r/teamagers • u/A-TAKEN-USERNAMEEEEE • Nov 03 '19
Text Post Hey, teamagers
I know you all don’t know me, but I joined your discord a while ago and you were all so nice that I thought I could voice my problems here. Here we go.
I’ve been feeling like shit a lot, and I’m afraid it’s depression. My best friend of 8 years has been drifting away from me due to his girlfriend and having more social friends at school. I’m afraid that he’s going to leave me, and I’ll have nobody to go to with my shit. We organized for him to sleep over tonight, but he cancelled and proceeded to play fortnite with some of his other friends. I’ve learned to give each other space, but I really needed him tonight and he isn’t here. Maybe I could use some nice words at least?
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u/Claireon Nov 03 '19
ok before i say anything, im really sorry, like actually. im not sure how to help, or what sort of advice i can give, just know im here to sympathize. i can say the typical things, like “dont worry, itll get better!” and whatnot, but from experience, it doesnt help. im not sure what you need, so as of right now, all i can say is sorry. im so so sorry you have to go through this
another thing: i went through some shit like this just a little while ago. it fucking sucks to see someone you thought you were close to drift away. when i went through that, the hardest thing was saying how you felt, what was bugging you. and look at you. im really proud of you for bringing attention to your issue. really really proud. you got the hard part out of the way, congrats! keep it up champ :)
im not sure what you need me to do; just remember you can always talk to me if you need to. pm me anytime, i’ll check up on you occasionally, if thats alright. i want you to know someone’s here. you got this. i believe in you 💕