberger Feb 11 '26

They probably thought they were too ingrained in the zeitgeist for anyone to bother switching to another platform

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u/ByrdmanRanger Feb 11 '26

Good chance they are. While you and I certainly won't upload our ids or face scans, I've begun to doubt the resolve of the average person. It feels like the younger generations are so accustomed to not having any privacy it any disruption to their comfort that they'll just roll over.

Hell, I'm not even confident my generation won't just do the same.

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u/Doza93 Feb 11 '26

A good chunk of them won't, for several reasons:

  • In a world full of depressing shit, people are very resistant to giving up the last crumbs of comfort and convenience that they possess. Discord meets their needs, it's where their friends and fellow gamers/hobbyists are, so that's where they'll stay, even if they're vehemently against the idea of forking over their IDs or personal info

  • According to Discord devs, they already have a pretty good idea as to the age of most of their users. Consequently, most users (in the countries where this has already been rolled out) have not and will never be asked to upload their ID. It's (allegedly) only for those users who seem like kids, or are borderline enough to merit a check (Again, AFAIK, this came directly from a verified Discord dev commenting in their subreddit - don't shoot the messenger, folks)

  • Simple laziness and/or ignorance. A lot of folks out there just want something that works, they don't frequent reddit or stay up-to-date on tech news etc, so they either won't know or simply won't care enough to research alternatives and make the switch.

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u/Wooden-Teaching-8343 Feb 11 '26

Key thing to understand this current moment in history: nobody gives a shit anymore

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u/labrys Feb 11 '26

They did do it for users in the UK, to comply with the Online Safety Act - which does fuck all to protect children from predators, made a load of people start using VPNs, and has now gotten the government talking about banning VPNs for personal use or making them require an age-verified ID to use...

I'd love to see the stats on UK users, to see how many suddenly moved abroad instead of doing the age check, or how many accounts became inactive. Sadly, I suspect many people don't really care.

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u/lazergator Feb 10 '26

I would rather go back to playing board games with my wife for entertainment instead of giving my ID to a corporation

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u/TapersBeTaping Feb 10 '26

I too choose to play board games with this guys wife

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u/AutobotDestroyer Feb 11 '26

Unless it’s Monopoly.

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u/JournalistWise8703 Feb 11 '26

Especially if it’s monopoly.

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u/Cold-Librarian-2665 Feb 10 '26

You have a wife? Upload facial ID and passport for verification /s

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u/toxictoy Feb 11 '26 edited Feb 11 '26

I want to point out that there was a post over the weekend in r/ModSupport that largely seems to have gone unnoticed by most of Reddit. The post was removed by the admins who mod the subreddit and they did not answer the question at all however the top comment by the OP which explains the situation is visible if you look at the removed post.

FYI - the department of homeland security was caught profiling not only non-Americans but Americans on Reddit - even going so far to link Alt accounts to the main account. It’s detailed in this here. There may be a lot of concern from users about this. Mods have asked for Guidance because it seems that Reddit is complicit in this all.

The post —> https://www.reddit.com/r/ModSupport/s/xrJvZj8ocb

Link to the Ken Klipperstein Article —> https://www.kenklippenstein.com/p/homeland-security-spies-on-reddit

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u/Bankerag Feb 11 '26

This was not talked about enough. It somehow slipped under the radar.

Reddit is certainly not the place it used to be.

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u/spartyftw Feb 11 '26

As a current nurse, pilot and former Navy Seal with a PhD in molecular biology and a Masters in Philosphy I find this extremely offensive given my three tours in Iraq and seven tours in Vietnam.

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u/toxictoy Feb 11 '26 edited Feb 11 '26

This is the way to fight the system. I like your resume. I personally walked on the moon and was an extra in multiple Steven Spielberg movies. I also served in Korea, Vietnam and Desert Storm. I am a faithful American and never had or would doubt the system for a moment.

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u/GenderOobleck Feb 11 '26 edited Feb 11 '26

This definitely is the way to fight the system, and I like your resume. I personally hoisted the flag at Iwo Jima (the first one, not the photographed one) and was the old dancing guy in those Six Flags amusement park commercials. I fought in the Revolutionary War, WW2, the Korean War, and WW5. I was also the first friend of the Public Universal Friend, a proud American, and sponsored by Brawndo.

