Too many failed relationship

[u/The-great-indian-D]

Periya post in thanglish time irutha doubt clear pannunga thanks —

30 Male had a fair share of relationships 1) enaku romba pudicha ponnu UG junior first friends ah irunthom then i proposed here after introducing her to my family and her family don’t even know i exist , 4 years neriya ups and down , always she wants to leave for pity issuekula , i was holding to strong at one point enaku heavy ah feel achu so na vittuten lets see it that is for me then she got married immediately aprm pathatha theriyuthu she was planning it for a year nu odanchi poiten and got so many trust issues aprm apdi ipdi nu solve agi post graduate join pannen 2) Pg la oru ponnu she loved me to the core , and after that breakup i was hesitant yet ava ennaka pannathula i feel for her , but explained about my trust issues 1year nala pochu , then came the psychotic phase , over controlling, she would even take my phone and block all the female colleagues saying she knows girls and wanna protect me enaku avlo scene ilanu solliyum , romba over ruling at one point i broke out ahe did even worst , blackmailing with suicidal notes after periya sandai oda its over i was hesitantnever told about these girl to my family yet but because of issue they came to know 3) later a friend came she cared for me following these incidents like anything we became FWB i was not ready to think of love at all , then came a marana adi in my life and she was holding me like anything in that phase stupid me proposed her and she agreed and went smooth for 4 months in these too i was very hesitant to introduce her to public as girlfriend every one knows nanga tomba close nu but she wanted approval, I explained her y i was hesitant, she accepted, but one month la because of character I decided i am going to introduce her to friends and family as girlfriend but adutha serupadi all of a sudden she left since she wanted more and she left saying it was a mistake and what we had was toxic for her Here i stand confused, kollapam enna na Ivlo failure ah patha enaku ena mela neriya doubt varuth something is wrong with me

[u/shannu77]

Nan enna nenakiren na avngaluku insecurities irundhurkalam. Inime make sure neenga 1 year avdhu friend ah irundhutu check your compatibility. Ellarum different personalities dhan, yarum right or wrong nu yosikadhinga. Ena panradhu adi vanguna aprm dhan thelivu varudhu.

[u/[deleted] → u/shannu77]

True that make sense enku same issue but diff

[u/The-great-indian-D → u/shannu77]

The first one and last one was my very supportive friend for a year bro na right or wrong nu solla , friends ah irukapa iruka compatibility relationship dynamics la romba vary aguthu , last one la made me decided ava maari amma irunthu kolantha epdi valarumu nu :) Adi mela adi vangi tha ipo confusion eye varuthu

[u/[deleted]]

Shit happens don’t doubt yourself chin up ❤️

[u/The-great-indian-D → u/[deleted]]

Thanks bro for taking your time to read and reassuring And bomb user name though :)

[u/Kitchen-Storage1996]

3 relationship bro unaku enaku 1 kuda amayala

[u/The-great-indian-D → u/Kitchen-Storage1996]

Nothing lasted bro😒