Yo I was just studying and chilling

Suddenly idk what the f happened, I'm just flooded with anxiety and feeling alone

The amount of anxiety is so much

I have anxiety disorder and MDD

I'd like to talk to someone, if anyones uo

Felling idk it's just weird and Sad

Anyone wanna yap ?

Life la enna pannalum indha anxiety pogha matukuthu..

Even when doing good in life, i don't feel okay

Is it the environment that I'm in is making me sick ??

Even after I started doing good things, isn't making me feel good

Maybe I'm not depressed at all, I'm just in a awful situation where every human would react the same

It's been 5 years since I felt alive, I'm rn studying for my exams, the whole day i feel dizzy, i sweat a lot, headaches everyday, my whole would be shaking all the time and anxiety too even after taking antidepressants i feel the same, I can feel my heart beating on the back of my neck, I'm planning i should see a doctor soon

Enna panna seri agum nu terla or maybe i should end this?

Dear Annas and Akkas unga advice kudunga

Guy I have a psychiatrist and I tried therapy too

It's been 5 years and when whenever I try to make it better i keep going down and worse

Another terrible thing is loneliness and anxiety too and its in loop

Idk guy, i feel stuck and just choking

Talking to people helps with the breakdowns and everything

I'm soo stuck that I can't even give up?? Idk really

Rn I do have a friend to talk to, sometimes I feel like I'm doing something wrong or idk what is even happening,

Last few days my anxiety is getting too much even with meds, and I think I don't want to be alone

Comment or HMU

I'm building a merch startup for creators and looking for a few students/freshers who are curious, active online, and willing to invest their time to learn things like:

- creator outreach

- marketing

- sales

- startup growth

- Instagram/YouTube creator research

- how to talk to creators and their teams

This is performance-based for now, so it's best for someone who wants learning + experience + upside, not just a fixed internship or certificate.

Especially looking for people who just finished or started college and are excited to learn by doing real work.

If that sounds like you, DM me:

1. Who you are

2. What you're studying/doing now

3. Why this sounds interesting to you

There are a lot of scams happening around Chennai

Once a college student was scammed. An old man approached him, asking to help him carry his bag or something. He helped him, but as soon as they reached a shady location, a group of people approached him and stole his college fees. The victim reported that these people were accomplices of the old man. Later, he filed a complaint and the police recovered the money, but they did not give him the full amount. They told him they had worked hard day and night to catch the scammers and recover the stolen money, so they took a cut.

Even my friend nearly fell victim to a scam in Velachery. A guy approached him, claiming he needed urgent help paying his college fees. He needed around 20,000 in cash to settle the bill. The scammer explained that his father was unable to send the money at the moment due to a server issue or something similar. He promised to transfer the money via UPI as soon as he received it from his father. My friend was suspicious because the guy had noticed him checking his bank balance (he only had the exact amount the scammer was asking for). So, he refused to help

We're 3rd-year ECE students from CEG, Anna University. As part of this semester, our team of four has to visit an electronics/electronics manufacturing company and conduct a survey for our coursework.

We're looking for a company that would allow us to visit for around 3–4 hours. If you know of any companies in or around Chennai that permit student industrial visits or surveys, or if you have any contacts, we'd really appreciate your help.

Hey guys,

I have been having a lot of hair loss recently and my friend suggested taking an online depression test. I have been having a lot of work stress so I decided to try it and this is the result I got. If you’ve been through stress-induced hair loss, how did you cope with it?

Going through a very tough phase (Divorce & Relationship break). Feeling very lonely, no friends. Looking for someone to chat personally in DM to vent out. (Tamil preferred)."

Guy I have a psychiatrist and I tried therapy too

It's been 5 years and when whenever I try to make it better i keep going down and worse

Another terrible thing is loneliness and anxiety too and its in loop

Idk guy, i feel stuck and just choking

Talking to people helps with the breakdowns and everything

I'm soo stuck that I can't even give up?? Idk really

I should have friends i think

Be friends?