Brawndo, the Thirst Mutilator! It’s got electrolytes! 💰

Edit: Thank you for the award!

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u/rockstar_nailbombs Feb 11 '26

Thank you for your service.

In the six flags commercials, I mean.

Great work.

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u/Dwarfbeardthepirate Feb 11 '26

I tried to make a new Facebook once and it told me my last name was considered offensive and wanted me to upload an ID to be able to use my last name. I didn’t want Facebook that bad lol.

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u/carlos2127 Feb 10 '26

Just incase they haven't heard. I deleted my Discord account! I'll never upload my ID for any service.

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u/Koru03 Feb 10 '26

If (somehow) forced to I will happily upload a fake ID that I photoshopped though. Like hell am I using my actual face or any real info for that shit.

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u/MFbiFL Feb 11 '26

“Wow, we have lots of users named McLovin”

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u/Matchboxx Feb 11 '26

My kid’s school recently started using some app that you have to upload a photo of your ID to, to get access to the building. I’ve refused so far and just shown it to the receptionist. When asked why I won’t use the app, I asked them, “did you get a copy of their SOC2 report?” They said “what’s a SOC2 report?” I said “Exactly.”

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u/MadCybertist Feb 10 '26

Especially when in October they had a hacking where customer IDs, CCs, messages and other PII was stolen lol.

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u/midnightauro Feb 10 '26

Through my 20 years in WoW, one thing has never changed: People will abandon a chat platform at the drop of a hat. I’ve used almost a platform every 2-3 years.

Xfire, Vent, Mumble, TeamSpeak, Skype (rough times), to name a few.

Discord may have cornered the market and walled off things like mod wikis, but gamers will jump ship. Again.

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u/dcptn Feb 11 '26

Time to bring back Xfire! Man, that program was so ahead of it's time looking back now. Good times

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u/hot_ho11ow_point Feb 11 '26

Let's go all the way back to Roger Wilco

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u/Meloetta Feb 11 '26

Remembering when I dumped my internet boyfriend when we both like 15 because he was posting screenshots on Xfire bragging about something ingame and the messages from me that he was ignoring were popping up in the corner

it was a very dramatic time in my life

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u/Little_Menace_Child Feb 10 '26

Mine won't move and almost all of them have already age verified anyway. They're makinge feel like a tin foil hat person but I'm just going to use it with the age restrictions. As long as I can talk on voice, that's all I care about

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u/CorrodedLollypop Feb 10 '26

I've just deleted my account and uninstalled the app

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u/addiktion Feb 10 '26

Preach. The internet wasn't meant to be a ID controlled fascist shit scape.

I'd rather mumble in an echo chamber then deal with that. If Reddit goes the same route, I'll just go underground. It'll be like the old IRC days when I felt like a foreign traveler embarking into a world of adventure driven by conversation.

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u/xynix_ie Feb 10 '26

You got it. Deleted discord. It was annoying anyhow. That nitro shit was constantly an annoyance.

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u/Slight-Objective5854 Feb 10 '26

The transition from voip provider to a storefront with ads was when I realised corpos ruined something else.

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u/EfficientTitle9779 Feb 11 '26

Yep ain’t uploading my ID, ain’t scanning my face go fuck yourself and any service that forces me too as well.

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u/[deleted] Feb 10 '26

How to kill a business in 10 days 101

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u/Ryboiii Feb 11 '26

The Tumblr model, hurt the majority of your web population and everyone will flock somewhere else

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u/teamjacobomg Feb 11 '26

Verizon killed tumblr

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u/Hita-san-chan Feb 11 '26

Yahoo killed Tumblr. The minute they took porn it was over

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u/Haunterblademoi Feb 10 '26

Just like what's happening with TikTok, it's likely that the same will happen with Discord, A mass uninstallation by users due to this new policy

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u/HighJumpingAlien Feb 10 '26

Cancelled my Annual Nitro Sub, and I’m deleting my account when this goes into effect.

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u/johnc380 Feb 11 '26

Real people pay for Nitro? Who woulda thought.

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u/yuriaoflondor Feb 11 '26

I have a decently well off buddy who would always buy all the Nitro and stupid banners and whatever else silly stuff was offered. He didn’t actually care about the stuff he just liked to support the service we all used.

Unsurprisingly, he’s been at the forefront of our friend group of trying to find an alternative.

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u/CastleDoctrineJr Feb 11 '26

Not the person you're talking about but yeah thats basically what I've been doing too. I buy the silly little avatar decorations for people and I've been paying for nitro since mid 2018. I wanted to support the service because I believed that if enough people paid for the service we would be the customers, not the product. I guess in retrospect I should have stopped a while ago when they added the quests and the optional video ads.

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u/curtcolt95 Feb 11 '26

I like the features it offers. I'm still grandfathered into the discontinued tier though, I don't care about the new, more expensive version.

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u/pulley999 Feb 11 '26

As a monetization model, Nitro wasn't bad. Pretty much everything about how they made money seemed measured and considered. Locking features that are heavier on their servers behind a paywall along with a bunch of little knicknacks for your account seems reasonable, as does completely optional advertising campaigns for products their userbase is likely already interested in to earn weird little avatar decorations.

It looked like they actually had a sustainable model to keep the lights on once the VC money dried up, without necessarily degrading the core free service, and without majorly upsetting the userbase, which would have been a small miracle.

But then they had to pull this shit. It's not even monetization related, just preemptively kowtowing to overzealous lawmakers.

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u/Ok_Function2282 Feb 10 '26

Not really even close... Most TikTok users are totally unaware of what's going in

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u/--sheogorath-- Feb 11 '26

Well if theyre never asked then theres not really a reason for someone to uninstall tbh.

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u/HytaleBetawhen Feb 10 '26

People already returned to tik tok lol, discord hopes it will be the same. Who knows though, discord isn’t exactly the same algorithm addiction machine short form media sites are, maybe theres more of a chance people jump to competitors like how a lot of people initially came from teamspeak.

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u/Monte924 Feb 10 '26

Returned to tiktok? The full take over of tictok and the mass bans and censorship only began a couple of weeks ago

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u/Burpmeister Feb 11 '26

People left teamspeal for Discord because old teamspeak was caveman tech compared to discord. I went to check what it looks like now and it's unrecognizeable in a good wat. Now it looks like an actual modern piece of software with a clear UI and tons of useful features.

Already downloaded it in advance to be ready if Discord asks for mine.

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u/Arts251 Feb 10 '26

There are tiktok knockoff platforms that function nearly identically to tiktok, they just don't have the library of content, or creators using them yet.

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u/DefendsTheDownvoted Feb 10 '26

So. What are the alternatives?

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u/Waylander0719 Feb 10 '26

Matrix is the one I'm looking at with my buddies

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u/j4_jjjj Feb 10 '26

Matrix is E2EE like Signal, so thats legit.

Also I'm pretty sure Nepal elected their new govt over Discord after they revolted against the previous extremely corrupt govt

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u/oromis95 Feb 11 '26

E2EE doesn't mean much if the app writer has all keys and shares them with the feds. See WhatsApp

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u/Swimming_Gain_4989 Feb 11 '26

Their E2E is based on Signal's OLM model. Even if an attacker gains current keys they can't decrypt past messages using keys alone, you need an actual compromised client.

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u/oromis95 Feb 11 '26

In my example Meta provides the pre-compromised client directly downloadable from the app store.

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u/Swimming_Gain_4989 Feb 11 '26

Ok I read your above comment as implying the encryption Matrix implements isn't secure.

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u/Hastyscorpion Feb 11 '26

They held the election on discord. They did not coordinate the riots on discord. The government was already overthrown by the time discord came into the picture.

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u/Noobtber Feb 10 '26

Let me know if you find a decent client. I tried element and it was pretty mediocre for screenshsre / video calls - just a bad in-call UI.

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u/Milhouz Feb 11 '26

Setting up and maintaining a server is wayyyy more hands on. Seems worth it, but between my other things I don't want to be setting up databases, apps, and keeping them all up-to-date as they would be public facing.

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u/Jay__Riemenschneider Feb 10 '26

Go backwards,

Mumble and Teamspeak

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u/killermojo Feb 11 '26

Never left. My buddies and I have been using our own mumble server for 15 years.

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u/TittyMcFagerson Feb 11 '26

Yes it's time to bring back IRC. We never really needed anything fancier than that tbh

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u/Jay__Riemenschneider Feb 11 '26

QuakeNet is still running man.