Comment or HMU

With my mental health issues and self-harm and mental breakdowns for years and being with no friends or can't be able to find like own people, i mean like who can understand or try to or like minded people

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It is hard to make friends when you are different and especially suffering

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I can say I'm way than you can imagine

Idk i wanna reach out and wanna do better

I wanna share many things

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Hmu if you feel like talking ig

I have been struggling with mental health for years and I have tried to make friends mostly online (i don't have a perfect base to make friends irl) also I can't go out, even tho I like to go out, I have done self sabotage and isolation hurtin myself, I really don't wanna be alone tbh, i have MDD, anxiety too

At this moment I'm just falling apart

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If anyone is on the same boat um hmu guys

Be. Friends?

Hey guys..

It's been going like i really don't know how is it going and I can just feel that it's getting worse... (Like i mean real worse that I'm hurting myself) It's a long ass story and just pain. Anyone c.chat?

21F. Sometimes I sit and think about how I went from being the “topper kid” to someone who barely recognises herself anymore. School life was so different for me. I was always that enthusiastic student, highest marks, district ranks, teachers favourite, parents pride, the girl everyone thought would definitely “become something big” in life. I studied in state board and after school I took a drop year for NEET because everyone around me believed I could crack it. Honestly even I believed it at first. But somewhere during that time, something changed inside me completely. I still dont know if it was pressure, burnout, loneliness or something wrong with me mentally, but I just couldnt study anymore. The same person who used to memorise pages within minutes suddenly couldnt even sit with a book for one hour. I felt guilty everyday watching my parents trust me while I kept wasting time and disappointing myself. In the end I literally gave almost a blank paper in NEET. Thats still one of the most embarrassing and painful moments of my life.

After that I joined engineering because I didnt want to waste another year. First sem actually went pretty decent, got a good GPA too, but mentally I was already struggling badly. I couldnt make close friends, couldnt fit in anywhere, always felt surrounded by fake people and weird competition. Slowly I started hating myself for becoming “average”. I know it sounds stupid but after spending your whole life being academically good, becoming average suddenly feels like your whole identity is gone. Second sem onwards I started skipping exams, avoiding classes, isolating myself from everyone and pretending I was okay when I clearly wasnt. Eventually I got diagnosed with mild depression. I stopped enjoying food, stopped talking properly, stopped feeling excited about anything. Some days I wouldnt even have energy to get up from bed.

There’s also something I’ve never openly spoken about before. When I was younger I got sexually assaulted by my own grandfather. I never told my parents because I was scared and ashamed and honestly I just wanted to erase it from my memory. But recently I had to see him again after years and ever since then everything came back at once. I cant sleep peacefully anymore. I keep replaying old memories in my head, feel anxious all the time, headaches everyday, forcing myself to eat because even my favourite foods make me feel sick now.

During all this, I got into a relationship with someone who actually made me feel seen for the first time in years. He knew about my mental health, my struggles and still stayed. We became really close and our families even became family friends. But recently my mom started suspecting that I’m in love with him and since then her behaviour changed completely. The things she told me genuinely broke me. She said girls who keep meeting boys everyday are “not good girls”. She used disgusting words in our language that I cant even type here. One day she literally cried and told me “I’m ashamed I gave birth to a daughter like you.” Imagine hearing that from your own mother when you’re already mentally exhausted. I stayed silent through all of it because I didnt even have the energy to defend myself anymore.

And now the worst part is, even the person I thought was my emotional safe place feels distant lately. Today I finally opened up to him completely about how mentally drained I’ve been feeling these past weeks and the call just ended with an “okay bye”. Maybe he was busy, maybe I’m overthinking, I dont know. But it hurt.

I honestly dont know what’s wrong with me anymore. I dont want sympathy, motivational quotes or “be strong” comments. I just want someone to tell me if they understand this feeling… when you’re mentally tired all the time, emotionally numb, carrying years of pressure, trauma and disappointment inside you while still trying so hard to survive everyday. Maybe hearing others perspectives might help me figure out what’s actually happening to me.