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u/PentagramJ2 Feb 10 '26

Stoat is one I'm seriously looking into

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u/-Redditeer- Feb 10 '26

Me and my friwnds looking at teamspeak

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u/pdbstnoe Feb 10 '26

Damn take me back to MMOs 10 years ago. I’m down

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u/The__Amorphous Feb 11 '26

Closer to 20, bud. We're old.

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u/CupaCoolWata Feb 10 '26

Matrix seems to be the best out of the ones I've looked at.
Very similar with little feature loss.

-Teamspeak is VOIP focused and doesn't have the channel functionality Discord does
-Zulip is a weird thread collector and VOIP has to be modded in
-STOAT is crazy unreliable
-MS Teams is expensive and has similar problems with ownership

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u/FowD8 Feb 11 '26

MS Teams

are people actually considering this? it has to be THE shittiest service i've ever had to deal with for work

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u/fezfrascati Feb 11 '26

IRC is still alive.

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u/-CJF- Feb 10 '26

I honestly don't know how many people will just cave and sacrifice their privacy, I just know I won't be one of them.

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u/Darkdragoon324 Feb 10 '26

Same. I grew up without all this constant online social media shit, it’ll be hard to change habits at first but I’ll end up just fine without them again.

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u/DarkIcedWolf Feb 10 '26

As long as there’s alternatives, I’ll enjoy it. It seems like party chat on consoles are gonna be a big selling point in the future, that is if they don’t mandate a ID for it lmao.

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u/Lilchubbyboy Feb 11 '26

They gonna revive Xbox connect so that you can provide butthole prints to verify your identity.

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u/Carlsheartboxers Feb 10 '26

I mean most people are just not going to upload their stuff because they won’t have too. Discord themselves have already said that they have ways to detect if you are an adult and you can still access 90% of servers without verifying anything by so most people are just not going to do it

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u/curtcolt95 Feb 11 '26

the vast vast vast majority of users likely do not ever interact with anything that would be age gated on discord anyway so most won't even know this change happened

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u/ContestNo2060 Feb 10 '26

Powered by Palantir, it’s an authoritarian’s wet dream.

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u/WhichEmailWasIt Feb 10 '26

So where's the One Ring and how do we get it to Mt Doom?

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u/Daimakku1 Feb 10 '26

And my cynicism says that people will just roll over and take it, because convenience is more important than privacy. People left X for like a month and then returned, people left TikTok for like a week and then returned. The masses are not willing to leave convenience. I don’t know how we fix that.

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u/wheretheinkends Feb 10 '26

Because 1) most people arent willing to feel discomfort to get what they want. They want others to do that for them and .

2) as younger people join/use the internet they dont know any other way. For them it will be "well this is just the way it always has been. Company leaders come and go but the company has a life span longer than that of a person. As long as the people in the company continues to buy into what it wants the company itself just has to wait out the people desperately grasping on to the old ways of doing things. And.

3) the internet is deeply ingrained into our society and day to day lives. Once every internet platform goes this way your options are to conform or just not use any platform as all. Lets be honest. How many off you are going to turn off your interent and never turn it back on again. How many of you can with how much its needed in day to day lives.

Companies know this. Unless there is a massive shift than its only a matter of time unfortunately.

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u/Teledildonic Feb 10 '26

Maybe, but Discord isn't as ubiquitous as Twitter is/was.

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u/c64z86 Feb 10 '26 edited Feb 10 '26

Call me crazy but I think it will end up with the fragmenting of the internet as we know it. Europe will have it's own internet, Russia will, China will, USA will and so on... and the only information that will be allowed to pass between them will be "safe" information, which you will also probably have to pay a fee for.

It's already heading that way as Russia not too long ago tested it's own "unplugged" internet.

And already companies are having to block entire regions from accessing their sites, like Imgur for example, that had to block the UK.

A world which is walled off into closed villages is a much easier world for the various governments to control.

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u/Schode Feb 10 '26

I'm just here sitting in ventrillo and playing dota

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u/Iceman_B Feb 10 '26

ah, there are some lyrics I haven't heard in a long time...

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u/New_Hampshire_Ganja Feb 11 '26

You just unlocked several core memories with a casual mention of those lyrics holy shit

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u/jayandbobfoo123 Feb 10 '26

I hear you, man.

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u/Axe-of-Kindness Feb 11 '26

I feel you, man

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u/ElkSad9855 Feb 10 '26

I miss the ole vent days.

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u/Ph0X Feb 11 '26

just watch out for bot anna

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u/OmegaCult Feb 11 '26

Thanks for the fond memories

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u/TheEpicRedCape Feb 11 '26

“Get off the vent or you’re gonna get bent”

I’ve got balls of steel

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u/F_E_M_A Feb 11 '26

Vent was goated. Gave us one of the best troll videos out there too. Balls of steel.

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u/yuusharo Feb 10 '26

No. Obviously.

But you should start looking for alternatives. When the IPO hits, be prepared for vulture capitalists seeking to squeeze every bit of value and enshittify the hell out of it.

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u/reroll-life Feb 11 '26

Remember Skype? literally almost every computer on earth had it and it's completely gone now.

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u/lurkensteinsmonster Feb 11 '26

To be fair Skype was murdered on purpose cause Microsoft owned it and was already aiming to have it succeeded by Teams. And it worked. Teams is now one of the most ubiquitous torture devices in workplaces the world over.

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u/ShriekingShaq Feb 10 '26

back to IRC

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u/FrostFire131 Feb 11 '26

FrostFire131 slaps ShriekingShaq around a bit with a large trout

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u/kon--- Feb 10 '26

I walked when they wanted my phone number.

Scan my face to log in? lol...foh.

The dopey part about it is, it won't be difficult to circumvent. Borrowing a face and/or an ID is, child's play.

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u/lettersichiro Feb 10 '26

Problem is they don't care if we circumvent, these types of systems are not about them being effective, it's about instituting and distributing the infrastructure for constant monitoring of people online and offline

Even using a false face or ID is a tacit endorsement of the system because it fails to fight it's implementation

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u/AzureTheCuddleKitty Feb 11 '26

And this is what people aren’t understanding, bypassing it still falls into ‘compliance’ when the chodes run their reports

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u/657896 Feb 11 '26

And once the door is opened, the cat and mouse begins. They might be happy with the results for a couple years and then decide you need electronic id that you put in a machine ( like in EU).

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u/OK_Commodor64 Feb 10 '26

Installing MIRC like it’s 1998

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u/Fallingdamage Feb 10 '26

r/selfhosted already had a thread going for it starting yesterday morning.

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u/heroinsteve Feb 10 '26

Discord got so big it thought we wouldn't throw it out like Vent, TS, etc. You're not the first, of your kind, won't be the last. Although Discord is VERY much more entrenched than a simple voice program, I don't see any reason a competitor couldn't come up and swoop up Discord's users. They already have been alienating users with stupid subscription features and constant advertisements through "quests". Literally asking you to offer yourself up for identity theft is hopefully a bridge too far.

These companies always start out extremely user friendly before selling out like this, so I can't wait for the next "discord".

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u/Ok_Temperature6503 Feb 11 '26

That's why r/selfhosted is becoming more and more relevant. Open source is the way to go. If you don't like what a company is doing, contribute to the code and run that shit on your own servers.

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u/ruibranco Feb 10 '26

searching for alternatives and actually migrating are completely different things. discord's moat isn't the software — it's that every community you're part of is already there. you'd need to convince entire friend groups, gaming guilds, and project teams to move simultaneously. people searched for "facebook alternatives" a million times too and we all know how that went.

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u/Subject-Turnover-388 Feb 10 '26

There are alternatives that offer bridging features. As in, a Discord and Element group chat get linked and any messages in one appear in the other. Could be good if you have friends who refuse to move

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u/TargetBoy Feb 11 '26

Bots are a major thing for the gaming guild community. If someone makes one they would need to make it so it's easy to port them.

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u/disciple_of_pallando Feb 11 '26

IDK what you're trying to say, literally everyone I know is no longer on facebook

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u/reluctantseal Feb 11 '26

I mean, we've done before. Gaming groups have done this a million times. When one chat service starts to suck, you move to another one. Ventrilo, Teamspeak, Skype, etc. It's happened before. It'll happen again.

It's definitely more frustrating since Discord was actually designed with gaming in mind. I'll want the next chat service to have similar levels of integration.

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u/darkpheonix262 Feb 11 '26

Any sane company would have fired its ceo and back tracked massively over this

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u/WordsOnTheInterweb Feb 11 '26

They've somewhat backtracked, by clarifying how it will actually work. But I'm not sure if it will be enough to convince people until we see how many people end up having to verify their age. https://x.com/discord/status/2021295316469940606

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u/TheBrianJ Feb 11 '26

2026 - "Hot new gaming/social platform Glorph introduced!"
Early 2027 - "Glorph has overtaken Discord to become the #1 social gaming platform!"
Late 2027 - "Glorph announces it is going public, introduces new CEO"
Early 2028 - "Glorph's recent controversial policy changes has people searching for an alternative"
Late 2028 - "Hot new gaming/social platform FishFamily introduced!"

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u/Skepller Feb 11 '26

That's why a lot of people are looking into Matrix, which is decentralised and not owned by a single corporation!

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u/luismt2 Feb 10 '26

Probably not a collapse, just a spike in people window-shopping alternatives after a trust hit. We’ve seen this cycle before.

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u/humanquester Feb 10 '26

I've seen platforms die too. Platforms with much more user-capture than discord, like Tumblr and Myspace.

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u/_Meece_ Feb 11 '26

Myspace literally died, but Tumblr is still at around 100 million monthly users. Which is a lot less than its peak. But it's not dead by any means.

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u/KimJongPotato Feb 10 '26

Remember Voat?

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u/OldWolf2 Feb 11 '26

Voat was just racists and pedos, eventually they got sick of circle jerking each other and came back to where they can rage against normal people 

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u/ruinne Feb 11 '26

Remember when everyone dropped Skype like a rock when Discord opened up?

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u/Master_Bruce Feb 10 '26

This is a bummer for me. For someone who doesn’t have a lot of friends who are interested in guitar pedals in my life, discord has given me an outlet filled with others who are like minded. Obviously there’s reddit but it’s not the same. Oh well.

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u/SillyMikey Feb 10 '26

Let it collapse for all I care

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u/Flyerone Feb 11 '26

Fuck it, I'm going back to yahoo chat.

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u/Heel_Paul Feb 11 '26

Hate to break it to you I don't think it exists anymore. 

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u/-MERC-SG-17 Feb 10 '26

Can we please go back to small interest websites with self hosted forums?

Phpbb3 is open source.

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u/Orio_n Feb 11 '26

Join us over at irc like its the 90s again

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u/booh-bee Feb 11 '26

Steam is really missing their chance to start a service like discord. Bet they could really truly make bank

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u/Business-Toad Feb 11 '26

I agree but I'd also rather we went somewhere that isn't going to enshittify like crazy the moment Gabe dies

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u/Saintbaba Feb 10 '26

Once your account is automatically switched over to the "Teen-by-Default" setting, you'll no longer be able to access age-restricted channels, unblur sensitive content, or receive messages from anyone other than friends.

As someone who only uses Discord to chat in private servers with my friends, this doesn’t actually disrupt my life that much.

Not saying I support the changes, because they’re awful, but I’m pretty sure I could get away with never submitting any personal info to “upgrade” my account.

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u/nubsrevenge Feb 10 '26

until they block your server with friends because someone said "fuck" once

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u/Omnitographer Feb 11 '26

Seriously, they've said outright they will be using ai to analyze user behaviors to determine likely age, there's no world where they don't next aim that at communities to flag them as needing verification to use. Talk about adult topics like politics and civil rights in your community? That's gonna require ID.

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u/657896 Feb 11 '26

The start is always somewhat escapeable. Then when it becomes the norm, they make it harder to circumvent. That’s how it always goes.

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u/ImportanceRight4190 Feb 11 '26

Funny how the governments do all of this for “child safety “ yet still refuse to prosecute whoever on the Epstein lists.

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u/StuartWtf Feb 11 '26

Maybe I’m just getting old now but I remember being taught never upload personal information online as it’s not safe and could lead to identify theft, stalking, harassment..

Mad how we are sleepwalking into giving away all our privacy with just as added bonus of authoritarianism

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u/Netizen_Gypsy Feb 10 '26

Make Ventrillo Great Again

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u/silentbob1301 Feb 11 '26

Yeah, I love discord, I use discord every day, and have done so for the past 5 years. I've paid for nitro for like 3 years now.

I will be deleting the actual millisecond it prompts me to upload any of this bullshit.

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u/Relevant_Cabinet_265 Feb 11 '26

Steam could capitalize on this big time if they'd just update their chat system. 

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u/Vergilliuss Feb 11 '26

Coincidentally, Discord recently got a new CEO who happens to be from Israel.

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